The only thing being a first born child does to you is stress and test you.




Every first born child knows and understands this so much. The one cool thing about being a first born is the fact you pick things first, make rules that are supposed to be kept and you’re like the voice of the children in some cases.

Except that, it’s a headache and wahala from one place to another.

Here are a few experiences every firstborn goes through:

But deep down, you know you love your siblings amidst it all.



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First born=lots of responsibilities.

Tthats why in most homes, the 1st child is usually calm and cold while the 2nd and others are troublesome and lively. Except for parents that are psychologically sensitive but most parents are just typically african in thier child training

Parents make d mistake of expecting almost perfection from a child who actually still need care and pampering all bcus he/shes d 1st born. Imagine a mum beating a 4yr old child telling her that hw can ur 2yr old broda be bedwetting and u d snr too is bedwetting. Pls at what age did d mother herself stop bedwetting..maybe age 10 yet shes demanding a perfect 4yr old firstborn

RadicallyBlunt:
Tthats why in most homes, the 1st child is usually calm and cold while the 2nd and others are troublesome and lively. Except for parents that are psychologically sensitive but most parents are just typically african in thier child training

Parents make d mistake of expecting almost perfection from a child who actually still need care and pampering all bcus he/shes d 1st born. Imagine a mum beating a 4yr old child telling her that hw can ur 2yr old broda be bedwetting and u d snr too is bedwetting. Pls at what age did d mother herself stop bedwetting..maybe age 10 yet shes demanding a perfect 4yr old firstborn

that is what our parents hv impacted on us..
We hv to live with it..

i hv seen an 8yr old girl that cleans/wash d plates in their house on a daily basis and also bathe her younger 1s

Lolz, I can totally relate.

D only thing that makes me happy being d first is d love I have 4 my siblings. I can give anything 2 see dem happy & smiling always.

Imagine i have to give up furthering my education bcause of my position as d first born. Sha I'm proud of them.

akaahs:
Imagine i have to give up furthering my education bcause of my position as d first born. Sha I'm proud of them.

Is nor Eazy

Bt first born enjoy most when they are stil little. B4 the 2nd is born