I packed into a new compond last week. Everybody is okay or minding their business which i like about the place because i like to mind my business too. But there is this family that has a child that don't have single respect in her.

One instance is when i washed my cloth and spread on the wire. When she washed her own she pile my wet cloth on each other and spread her own. i didnt say anything.

second time is when i kept my rat gum in front of my house and went to get pipe to remove the rat. she was sweeping and swept sand all over the gum and useless it. when i protest she said it is a mistake and she is not going to apologize for an ordinary mistake. i almost flog her with the pipe.

This is a girl of 22 that claim to be a graduate but no sense at her age. I dont want to involve the parents but i want to find a way to deal with her and teach her respect for the elderly. how do i go about this?

space booked

Op, from the tone of your write up, I think you are single

You can't blame the poor girl for youthful exuberance or youthful inquisitiveness, it a way of trying to figure out who you are.

Besides, who knows if u are already giving the impression that you have a big banana and the little girl has been praying for the fulfilment of Davido's song in her life .

So, let banana fall on her!

deal with her thoroughly in accordance with the ehm.....

tie her with rope

This will be interesting. Wanna learn too.

decatalyst:
Op, from the tone of your write up, I think you are single

You can't blame the poor girl for youthful exuberance or youthful inquisitiveness, it a way of trying to figure out who you are.

Besides, who knows if u are already giving the impression that you have a big banana and the little girl has been praying for the fulfilment of Davido's song in her life .

So, let banana fall on her!

please nothing like this.

dayo2me:
deal with her thoroughly in accordance with the ehm.....

in accordance with what?

stressedout:
in accordance with what?

with what she did of course.

The girl likes you, she wants you to notice her but too prideful to make a direct move

Oga, biko respect yourself before them wash you for the new house o. The line you spread your cloths on was hung by you? Biko, go and find a space to raise yours.

Then learn to greet them curtly and absolutely mind your business. You shouldn't get yourself saddled with other people's disrespectful children .

sisisioge:


Oga, biko respect yourself before them wash you for the new house o. The line you spread your cloths on was hung by you? Biko, go and find a space to raise yours.

Then learn to greet them curtly and absolutely mind your business. You shouldn't get yourself saddled with other people's disrespectful children .

The said 'child' is 22. That's a grown ass adult.

Stressedout report to her parents. It's not hard na

A 22 yrs old is definitely not a child

A 22yrs old girl isn't a child. Deduced from your write up, I think the girl is just seeking an attention from you. If you like her, give her a hint.

Ishilove:

The said 'child' is 22. That's a grown ass adult.

Stressedout report to her parents. It's not hard na

Wetin he wan report? Let him stay in his room biko.

sisisioge:


Wetin he wan report? Let him stay in his room biko.

Ha, he should report her so that when sheet hits the roof her parents will know that water don pass gari. If he wozes her, people will ask him 'why didn't you report?'

I can't stand rude people and I will do what I have advised him if I were in his shoes.

The best way to deal with this situation is to hit the ignore button.....Stooping a little bit low to her level is not an option here.......she is into you....It's up to you to show some class or not to...Remember, dating a neighbor got a lot of disadvantage.

Ishilove:

Ha, he should report her so that when sheet hits the roof her parents will know that water don pass gari. If he wozes her, people will ask him 'why didn't you report?'

I can't stand rude people and I will do what I have advised him if I were in his shoes.

OK o. If I were him, anything she does will no longer be acknowledged. Nothing go reach level wey I go wan woz am. As I don know say she be rudie...I go just gently mind my own. Besides, the girl fit dey crush on am sef

Richy4:
The best way to deal with this situation is to hit the ignore button.....Stooping a little bit low to her level is not an option here.......she is into you....It's up to you to show some class or not to...Remember, dating a neighbor got a lot of disadvantage.

HenryDion:
A 22yrs old girl isn't a child. Deduced from your write up, I think the girl is just seeking an attention from you. If you like her, give her a hint.

Jiang:
The girl likes you, she wants you to notice her but too prideful to make a direct move

i never saw it like that o. what you guys said might be true but i dont want to involve myslef with anybody in that compound not to talk of a girl still living with her parents.

Ishilove:

Ha, he should report her so that when sheet hits the roof her parents will know that water don pass gari. If he wozes her, people will ask him 'why didn't you report?'

I can't stand rude people and I will do what I have advised him if I were in his shoes.

i dont really relate with the parents. just normal everyday greeting. this is not the kind of things i want to talk with them on first discussion as the look like petty things.

sisisioge:


OK o. If I were him, anything she does will no longer be acknowledged. Nothing go reach level wey I go wan woz am. As I don know say she be rudie...I go just gently mind my own. Besides, the girl fit dey crush on am sef

let me try ignoring her for now. i like to mind my business . thanks

Oga three spoons of milk

You Don rent house now now or squatting with another family? If you are squatting with someone jokingly bring up her insubordination and antics to the main house owner and watch their reaction. That should give you pointers on your next step. No go fight/invite trouble that would get you thrown out again.

However, if you rented your own house then go report her to her dad

It's the 3 spoons of milk guy

stressedout:
i want to find a way to deal with her and teach her respect for the elderly. how do i go about this?

stressedout:
i never saw it like that o. what you guys said might be true but i dont want to involve myslef with anybody in that compound not to talk of a girl still living with her parents.

I'm glad for you

ifyalways:
Oga three spoons of milk

You Don rent house now now or squatting with another family? If you are squatting with someone jokingly bring up her insubordination and antics to the main house owner and watch their reaction. That should give you pointers on your next step. No go fight/invite trouble that would get you thrown out again.

However, if you rented your own house then go report her to her dad

of course its my personal house. i even have generator.

lepasharon:

you see what am talking about. No respect

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HenryDion:
A 22yrs old girl isn't a child. Deduced from your write up, I think the girl is just seeking an attention from you. If you like her, give her a hint.

you guys didnt read where he said he is elderly?

Milk man, you seem to complain often. Didn't you just get thrown out of someone else's home? Please remain quiet for a while, before you are thrown out again. What if you are accused of sexual harassment? Stay away from the young WOMAN.