Telling or advising a girl or a guy not to indulge in Pre-marital sex is like telling a child not to play with toys. The only thing you can do is to let her know there is time for everything. A time to sleep, and a time to wake. And also a time to marry, and start enjoying all the things that comes with being married. And more so, majority of girls hardly enjoy sex outside the bonds of marriage. Cos pre-marital sex usually takes place by sneaking around in hidden places, dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy, STIs and feelings of guilt afterwards. All these worrisome factors undermine the pleasure in pre-marital sex, most especially in girls/women.

So, why 'taste' it now, when you can enjoy it later

And everyone is getting really obsessed with sex nowadays. No thanks to social networks and media.

marvelck:
Telling or advising a girl or a guy not to indulge in Pre-marital sex is like telling a child not to play with toys. The only thing you can do is to let her know there is time for everything. A time to sleep, and a time to wake. And also a time to marry, and start enjoying all the things that comes with being married.

U mean it's more like telling a child not to play with fire. Cuz that's what pre-marital sex is.

Why should anyone tell another to stop having something as pleasurable as sex? They should as well tell them to stop eating and abdicate all their leisure habits.

Anyone who tells me to stop having sex doesn't like my well-being, and has left cracks on our friendship, even as they know the health benefits associated with sex is immeasurable.

ikbnice:
And everyone is getting really obsessed with sex nowadays. No thanks to social networks and media.

As in eh. sex dis sex dat

marvelck:
Telling or advising a girl or a guy not to indulge in Pre-marital sex is like telling a child not to play with toys. The only thing you can do is to let her know there is time for everything. A time to sleep, and a time to wake. And also a time to marry, and start enjoying all the things that comes with being married. And more so, majority of girls hardly enjoy sex outside the bonds of marriage. Cos pre-marital sex usually takes place by sneaking around in hidden places, dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy, STIs and feelings of guilt afterwards. All these worrisome factors undermine the pleasure in pre-marital sex, most especially in girls/women.

So, why 'taste' it now, when you can enjoy it later

Story for tortoise !

I don't mean to be immoral, but what you said doesn't apply to even 40% of girls in Nigeria.

Women love sex outside marriage and enjoy it, as long as their partner has serious plans in settling down with them. (They are secured)

Moreso, the times of Dating a girl is more fun than after marriage itself, because the value of the girl might have dropped in your eyes.

Most marriages are boring, the things couples do when they date is no longer there !

Sex sex sex everywhere. Whats with the hype? So many perverts

Perverts everywhere. Vasline crew everywhere. I tink dey wil soon legalize human-vasline marriage. Ppl go marry vasline, y tink of sex all time?

I just kee thanking God that I don't indulge in this act.
Maybe His blessing wouldn't have been evident in my life because there'll be none. But its no easy.