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| Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Gabaleve(m): 2:44pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
I noticed when ever am with my gf, we hardly
have to settle any quarrel, but once we are not
together, its always one quarrel after the other(on
the average of every two days). She tells me she
is tired of the persistent problem and wishes we
can put an end to it, i tell her the same, but i feel
she causes most of this little things that
degenerates into something we would later find
difficult to handle. In her own case, she feels i am
usually the cause of it as i get angry easily but
don't forgive easily.
But how will i forgive easily when she keeps
repeating little things we have quarreled about in
the past, she knows this things hurts me, but she
still repeats them and expects me to be happy
once she says sorry.
Most times i feel she does such on purpose, but
whenever i ask her after perfecting settlement
with her, she tells me she doesn't, but it really
doesn't makes sense to me.
She hates when i advice her about her mom she
says it saddens her but i only do so to help as
she doesn't have a good relationship with her
mom. I had told her i will stop advising her,but
she refused and said i should continue but
instead she keeps getting angry. 4-days ago i did
the same and she angrily shut me up, i reacted
too by logging out.
I messaged her to let her know i was sick the
next day, she called but never asked about my
health instead she acted like we have settled but
got angry again when i didn't play along.
Yesterday i tried to point out her flaws to her,but
she exploded and told me to get off her phone,
thought it was a joke until she ended the call, I
felt so humiliated, staying alone at home alone
made me feel worse so i hit the streets and
straight to the house of a girl in my church that
has been flashing the green light.
Next i decided to go hang out with friends, on my
way back home i saw a beautifully carved babe
walking my direction alone, walked up to her and
her reception was so cool that i followed her
home and spent an extra hour with her.
After about 15minutes on phone today, i was able
to convince her to pay me a visit and since she is
feeling me already, i have a feeling we going to
end up beneath the sheets. Now i don't know if i
should continue with my ailing relationship or just
go for the kill, am confused as i only have till
5pm. Nairalanders, Please your responses would
be highly appreciated.. |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Gabaleve(m): 2:48pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
I forgot to add that we are in the 3rd year now and we don't hide anything from each other, I never cheated on her, I have all the password to her social media accounts and our parents know we are in a serious relationship, I deflowered her as well. |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
D bst advice u recive is d one u gv to urslf. |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Gabaleve(m): 2:51pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
no b say I dey find front page....all I want na sincere advice. thanks. |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Nasri100(m): 2:53pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Simple, can you take it in like a man with the thought of another guy humping ur babe under the sheets now? If u cant, you're still inlove so get her back. |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Gabaleve(m): 2:54pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Manueleee: Bros if I had an idea, I won't b here..am confused... I don't know if she still loves me...but for me, I still luv her, but it makes no sense loving someone who don't luv u |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Gabaleve(m): 2:55pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by nnamdi1993: 2:58pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Its best u guys part ways...i get b in a relationship wer a gal always claims to be right |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Sexxkillz: 3:04pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Your mind has left the current relationship. Remaining there is only out of pity. It's obvious from your write up that you've been dying for an opportunity to leave this girl. You blame her for all the issues, refusing to accept and acknowledge that you get angry easily and do not forgive easily. You refuse to work on your anger issues, you blame her, you rushed to a girl in your church giving you green light blah blah blah, you met a girl yesterday and you'll be beneath the sheets with her today? Let me tell you what you've been dying to hear: "leave the relationship". Not because it wouldn't work out if you try to fix it, but because you have already deemed the relationship irreparable and nothing good will come out if you maintain that stance. In your next relationship, work on your anger issues cos it'll keep on recycling itself until you start wondering if your village people are responsible for your misfortunes. There are no perfect relationships or marriages. The perfect marriages you think you are seeing today are a result of two forgivers who offend and forgive each other easily. Remember that while you're "reading the bible" under the sheets today with the girl you met yesterday. 3 Likes |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by ebujany(m): 3:19pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Follow your heart man. Too much quarrel in a relationship is healthy. Any relationship without quarrel is heading to the rocks. Keep your relationship but at the same time do your thing out side. putting your bed in one basket is unhealthy |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Gabaleve(m): 3:31pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Sexxkillz:thanks a lot...I really hope she will agree to read the bible.... but on a more serious note u talked about forgiveness, so who should forgive the other now when I feel I am right and she feels she is right as well |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by newsphase(m): 3:39pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
I will give you two advise Here is the first one kill the relationship... that your present girlfriend needs a man that can handle her (she thinks she has arrived abi) go for this new one... if you really want to... (so that conscience would not disturb you)......... Quarellinng is good in a relationship, but when it happens consistently for just no reason (stupid reasons) we should cut it a little... Here is the second one, you can give her some space for 1 to 3 weeks, dont call her, keep your distance, be on your own (before you do it make sure you tell her that you need some space, but that you guys are still dating.) Use this time to read books on relationships and also to enjoy your life... when you are done you can come back ready for her and her drama... |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Sexxkillz: 3:40pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Gabaleve:You should lead by example. Be the man. 2 Likes |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by taemilola(f): 3:40pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Follow ur heart but go with ur brain. |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Gabaleve(m): 4:22pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Sexxkillz:tnx a lot bro |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Gabaleve(m): 4:26pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
newsphase: I am so very sure she wouldn't like the idea of giving each other some space another thing is I can't do it as well, I will always wanna know whats a up with her, except any of dis new babes help take my Mind of her |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by halfricanadian(f): 4:31pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
GO FOR THE KILL IMAGINE YOU HAVE A GF U AV NEVER SPENT 10SECS WITH BEFORE BUT YOU COULD GO SEE ANODA GIRL IN HER HOUSE U DONT LOVE UR GF NOW EX GO LET HER BE U DONT DESERVE HER ND WEN D ODA GIRL BREAKS UR HRT NEVER EVER LOOK BACK GO PLS U NEVER LOVED HER GLAD SHE TOOK A BOLD STEP TODAY |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by curvysola(f): 4:35pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
when i start quarrelling with a guy often, its because am tired! sometimes he might be correct but i will continue fighting him for no reason! most especially when he is the type that will always say sorry quick! |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by newsphase(m): 6:49pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Gabaleve: You are such a nice guy, meaning she knows that you can't do anything major. This may be why she is always bringing up the dirty attitude every time she is supposed to curb it.... Try being a man for once and you will see her melt before you |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by joceey(m): 7:39pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
curvysola: Pls can I ask you a question is it wrong for a guy to say he his sorry quickly whenever he is at fault? |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by curvysola(f): 9:24pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
joceey:very wrong! i wont respect a man that quickly says his sorry |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Gabaleve:hmm bro, if i may ask u, wot s dating? Wen d both of u are nt comparted, den u quiet. Do ur best if is nt workin out, u let her go. Call ur parent nd tel dem abt d discion u are abt to take. |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Gabaleve(m): 10:30pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Nasri100: Bros I go vex spoil things o....I can't imagine that cos am d only man she knows, she promised to keep it at that and its been like dat...but I don't even knw Wht awaits us... I don't deny d fact dat I still luv her, my problem is if she still loves me |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Gabaleve(m): 10:52pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
halfricanadian: babe ur harsh o I never told u I don't love my Bae don't misunderstand me, we have spent enuf days and nyts together. we av done everything couples do. when we together we don't have problems, dey only start when we are apart. so I still luv her very much but I don't know if she still loves me too |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by halfricanadian(f): 10:54pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Gabaleve: She doesnt nd has promised her sef never to any more So go for d kills Wen d red hair indian kill u Ur gf now ex will b ready to bury ur feelings cold blooded Chacha av fun bye |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by nuelzz04(m): 3:07am On Jul 13, 2016 |
curvysola:Na wa o.....I thought saying sorry quickly allows for peace to reign ..........madam u go like war small b dat o  |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by Gabaleve(m): 8:16am On Jul 13, 2016 |
halfricanadian:u making me look like the faulty person here from the many gals ave been with all through my life I learnt that gals don't always remember what they did during any case of misunderstanding all they remember is d guy's behavior dat hurt dem dey forget theirs ur gf slaps u or hit u,but when u retaliate , she start crying u hurt her but has forgotten she hurt u FROM WHAT UR SAYING,THAT'S UR KIND OF BEHAVIOR TOO |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by curvysola(f): 11:56am On Jul 13, 2016 |
nuelzz04:yes i do  |
| Re: Fix My 3-years Relationship Or Go For The Kill?? by nuelzz04(m): 5:00pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
curvysola:ur guy go come wit in-built AK-47 o.......dat is ur specification |
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