opey25:
all the hadiths you quoted didnt specify where Prophet Muhammad (SAW) barred women from attending walimat nikkah. is it also prohibited for women to stay in a separate place during the walimat?

lexiconkabir:


SubhanAllah! May Allah forgive my shortcomings and everyone else, Amin. i just found an hadith in bukhari where the prophet Allowed women to attend walimat Nikkah, i guess its because i favoured some scholars over this issue, this was why i made that grave error

[size=18pt]Narrated Anas bin Malik:
Once the Prophet (ﷺ) saw some women and children coming from a wedding party. He got up energetically and happily and said, "By Allah! You (i.e., the Ansar) are the most beloved of all people to me."[/size]

Insha Allah i will modify that response and tag everyone that made comments on it.

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lexiconkabir:


SubhanAllah! May Allah forgive my shortcomings and everyone else, Amin. i just found an hadith in bukhari where the prophet Allowed women to attend walimat Nikkah, i guess its because i favoured some scholars over this issue, this was why i made that grave error

[size=18pt]Narrated Anas bin Malik:
Once the Prophet (ﷺ) saw some women and children coming from a wedding party. He got up energetically and happily and said, "By Allah! You (i.e., the Ansar) are the most beloved of all people to me."[/size]

Insha Allah i will modify that response and tag everyone that made comments on it.

easymanofdpeopl Kazrem Ameedan zeyney ismail0007 prstge007 speciallymade kayyusuf.

lexiconkabir:


SubhanAllah! May Allah forgive my shortcomings and everyone else, Amin. i just found an hadith in bukhari where the prophet Allowed women to attend walimat Nikkah, i guess its because i favoured some scholars over this issue, this was why i made that grave error

[size=18pt]Narrated Anas bin Malik:
Once the Prophet (ﷺ) saw some women and children coming from a wedding party. He got up energetically and happily and said, "By Allah! You (i.e., the Ansar) are the most beloved of all people to me."[/size]

Insha Allah i will modify that response and tag everyone that made comments on it.

easymanofdpeopl Kazrem Ameedan zeyney ismail0007 prstge007 speciallymade kayyusuf.

prstge007:

seek knowledge and explanation from the scholars, [b]coming from a party does not neccessary means they danced and got drunk...[/b]the word party here we make us ask how exactly does the arab muslims do party around that time. What was the ruling of islam on music and mixing. Becareful with using ordinary enlish for hadith and quran translation. I pray Allah grant us the full understanding of his words.

Contact17:


Can you explain more? I think there is a misunderstanding somwhere

prstge007:

seek knowledge and explanation from the scholars, coming from a party does not neccessary means they danced and got drunk...the word party here we make us ask how exactly does the arab muslims do party around that time. What was the ruling of islam on music and mixing. Becareful with using ordinary enlish for hadith and quran translation. I pray Allah grant us the full understanding of his words.

prstge007:

I don't have any interpretation, for now, my point is one cannot just say the prophet saw them coming from a party then the party was approved. what a party mean in the U.S is not the way they throw a party in Scotland or west Nigeria. One will want to know how exactly the party was organised in the Arabian peninsula at that time, what are the stand of the prophet to musical instruments, at what stage was prophethood at that time and more. Hijab using does not start exactly the same time the prophet became a prophet and so many sunnah. so there is a need for a scholar to give the best explanation of any hadith and Quran verses. Look one of the world problems today is an interpretation of Islamic scripture which are not left for those that have the knowledge. somebody will pick up the Quran and read kill them all infidels and the next thing is that he his fighting jihad. contextual meaning and the stories behind every verse is very important to fully understand the message.I don't know your level of Islamic education as mine is very small butIi believe a knowledgeable person will come up with more than one hadith which we don't even know if its daif or sahih. We are all learning and this goes on as we continue to live so please I will take the time to find out more. you should do the same too.
Marriage this days is something else , I hope we can follow the prophet steps to reap the benefit. Thank you

lexiconkabir:


Brother, i guess your problem is with the word "party", the main purpose why i brought that hadith is to establish that women can be invited to nikkah, or you dont agree with this? I didnt bring it to say, people can dance and drink to stupor, if you read my first reply on this thread, you'll know where I'm coming from. BTW the hadith is sahih(in bukhari hadith5180), i wouldve posted the Arabic version of this hadith, but i will be banned by anti-spam bot, here is a screen sshot.

lexiconkabir:


Make taubah ya akh for you just accused us of being enemies of islam out of emotions and not knowledge! Its an advice tho!

Salam.

cham007:


Extremist.