I was with a friend today after his fiancée complained about his uncaring attitude after they fought and I know these two peeps love each other .
How do you believe the love of your life when she said a hurtful word to you when you had a fight?

How do you forgive this person even after crying for days about it? Asking for your forgiveness.

Whatver was said he couldn't even tell me and she too couldn't say it to me because it was something that bad .
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Deejavuu, TonyeBarcanista,Mizmycoli, Cherryice ,SeverusSnappe.

Tongue has no bone and it's even sharper than a sword. We should use it accordingly. Once you said something whether it's good or bad, you can't take it back again. If my partner will throw me some hurtful words, no matter how he beg I cannot forgive him anymore. Simply because there was no respect anymore and this could be even worst if the incident will reoccure again. Time to move on.

lol my brother who used hurtful words on who? I know that people may utter hurtful and reckless words when angry but we shouldn't let that to becloud the love we have for our partners.

this is no justification for verbal abuse but again... Forgiveness exists because of offence. If we don't forgive our partners then why do we claim to love them?

TonyeBarcanista:
lol my brother who used hurtful words on who? I know that people may utter hurtful and reckless words when angry but we shouldn't let that to becloud the love we have for our partners.

this is no justification for verbal abuse but again... Forgiveness exists because of offence. If we don't forgive our partners then why do we claim to love them?

There are some things you'll say to people which will create a very negative impression that is very difficult to waive aside all in the name of forgiveness. how do you cope ?

Jackrich:
There are some things you'll say to people which will create a very negative impression that is very difficult to waive aside all in the name of forgiveness. how do you cope ?

Things like what bro?

Me think it depends on what was said and what led to the subject saying it.

ForeverYoung197:
Tongue has no bone and it's even sharper than a sword. We should use it accordingly. Once you said something whether it's good or bad, you can't take it back again. If my partner will throw me some hurtful words, no matter how he beg I cannot forgive him anymore. Simply because there was no respect anymore and this could be even worst if the incident will reoccure again. Time to move on.

are u saying u dont forgive?

sometimes we forget that the ppl we utter this words to has no heart,because we wanna say wats on our mind at that time,but we are all humans.and if u believe in ur GOD and that he forgives our sins daily wen we pray to him then who am i human.wen i know i didnt create myself not to forgive the one i claim to love,no matter wat she says to me provided she asks for forgiveness.its a crazy world.huh?

there can never be such a blissful relationship if the tongue,hearts and words of both parties are not refined.how can it be refined? that's where the work of a refiner is needed.....God is the refiner.
but we have another refiner in the building