Recently in Nigeria, divorce is increasingly becoming acceptable especially amongst younger generations. I have attended the best of the best weddings in the past and hearing now that some of these marriages are on the rocks and it's deeply worrying. Couples don't marry to divorce, certain things destroy marriages beyond repair and it varies from marriage to marriage.

So NL ladies, besides domestic violence which 100% of you will mention, I wanna know the 3 major things that will make you INSTANTLY want a divorce. You can use the list below or name yours. Give reasons if you can.

- Infidelity
- Unemployment/low income
- Poor communication
- Over submissiveness (i.e. becoming a doormat)
- Adding excessive weight
- Poor sex (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, very tiny tool etc.)
- Over-dedication to his work and very little free time
- Infertility
- Too controlling
- Too clingy
- Excessive smoking and/or drinking
- Marrying a second wife

Note: By choosing your top 3, it doesn't imply you can tolerate the other ones...it's just TOP 3.

Divorce a fling in time saves nine....

Ladies are pretty ignorant when it comes to matters of the heart... Maybe its because nature does not favor them or its because they do not want to favor themselves... But everyone has the power of their own future...