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Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 8:23am On Jul 09, 2016 |
uplawal: until she gets married ke? Na she be the only orphan in the Nigeria? who pity don epp or you want to send her some money? |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by byvan03: 8:31am On Jul 09, 2016 |
AngelAhnie: No I didn't sort in school, do you have a problem with brilliant people? Why enrol in a school if you can't study? Are you the OP? Please drop your bit and move on Mrs Sabinus. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by AngelAhnie(f): 8:35am On Jul 09, 2016 |
byvan03:Brilliant person yet you didn't read the post before commenting. I'm not the op but a concerned person that feels her plight. Good morning byvan ! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by 2sexynet: 8:37am On Jul 09, 2016 |
freecocoa:LMAO... easy on the liquor o. I wonder how you guys enjoy alcohol. I never really like that thing no matter how I try because of the way it makes me feel. |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by robosky02(m): 8:39am On Jul 09, 2016 |
hello AngelAhnie: |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by AngelAhnie(f): 8:42am On Jul 09, 2016 |
robosky02:Bosky Good morning dear |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Filmewell(f): 8:48am On Jul 09, 2016 |
One thing i noticed from your post or say your person is that you lie. Thats why there is so much inconsistencies with your story. |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by mimicue(f): 8:57am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Well the problem lies with you. And because you are dependent on them.. Two things are involved it's either the wife is tired of her husband footing your bills or then she's just trying to be wicked .. You too don't sit there crying and making excuses .. You are a student and there are opportunities, u can't wait for your brother to do every damn thing for you .. Stand up and stop being lazy and work .. There are so many. Part time jobs that students take and go to school the money might be small but it can pay little of your bills and just know that when you are done with school this your brother won't give you a dime again because he will feel u don't need money at all .. So please get busy and learn things .. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by bennyrazz: 8:58am On Jul 09, 2016 |
crackhaus:God bless you jare, i really don't know why most old female posters on this section are heartless and mean and i heard something "that is how they treat their in-laws so don't blame them" |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by dantori(m): 9:02am On Jul 09, 2016 |
humbledbyfaith:guy pls don't even contemplate taking your life just hold on a lil they will one come to kneel in your front too wia r u get in touch we could help each other some how bro |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Ahmed0336(m): 9:06am On Jul 09, 2016 |
obyrich:you did well, besides it ll enable you to plan well |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by segxi1960: 9:08am On Jul 09, 2016 |
humbledbyfaith: Talk to your pastor. |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by tabontabon: 9:11am On Jul 09, 2016 |
If There Is Any Trusted Friend Of Your Father Or Mother You Can Approach For Help,please Do. Or Go To Your Church Pastor/priest With Proof Of Your Undergraduate Status (last Semester Result) And Seek For Assistance. But Please, Do Not Portray Your Brother And His Wife Negatively. Let's Hope They Come To Their Senses And Dont Stop Being Nice To Them. Do Your Duty As A Younger Sibling. It's Only A Passing Phase In Your Life. humbledbyfaith: |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Gkemz: 9:13am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Some men behave like mumu when women are involved. Your brother may have lost his senses after taking a love portion. Forget about them and move on with your life but don't use it against him because he may not be acting with his senses since he has been providing for you and your younger ones before this woman came into his life. |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by KingBish(f): 9:14am On Jul 09, 2016 |
humbledbyfaith: Drop your brothers full name, state of residence and occupation. And same details of his wife (if you have it). This isn't ordinary and can only be resolved through extraordinary channels |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Favored4gud: 9:20am On Jul 09, 2016 |
That's the problem. My dear, yeah ppl have diff destiny and all but I tell u from experience. even my parents could not send me to sch or pay for school fees. Am a lady too, born and raised back home. I had go teach in a primary sch where I was paid almost nothing!! But I knew it was for a short time, I jus stayed focus and prayed hard. God showed mercy, things fell in the right place. n I still advise my siblings to learn a habit of not being dependent. That custom back home jus don't help. I have 2 siblings in Universites I pay school fees for. N one more who is about to enter. Am not saying one can't help. But jus don't act like it's ur right to get... It should be a thing of choice... Askmewhy: 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Favored4gud: 9:27am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Yes I do. I have been in this situation before and that's y I wrote, unless God shows mercy. The ppl I depended on and hoped will be of help turned me down. I learned the hard way. But thanks to God I am doing way better today because God showed mercy. Those same ppl now see me and thank God for me too. Cos if it was for them I would be no where! I am also a lady born and raised in Nigeria before I left. the same Merciful God showed me mercy and heard my cry. GoldenJAT: |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Favored4gud: 9:37am On Jul 09, 2016 |
I dont live in Mars, I am here on earth like u. There are no jobs back home. There are some other things that can be done, that's all I was saying. Niaja is torf and very torf. Op can teach in a small sch n save some money. We all overlook some small things. I taught in a small sch and sold home made groundnut, fufu to survive the hardship. It was torf. I have been there too. We need to learn not to depend on ppl. Maybe until it happens that ppl u depend on disappoint then we learn. I learned and I advise others I can not to. God will always show up. If he did for me, He will for the op. Op should jus let his bro be and jus look for somewhere else to channel his hard work to. InvertedHammer: 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by darlenese(f): 9:40am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Luckygurl:[/s] |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Ngokafor(f): 9:42am On Jul 09, 2016 |
....Fake ass Nigerians everywhere..see them condemning other people for being real and telling the op the practical truth..yeye folks ..well after your silly pity,how have you helped the op in PRACTICAL terms by giving her MONEY huh??...cos that is the long and short of her sob stories since this year about this same brother and sister-in-law. ..i mean this is the third lamentation thread on her so-called brother and sister-in-law this year!!!..If a final year student who claims to have seen her way through school from 200L with little or no help from her 'brother' suddenly do not know what to do when it is almost over..then the hypocritical mourners-in-chief all over this thread should kindly give her MONEY and quit whining ..WALK THE TALK AND ZIP IT!! ..As for me,there are too many real-life desperate folks in dire need of help i assist to be suckered by some phony face-less people i am not sure off...If you dont like my comnents,too bad. 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by InvertedHammer: 9:43am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Favored4gud:/ It would have been nice if you offered it as an advice instead of the condescending way you castigated in your earlier post. \ |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by darlenese(f): 9:45am On Jul 09, 2016 |
clintonsparkz: Just like ur mum! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Favored4gud: 9:46am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Yeah I wish it was like that back home too. But its not and cos we have a culture of dependency that y somethings are the way they are. I am guilty of the dependancy too till I was disappointed by them. The brother can help if he wants to help it's his choice. U would hope he should look out for the sibling but he is not, so OP can try something else. I love hardworking ppl n I don't hesitate to support one. Am sure OP, will advise anyone in this same situation, not to rely or depend on folks. For me, I don't I learned. . armyofone: 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Favored4gud: 9:49am On Jul 09, 2016 |
It was no castigation. I was jus being blunt in my first post. InvertedHammer: |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Prettiepearlz(f): 9:55am On Jul 09, 2016 |
NovusHomo:Don't get me wrong ooooooooo, yes being the fact that their parents are late, he should be in charge of their education and responsibility as the eldest brother but when he now has a wife who wouldn't allow him help her and the younger, should she continue opening post and complaining about them everytime she feels offended by them, will that help her? Haven't we seen students who have two parents alive and yet those parents refused to train them and they strived hard and worked towards success? Yes, we have and she should also join the successful crew. That's all I want. I am not blaming her. Thank you |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 9:56am On Jul 09, 2016 |
byvan03:Who is the idiot that liked this comment? 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by jeff1607(m): 10:03am On Jul 09, 2016 |
What school are u in? @ op Let's start from there and see what help can be rendered, Your fees can be delayed till when you are through with your final exams and project materials provided. After then you can sort yourself out.( uniben only) |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by okoloto: 10:04am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Next time approach and talk to him alone and not in the presence of the wife. Let the approach not make you hate your brother or the wife it may make things worst for you. Play along and pray...you are almost there. Most married women are selfish... they want the cake only for themselves and their family. A reasonable man should know that blood is thicker than water. Know that wife is the neck that carries and takes the head to what it wants to see. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by johnson232: 10:14am On Jul 09, 2016 |
semitunde:yes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by readerson(m): 10:16am On Jul 09, 2016 |
humbledbyfaith: where do you school? will end of the month be late? how can I reach u? |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Ifymma(f): 10:24am On Jul 09, 2016 |
WHOcarex:Why are you talking like this, do her know her or are you her brother's wife relation? |
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