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Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Curdlebug(m): 10:29am On Jul 09, 2016 |
johnson232:call them a clique, mean set of whatever they think they are, the cococandy or whatever lives overseas and they probably have lived good lives. Yet when a struggling orphan came, they came to judge, how can they when they have never been in her shoes. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by obyikye(f): 10:30am On Jul 09, 2016 |
op, where are u now. show face please. Let me see what can be done for you. |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by kullozone(m): 11:00am On Jul 09, 2016 |
darlenese:Sharrrap And Gerraway Jor!You Be Winch, Just Like He Said. WINCH! |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 11:13am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Oyimeoyimemua: hmmm I really feel for her a lot aha an orphan, but am scared of marriage oo my sister, am scared of so many things, am scared if my husband misbehaves people will say am a bad wife,even me as a normal f2f what I go through in the hands of my bfs younger bro is unbearable..... this is someone I have helped so many times, I remembered he once came to write his post jamb in akure and I catered for his feeding and all, he was so nice to me then , I never knew he was only pretending to me because of what he is gaining back then... .. I can swear on my life that I haven't done anything wrong to the boy now he detests me, I caught him one day, giving I and his brother cold stares because that one hugged me and pecked me on the head, my bf is the nicest human I av ever seen he helps people a lot,and I encourage him every time to do more But then again the brother hates me ,probablly because he feels am snatching his brother away from him,there was even a time he reported me to my bfs friend, I couldn't even decipher the whole report ish because that one sef was laughing when he was telling us , and that they I broke down and I cried my eyes sore if am going through this now with all the love I showed to him what will he do to me when we become in-laws, am really scared of marriage op please take heart still try to talk to your bro , and pray to God and continue your business, May God be with you, I wish I had something to give out to you, and uplawal, please stop insulting every woman and Christians for one person's comment, it's not cool..... you are not the only good wife 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by obyrich(m): 11:20am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Ahmed0336:Yes bro. But the pressure is much especially from friends and colleagues in my place of work who think I am bouyant enough to settle down. Na person wey wear shoe sabi where e dey pinch am. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by baby124: 11:45am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Never ask your brother or sibling for anything in front of their spouse. Their spouse is not related to you by blood. Why opening up your family issues to them. Learn to talk about sensitive family issues with your sibling only. |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by baby124: 12:10pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
raumdeuter:I hardly agree with you but what you said up there is the truth. However, most people start to make money and forget their responsibilities. Being a first born comes with a lot of responsibilities and any woman marrying an orphan first born who has dependent S and isolates him from them is a witch and a very very wicked person. It's obvious she will never do that to her own siblings and it's obvious she is using the fool to find her own siblings. You can't blame the brother, he is seeking love and connection with a human being. The wife provides what he thinks he lost in Jss3 when his parents died. He has no model of a good home and what is expected of him. So to keep his, he is doing what she says. This girl should have a private conversation with him and telling him that it is between the both of them only. Then she pour her heart out to him. If he still comes back and says no money, she should change her number and carry her younger brother and move on with her life. OP if you can verify your story, I will do my little part in helping you. Please don't go and marry the wrong person or depend on any man to help you. Put your problems in God's hand, Stand firm, and stay true to your user name. Those who treated you bad, God will repay them in their own coin. In future they will look for you and cry out in pain for your help. And you should do then what you feel in your heart that you should. Your brother is a fool and should invest in you. He will need your help in future and that little investment is actually insurance. One of my brother's is always there for me. There was a time that he became really stranded and this is someone that had a lot of money. He became so broke! Guess who was there to pick him up. Me! His little sister. If he did not support and love me the way he did, would he have gotten anything from me in his time of need? No. In fact I sacrificed and worked even more to provide anything he needed. And his wife never knew. It's only a foolish man that will discuss his siblings issue with his wife. Women don't do that except they don't have a choice and are sure they can get money from their husband. The least your brother is obligated to do for you is ensure you have an education and a job, and then both of you can take care of the younger one. The most he can do is sponsor your wedding and advice you on a choice of a spouse. Without your parents he is responsible for you especially you being young and in school and he can actually afford to see you through. Even if he can't he is obligated to do the little he can for you. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by otokx(m): 12:12pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
beautycrush24: Interesting |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Chukazu: 12:41pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
humbledbyfaith: this test(trial) is your 'test'imony! |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by buoye1(m): 12:43pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
cococandy:Shes really sick in the head for bringing religion into this.... Thank God for islam, thank God for Boko haram and ISIS huh? Thrash! 6 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by buoye1(m): 12:57pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
cococandy:Forget that small girl claiming she's married with kids! she's busy making foolish and unreasonable comments and profered no reasonable solution to the lady... . 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by johnson232: 1:10pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Curdlebug:true |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by WHOcarex: 1:44pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
taryour:Yes o |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by humbledbyfaith(m): 2:38pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
kuchikau:by dear thanks for your show of concern unfortunately I'm not in port Harcourt '.. thanks all the same.. |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by humbledbyfaith(m): 2:40pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
obyikye:hy dear.. |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Emrixx(f): 2:49pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
I don't know u op but I fell for u I no get money but can assist u with d little I have pls my pipo let's help dis babe 500 is not to small if we can get dat from 100persons u can drop a pm |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by humbledbyfaith(m): 2:56pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
I have been severely touched by comments here..
I thank all those who have in one way and another advised me positively.. I can't answer all the mentions I got .. hope you guys are not vexed . God is with me and will surely be with me.. gracias deo |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by babie78: 3:25pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
There is something about this post that does not ring true. If the lady learnt hair dressing then she is not a serious person I am sorry to say. I understand she is in her final year but she cannot tell me she attends lectures 24/7 Students that plait her in school are usually amongst the most buoyant. Then don't need to pay for a shop as they would usually just move from room to room I have a young lady who does my braids and trust me she is occupied almost 24/7 as you have to call days ahead to book her service . You have been going through this hardship for 2 years and you are still whining instead of using the craft you learnt to liberate yourself. I think she is indirectly begging for money that's if it's a she oh and before anyone sends her money please verify 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by osothermal(m): 5:01pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
why are people castigating this young lady? it has happened to me i finished my youth service july 2nd 2015 and needed a job badly, i stayed with my elder brother and his wife in abuja about for a while . meanwhile i knew it would be somehow but i was determined to bear anything .she really showed herself .she cooks at her desired time but wetin concern me cos i knew were i was going to ,sometimes she even hide bathing soaps wen but i was commited with service to God .and he rewarded me i spent exactly 3 months in dia house God gave me good job with etisalat with a furnished apartment and a car. she now call me bros .i really saw things so my sister just keep on believing God and dont confront her soon she will celebrate you 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by 2sexynet: 5:08pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
freecocoa:nairaland "wives" on the family section definition of family is different from what yo wrote up there. I won't lie to you, I detest, dislike and hate most of them. They make the family section sick with their comments. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by 2sexynet: 5:11pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
osothermal:My brother, you should know why the "wives" are attacking the op na. It's what they do the family of their husband offline. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by humbledbyfaith(m): 5:34pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
christisreal:thanks ma'am.. God will see me and my bro tru..best wishes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 5:55pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
I would bring religion to it over and over again you ignorant,no muslim would support siblings not caring for eachother and orphaned neglect,its a major sin that one can go to hellfire for,so which muslim would do such except a very few ignorant that are ignorant of the ordinance.so you know why am hammering. buoye1: |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
They should think deep,the shameless attitudes wont profit them on the longrun,as nemesis will catch their kids too. 2sexynet: |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by osothermal(m): 6:16pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
uplawal:exactly 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by cooldipo(m): 6:58pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
humbledbyfaith: Well I think you need to get off your high horse.....imagine if you don't have a senior brother... won't you live your life? If you cannot take yourself into a place you can render service be it labour or what have you for a fee then you are not helping yourself.....you want it clean and easy but you may not get it that way......you have to be desperate and keep your hustle clean..... go and work on a construction site or something.......if you know what many have to go through in and outside the country before they could stand up to counted you will understand how lucky you are........people grow up without parent or siblings and they amount to something.......your life is in your hand.....don't keep your situation to yourself in real life......meet with female Lecturer in your Uni and offer service for money.....or who knows your story may touch one of them.......service year is almost here for you.....so struggle to get yourself over the line..... avoid self pity or appealing for others pity. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by buoye1(m): 6:58pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
uplawal:Get out of my mention you f00l ,go ahead,keep displaying your foolishness on the thread, how have you helped the lady in need? No reasonable advise, no financial support! Empty barrel 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Were you bitting by a rapid dog?cos i can smell madness from you afar,i have just told you fact in my religion,pls die in your rage madman. buoye1: |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by PenAndPaper: 7:50pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Women are their own worst enemies.
I just wonder how some ladies here got married.
Op people sprewing trash at you are just pushing you to your miracle.
I pray things get better and you graduate successfully. |
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