There's this lady next door tho i can't really say we r close bt we relate well, she happens to be a baby mama to a married man who only visits weekdays (not every).
Couple of days ago she asked if I heard her voice during d nyt, i said 'no' why did she ask?
She said d other nyt she nd her man were in d room playing games on d man's fone till late in d night b4 d man slept off leaving his fone wit her thereby givin her an opportunity to quikly go tru d man's fone nd wat she found was a shocker. She opened his Whatsapp to read a convo btw him nd a particular lady in which d man refered to d lady as 'my life nd joy' nd even told d lady he misses their sexcapedes nd more, she also went thru d pics album nd was shocked to discover dat not a single one of her pic was on his fone bt hundreds of d other lady littered d album @ different occasions/locations nd jst one pic of d man's first wife.
She felt so cheated nd distraught.
Nw she's asking if she shld call d lady nd blast her or...
Matured advice needed pls.

Blast gini my dear,one of the terms & Conditions to :-baby mamarism is 'Never Snoop!, but whenever you do, what you see Is what you get.
If she decides to blast the said lady, abeg what should the real wife do.

She sef wan catch emotions

Call the lady and blast her...? Such a dunce. No wonder she's someone's spare tyre. Actually, a second spare tyre.

The man she took to be a future partner doesn't even deem her worthy as a side chick. She was just fortunate or unfortunate to have a baby for him.
If your story is true, I will just quit being ""neighborly" with her. What a dunce. Ignorance in such extremes have a way of rubbing off on people around such a person.

Op, blast ke, na her husband? She and the lady are the ones to receive blasting from the man's wife

Op,are you sure this is not you?
A babymama to a married man feeling so cheated and distraught because she saw pictures of the man and another lady?

O dighi ihe anyi ga-adighi ahu!

So what help do we render Op?

Stop lying

D help she needs is ur advice which av done already bt dis one no wan hear, she told me d man already begged her nd d mistake d man made was asking her to pls not call d lady as he was only leading d lady on bcs she was owing him a certain amount of money dat he's not ready to let go of bt i smell lies. She actually gav me a pen nd paper to help her put down insults, lol

That was y i said we were not close we are jst 'there' neighbor nd dat was bcs my hubby neva really liked my associating wit neighbors nd moreso im a kind of person who dnt engage in petty talks. Im even happy 2day bcs i didn't oblige her request of helping her write d insultive text bcs i see her all over d man meaning she's been brainwashed as usual nd im sure she wil relate evryones contribution to him, she's dat gullible...

Person wey see something for road, wey wan die on top am, Wetin make the person wey lost the thing come do?? ...................... she really needs help

She even threatened stretching her leg out too (if u get my meaning),

Tell her to blast herself for being the man's fooool.

She made a great mistake by flipping through the man's privacy but will now have to live as a dunce knowing she has only the man's child.

She should not dare mess herself up by making any yeye call or else she may have seen the last of the lover boy.

The only help she needs is to visit Yaba left.

she sud b blasted.......she sud find d way 4ward....

Lol

Un4tunately she doesnt see any way 4ward for herself. I guess her whole life revolves around d man bcs anytym d man makes his epic appearance u'll notice dis lady grinning frm ear to ear.

[quote author=thorpido post=47107992]Op,are you sure this is not you?
A babymama to a married man feeling so cheated and distraught because she saw pictures of the man and another lady?

O dighi ihe anyi ga-adighi ahu!

So what help do we render Op?[/quot
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You spoke my mind , women can lie

Op is definitely the babe mama

hence she is trying to avoid bashing so she has got to lie

tell her to blast Na and get red eye as a reward. Shey the man Na her husband?

Non.s.e.nse!!!

Hmmmm, if a person that found a gem wants to kill herself because of it, what should the original owner do? Madam pls park well! The bobo isn't yours in the first place.

My advice: try to keep your child in the loop by making sure bobo continues to take care of him ,stay out of trouble with the harem and look out for yourself. Guy clearly doesn't love you...swallow the pill babes. The new babe will soon be old too

I prolly would av apprec8ted ur comment more if dis was abt me bt thnks anyways.

Lol! Oh my

Such an entertaining thread. The word blast don suffer...

The lady is really dim. So you have no advise for her as a married woman that you are?

When she already knew the man was married and yet opened her legs for him, she didn't feel anything for the wife. Now she felt cheated?

She never see anything

all this irresponsible men sef :-

: ..close leg una no go gree...Na to carry Nyash and boobs hup Han down wear half yard skirt...dey waka d whole Lagos state..... ..if huna like make huna dey sell huna ttotto for chewing gum price.

: ..close leg una no go gree...Na to carry Nyash and boobs hup Han down wear half yard skirt...dey waka d whole Lagos state..... ..if huna like make huna dey sell huna ttotto for chewing gum price for jumai or konga

I did already, i advised her not to bt it seems it dint go down well wit her nd dat was y i brought it here maybe i was wrong. Till nw i neva askd her if she went ahead wit it or not bcs i knw d ans already as she surrounds herself wit hypocrites nd gluttons in d person of her big sister nd so called frnds.

byvan03:
The lady is really dim. So you have no advise for her as a married woman that you are?

Dim ke? This is all shades of hilarious

A baby mama to a married man jealous of another woman?

And the wife of the man would claim she is married?

The wife want to do jazz for what? Have the man solely to herself? Drive away the third woman?

This is nollywood worthy

Na wa oooooo. Oh she can feel this way right? Has she ever considered the first wife feelings? what she went through sharing her husband with her? She born pikin for another woman husband now she is unhappy because she is being fed with her own food. Shameless woman, the rod wey dem take beat the first wife e dey up dey wait for the next one. She deserved that and more. Nonsense