The women love to be wooed. They want to be pursued. They want to be courted. They want men to try and win their affection. It's a great psychological game that both men and women play. The winners enjoy it; the losers end up wondering what went wrong.

To end up as winner men need to understand what women want. Here is a list of seven qualities that every woman expects to see in their men;

1. Well groomed: Just as men like their women to be pretty, women like their men to be well groomed. They expect their men to be courteous, well behaved and well mannered.

2. Good listener: Should men do what women want? All women want their men to pay attention to what they are saying. Men may not agree with their thinking but they should not make the mistake of looking bored or causal. They must pay attention, even if they don't intend to do what their women want.

3. Good in bed: Every woman wants her man to be good in bed. They want to be aroused, and to be sexually fulfilled. The relationship has to be equal in the bed. The man must make an honest effort to fulfill the sexual needs of his woman and not force her.

4. Honesty and sincerity: Two qualities that women value in their men are honesty and sincerity. They don't want their men to cheat on them or to hold back anything from them. They would like to be equal partners in both the joys and sorrows of their men. Very often men try to hold back their problems related to work or their finances. This is not a good policy. Women feel more wanted and involved when their men take them into confidence.

5. Stable career: Women want stability in their lives. They don't want to be in a situation where they are forced to scrounge for favors. They would like their men to take care of all basic necessities of life. They would therefore prefer men who are successful and well organized. However, this does not mean that they want to hook the rich and the well placed. This is a wrong notion. Money and success alone is not enough to satisfy a woman.

6. Love for surprises: surprise your woman every now and then... Take her out to fun places, and buy her gifts unexpectedly. Meeting indoors every time could become boring. Spice things up!

7. Intelligent and witty: Women like their men to charm them. They would like them to be intelligent and witty, who can liven up the evenings and make a room come alive and also be able to sustain a conversation. Men who are dull and boring or too obsessed with their own selves are unlikely to attract women.

we don hear

Valid points.... however, most ladies do not even know what they want
Today peter, tomorrow Paul and so the circle continues

Vendoor:
Valid points.... however, most ladies do not even know what they want
Today peter, tomorrow Paul and so the circle continues

Word Sistuh! right on the money.... You will do a these and much much more it wont stop her from screwing around and you wonder WTF the bítch be looking fo'

Only if they'll listen

Guy only vintage girlfriends want such guys those girls with wings want the bad boys, the one who lies without blinking who cheats infact those are the fun guys, not the mr niceguy you described who girls mostly use and dump

noted

that's a good one

dauntless15:
Guy only vintage girlfriends want such guys those girls with wings want the bad boys, the one who lies without blinking who cheats infact those are the fun guys, not the mr niceguy you described who girls mostly use and dump

no girl will use & dump a guy with all these attributes

rawpadgin:
no girl will use & dump a guy with all these attributes

really?? Who r d ppl girls call magas, be mr niceguy and see you in frienzone in the next 20mins

dauntless15:
really?? Who r d ppl girls call magas, be mr niceguy and see you in frienzone in the next 20mins

brother, sometimes they will wanna take ur being nice for granted but once u show them that u being nice doesn't mean u take sh1t, they also re-adjust demselves

Talking from experience dude

rawpadgin:
brother, sometimes they will wanna take ur being nice for granted but once u show them that u being nice doesn't mean u take sh1t, they also re-adjust demselves

Talking from experience dude

talking from experience as well

dauntless15:
talking from experience as well

perhaps, u are always being nice & soft u don't play the no nonsense guy with them

Babzilla:


Word Sistuh! right on the money.... You will do a these and much much more it wont stop her from screwing around and you wonder WTF the bítch be looking fo'

LOL. Wrong! The operative word here is "woman", not bìtch or girl. Real women have self-respect & won't be caught bed-hopping like a flea because they've "studied" men. So they become very picky about the kind of men they associate themselves with.

rawpadgin:
perhaps, u are always being nice & soft u don't play the no nonsense guy with them

is that not what i told you? Always bieng nice is bad in relationships

dauntless15:
is that not what i told you? Always bieng nice is bad in relationships

u said being nice is bad

PunkyV:


LOL. Wrong! The operative word here is "woman", not bìtch or girl. Real women have self-respect & won't be caught bed-hopping like a flea because they've "studied" men. So they become very picky about the kind of men they associatme themselves with.

Of course its not all girls sadly you cant tell at a glance who is the real deal

rawpadgin:
u said being nice is bad

its same thing

Babzilla:


Of course its not all girls sadly you cant tell at a glance who is the real deal

That's where the "studying" comes in Come on Babz, I'm sure you've been in the game for a while now to know some of the signs of unserious people.

responsible girls with sense.. will appreciate a guy with such qualities.... but it's quite unfortunate that there are so many irresponsible ones around that will rather behave or act otherwise when such a guy comes their way!! have money.. big money... more money... and u automatically posseses all d above listed qualities 2 some of them.

rawpadgin:
no girl will use & dump a guy with all these attributes

Hahahahahahaha
You must be a learner

PunkyV:


That's where the "studying" comes in Come on Babz, I'm sure you've been in the game for a while now to know some of the signs of unserious people.

True there Punky. patience amd studying

Dudes don't waste your time pleasing a woman, because the True love of a Woman is free of charge, because that's the only part of a woman you can't buy with silver and gold. You can buy her body And her pusssyyyy,you can buy gifts and jewelries for her, believe me or not it won't make her love you...... You can't buy her Love, so be wise, right from the creation of the World women have always been complicated. The love of a Woman is free of charge!!! It comes naturally.

luisina:
The women love to be wooed. They want to be pursued. They want to be courted. They want men to try and win their affection. It's a great psychological game that both men and women play. The winners enjoy it; the losers end up wondering what went wrong.

To end up as winner men need to understand what women want. Here is a list of seven qualities that every woman expects to see in their men;

1. Well groomed: Just as men like their women to be pretty, women like their men to be well groomed. They expect their men to be courteous, well behaved and well mannered.

2. Good listener: Should men do what women want? All women want their men to pay attention to what they are saying. Men may not agree with their thinking but they should not make the mistake of looking bored or causal. They must pay attention, even if they don't intend to do what their women want.

3. Good in bed: Every woman wants her man to be good in bed. They want to be aroused, and to be sexually fulfilled. The relationship has to be equal in the bed. The man must make an honest effort to fulfill the sexual needs of his woman and not force her.

4. Honesty and sincerity: Two qualities that women value in their men are honesty and sincerity. They don't want their men to cheat on them or to hold back anything from them. They would like to be equal partners in both the joys and sorrows of their men. Very often men try to hold back their problems related to work or their finances. This is not a good policy. Women feel more wanted and involved when their men take them into confidence.

5. Stable career: Women want stability in their lives. They don't want to be in a situation where they are forced to scrounge for favors. They would like their men to take care of all basic necessities of life. They would therefore prefer men who are successful and well organized. However, this does not mean that they want to hook the rich and the well placed. This is a wrong notion. Money and success alone is not enough to satisfy a woman.

6. Love for surprises: surprise your woman every now and then... Take her out to fun places, and buy her gifts unexpectedly. Meeting indoors every time could become boring. Spice things up!

7. Intelligent and witty: Women like their men to charm them. They would like them to be intelligent and witty, who can liven up the evenings and make a room come alive and also be able to sustain a conversation. Men who are dull and boring or too obsessed with their own selves are unlikely to attract women.

I will take this with a pinch of salt, even women themselves are confused and don't know what they want, do you know how many times I've read things like this or hreard things like this from women only for them to date jerks.

luisina:
The women love to be wooed. They want to be pursued. They want to be courted. They want men to try and win their affection. It's a great psychological game that both men and women play. The winners enjoy it; the losers end up wondering what went wrong.

To end up as winner men need to understand what women want. Here is a list of seven qualities that every woman expects to see in their men;

1. Well groomed: Just as men like their women to be pretty, women like their men to be well groomed. They expect their men to be courteous, well behaved and well mannered.

2. Good listener: Should men do what women want? All women want their men to pay attention to what they are saying. Men may not agree with their thinking but they should not make the mistake of looking bored or causal. They must pay attention, even if they don't intend to do what their women want.

3. Good in bed: Every woman wants her man to be good in bed. They want to be aroused, and to be sexually fulfilled. The relationship has to be equal in the bed. The man must make an honest effort to fulfill the sexual needs of his woman and not force her.

4. Honesty and sincerity: Two qualities that women value in their men are honesty and sincerity. They don't want their men to cheat on them or to hold back anything from them. They would like to be equal partners in both the joys and sorrows of their men. Very often men try to hold back their problems related to work or their finances. This is not a good policy. Women feel more wanted and involved when their men take them into confidence.

5. Stable career: Women want stability in their lives. They don't want to be in a situation where they are forced to scrounge for favors. They would like their men to take care of all basic necessities of life. They would therefore prefer men who are successful and well organized. However, this does not mean that they want to hook the rich and the well placed. This is a wrong notion. Money and success alone is not enough to satisfy a woman.

6. Love for surprises: surprise your woman every now and then... Take her out to fun places, and buy her gifts unexpectedly. Meeting indoors every time could become boring. Spice things up!

7. Intelligent and witty: Women like their men to charm them. They would like them to be intelligent and witty, who can liven up the evenings and make a room come alive and also be able to sustain a conversation. Men who are dull and boring or too obsessed with their own selves are unlikely to attract women.

Ain't we tired of these rubbish, endless lists..?
Please mould a husband for urself, if u can't catch one.
No valid MAN has time for this time-consuming, non- profit making venture.

A man needs more time to make CASH, not these stunted write-ups, because that's the only LANGUAGE ladies understand.
Ladies can wed anything including CROPS, provided the CASH is there

All this shit are hogwash you need to read the Rational Male, only time women actually follow this is when she's spent so much time playing the fields and suddenly realize time is no longer on her side or a genuinely matured lady (which is rare anyway). I got love for women but you guys are just too confused and not logical. The same Babes telling me they are looking for Mr nice guy will end up discarding the guy for someone interesting and exciting.

EVILFOREST:

Ain't we tired of these rubbish, endless lists..?
Please mould a husband for urself, if u can't catch one.
No valid MAN has time for this time consuming, non- profit making venture.

Bartender please one origin for this man, thank you my bro, I've learnt taking your career seriously is a better decision, although balance is key, but every time it's how to treat a woman happy, what a woman wants , how to make her happy. Yawn no one got time for that unless she's my wife

Vendoor:
Valid points.... however, most ladies do not even know what they want
Today peter, tomorrow Paul and so the circle continues

Lol.. haba

rawpadgin:
brother, sometimes they will wanna take ur being nice for granted but once u show them that u being nice doesn't mean u take sh1t, they also re-adjust demselves

Talking from experience dude

You have probably have been meeting the wrong ladies

PunkyV:


That's where the "studying" comes in Come on Babz, I'm sure you've been in the game for a while now to know some of the signs of unserious people.

Lol..

gocac:
Dudes don't waste your time pleasing a woman, because the True love of a Woman is free of charge, because that's the only part of a woman you can't buy with silver and gold. You can buy her body And her pusssyyyy,you can buy gifts and jewelries for her, believe me or not it won't make her love you...... You can't buy her Love, so be wise, right from the creation of the World women have always been complicated. The love of a Woman is free of charge!!! It comes naturally.

Wise? True, u can't buy a woman's love, but then again, acting all smart isnt the right way to handle a relationship , stinginess too don't help!

pcguru1:


I will take this with a pinch of salt, even women themselves are confused and don't know what they want, do you know how many times I've read things like this or hreard things like this from women only for them to date jerks.

Im sorry dear but matured lady sees these qualities in a man and stay. Not young girls exhibiting youthful exuberance