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Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by Vivos: 8:16pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Have u tried talking to her about it,tell her how she hurt u with that statement and ask the reason she made the she made that statement,communication in a relationship helps as well. Also if she's really managing u, I think it's better to end it now,5yrs is nothing compared to a life time of torture if she's not meant for you, there's someome out there who will love n cherish u for who u are, the ball is in your court,hope you make the right decision. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by omochelsea004(m): 8:53pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Vivos:Thanks, i really appreciate |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by TuneChi369(m): 1:03am On Jul 04, 2016 |
jenigurl:Real talk Dear,real talk |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by Kakamorufu(m): 5:41am On Jul 04, 2016 |
omochelsea004:she's just using you to qchieve her aim, once she's done with her HND, she will leave you |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by Kakamorufu(m): 5:44am On Jul 04, 2016 |
omochelsea004:so because you have invested mean you have to get something from her in the end, it dosen't work that way these days. Look at it from another angle, she's secretely engaged to another guy, and after her programme, gets married to him and leave u in a limbo. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by Nobody: 5:58am On Jul 04, 2016 |
That is called one chance you are know in oyo big time. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by Nobody: 6:54am On Jul 04, 2016 |
H6 omochelsea004:pussycat niggaz are here again, waiting for Paulkillerman to come advice them... Anyway nigga, this is what I'll be writing for the umpteenth time... Women are only used for sex... Anyway, we can leave that... I'll advice, u tell her how u feel... But then again, if only u knew how many niggaz are shagging that biitch with you, you will have a rethink... If u stay in PH city, I'll advice u PM me her pic, she might be one of my buddy calls... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by saintdennis(m): 8:02am On Jul 04, 2016 |
@OP the fact that u can't even consider leavin her proves SHE'S REALLY MANAGING YOU. You're below her class and indeed lucky to have her. #NoSelfEsteem dumbo like you. Mtcheeeeew. If you were really a man u woulda give a very hot verbal-slap. Like "no wonder!!!!!!!... my friends and family are always telling me not to MARRY you, cos they felt u were just hanging around me till u meet ur dream guy". Walahi talai she go begin dey beg, explain wetin she mean "managing u" |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by ivyy(f): 8:04am On Jul 04, 2016 |
Better to move on now than go into a marriage that will clearly not last. Lick your wounds and move on. 1 Like |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by sexyslim001(f): 8:08am On Jul 04, 2016 |
She's only jokin, I do tell ma hubby dat b4 we got married and he says same back too and laff over it, we dated for 5 and half and we still tell each oder dat even tho bin married so it really nothing to worry abt, and of cos u really need to manage ppl to b able to stay wit dem. So no biggie. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by Nobody: 9:46am On Jul 04, 2016 |
omochelsea004:your answer lies in this thread of mine. https://www.nairaland.com/3165525/ladies-watch-tongue-stopped-caring |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by stubbornman(m): 10:02am On Jul 04, 2016 |
guys will never hear word...don't dump her bro.... it is apparent you cant face your fears |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by Nobody: 10:16am On Jul 04, 2016 |
Lol she told you that and you're still there. Imagine my boyfriend telling me he's just managing me! What do you think I will do... I will Just walk with my 2 legs out of that fucking relationship. If you like remain there with her. You won't get the respect you deserve. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by pedrilo: 10:21am On Jul 04, 2016 |
even if ur papa na buhari, u can not utter such word to me as a lady. dats gon' hurt u so bad. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by schumastic(m): 1:09pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
omochelsea004: omochelsea as a chelsea fan n from experience i will say this, ''THE SOONER YOU DUMP HER THE BETTER''..what this lady said is the truth, forget 5yrs oo cus when a lady wants to leave you those yrs won't count.if she sees someone better she will leave you and i can bet you on that..you said you have invested in her but didn't it cross her mind before she said all those things? its a sign that she feels you are only doing your responsibility. if is the years you are looking at then you are still coming up, my ex n i broke up after 7yrs though that's a story for another day..all am saying is this, everything you have done for her would not count when she sees someone better and the years won't save the relationship from collapsing as well..you can either take the advice or leave it..i pray you don't regret it |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by schumastic(m): 1:38pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
jenigurl: i like the fact that you are real to him..yrs don't matter for ladies when they see someone better..mine ended after 7yrs due to some differences. there is this guy who have been dating his girl for 6 yrs, engaged her and did introduction. few weeks back, the lady spent four days with her fiance n left on Sunday after church service, funny part is he dropped her off at her house after the service..later at night, he saw on her friend dp, a picture of his fiancee engaged to another man with pm in quote ''she said yes to him, so happy for you bestie''...he thought it ws a joke and called his fiancee, only for her to stop picking his calls. when his friend finally reached her on phone and ask why she did what she did, she said because femi has been cheating on her all this years and she has seen someone who will make her happy for the rest of her life..a week later she still went back to her ex-fiance and had sex with him n called it goodbye sex (pls which one is goodbye sex again)..the guy is in SA now mending his heart and the girl is with her new fiance who doesn't know she cheated on him with her other man after their engagement..the years spent in a relationship will not count if a partner wants to let go, so never use that as a yard stick to continue to be in one n never stay in a relationship out of pity que sera sera |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by halfricanadian(f): 1:43pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
schumastic: that hurts that girl is nt good she can dump d present guy for anoda guy again i dont like girls like dat Why femi sef cheat on am na? If a guy cheat i move on nd wateva i do next is non of his business nt goin bck even if its construction sex or make up sex |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
omochelsea004:you deserve a hot slap because you're so stup!!!!!d, a girl you call a gf told you she's managing you and you are still considering going ahead to date her seriously? well you have been pussiiiwhipped. dummmmmbmofo, you better start seeing her as a side punk and find someonebthat will value you. You have no respect for yourself. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by halfricanadian(f): 1:51pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
I will not judge op's gf till i hear d lady side of d story op cant b a saint there must av been things op has done dat he wont say now dat made d girl make such statement. FOR EVERY ACTION COMES EQUAL OR OPPOSITE REACTION THERE MUST BE AN ACTION FIRST BEFORE REACTION SO I WILL WAIT TO HEAR FROM THE GF THE ACTION OF OP THAT BROUGHT ABOUT THAT REACTION OP U DID SOMETHING U AINT SAYING TO US. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by donbuchi1(m): 3:09pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
Vivos: Best advice... Make a mature meal out of it as advised. Let 2-3 days pass before the showdown talk. Within this period, reduce communications and interest. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by schumastic(m): 3:27pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
halfricanadian: yeah my thought as well, am not I'm support of the femi or the girl leaving him for the other guy, my only annoyance in the whole stuff is the new fiance who she cheated on..that's wa got me pissed..tomorrow it means if she v issues with her new fiance or if they r married by then, she can fall back on femi. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by halfricanadian(f): 3:30pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
schumastic: Dats if femi accepts her bck Bt most guy can sayin dey wanna purnish her like av sex nd dump her before u kno it he falls in love nd den she dumps him again circular love life |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by dobys(f): 3:54pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
[quote author=omochelsea004 post=47170378]to just dump her like that wouldn't be that easy for me at all, a relationship of 5 yrs plus no be beans oo, moreover av really invest all my life into this relationship, & this lady av really showed me so much love and care in d past, that i can't just decide to dump her just like that, only that she is hot tempered, but while i feel so depressed today is that we weren't even into any argument or fight before altering such word[/quo talk to her ask her what she mearnt. let her tell you what is paining her. ask her if she wants the relationship or not that what she said broke your hrt. u cannot na marry her cus u invested in her or cus u guys have dated for 5yrs. nahh if u marry her cus of that when she cee some1 that shes not managing she will leave you. then you wee come to nairalanders with a thread MY WIFE IS CHEATING ON ME AND I LOVE HER SOO MUCH AND HAVE INVESTED MY LIFE ON HER WHAT DOO I DO. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by schumastic(m): 4:32pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
halfricanadian: any guy who does that needs to have his head check, as for me, i believe relationship is overrated. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by halfricanadian(f): 5:11pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
schumastic: lol dats wat u say |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by Whitneysoma(f): 6:12pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
My dear women re blabber mouths dey tend to blurt out tinx dey don't mean to receive praises from der boo and to mk sure he values ha..ignore ha rantin its normal We're complicated beings and our tongues re weapons fr warfare 1 Like |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by Godmother(f): 7:59pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
Some men and inferiority complex sef. OP, if she tells you she's being managing you, you too tell her you've been managing her too naa. Haba. Tell her about the hot babes that have been hitting on you (whether its true or not) and how you said no but now realize your eff-up. The thing hurt you cos deep down you feel its true. And anyways, another thing is she may not mean it too. We women can say things that aren't true sometimes and deep down she could be dying for you. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by AfroKnight: 8:31pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
jenigurl: My dear, if I could, I would steal you away for myself. You have stated the truth. OP if you like, keep looking for reasons to hang on to a lady who is managing you. So, you are not her dream guy. Oya, ask yourself, is she your dream girl? Is she all that? Have you not met better women? Baba, let me tell you if you dont know: you are managing her too. Better look for one fine shorry on the side to replace her. A younger and better looking fresh shorry with doe eyes and high quality hips. Soon, you would be able to dismiss your "manager" without heartache. |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by omochelsea004(m): 8:36pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
Godmother:inferiority complex in what way ma? i think i knw what am saying, & even what am doing, moreover she may not even mean what she said in d 1st place as u av said, i just think it won't be fair enough for me maybe to crucify her because of little mistake, because i know dis lady really loves me a lot, she has also done so many tins for me in d past, & av even contributed immensely to the relationship to the level dat really convinced me of her genuine love for me, so my determination is not due to low self esteem, thanks 4 d advice, i really appreciate 1 Like |
Re: my wife to be told me she is just managing me evev without provoking her by joceey(m): 8:58pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
omochelsea004: Guy she dey give u red light already don't be suprised after her H N D she discharge u like used rag |
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