MY THOUGHT? Am surprise that many of us born original will want to become a duplicate just bcux we wan to fit in. Da not y u wia made, u hav dat 1 tin dat a billion peer of ya age don't have which is d originality of ya purpose .. Watch dis video he said it all

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UodCMiIF7oE

those type of ppol never get contentment in their lives..

TrapQueen77:
those type of ppol never get contentment in their lives..

Abi like the sorcery done with makeup

jomagibs:

Abi like the sorcery done with makeup

Make up? I love make up na

TrapQueen77:





Make up? I love make up na

lemi stay on be ya self

indsay said: “I love them and it’s cool to follow what celebrities have done.
Everyone talks about them that way.”

Bar manager Kate Collins, 30, from Manchester has a tiger tatt.

She said: “I love tigers so I got it done but it’s nice to say I’ve got one
just like Angelina Jolie.

“It looks stunning so I’m very happy with it.”
Copy copy cat. Sorry copy copy tiger

"Be yourself" is quite possibly the most
commonly used phrase in the history of
individualist-based advice. Be yourself. It's
such a vague adage. What does it really mean,
to be yourself? And is it really as easy as it
sounds? With the steps below, it can be.

WHO YOU ARE
Find yourself and define yourself on
your terms. Oscar Wilde once said
with his usual wit: Be yourself; everyone
else is already taken. As humorous as this
might seem, it's a basic summation of the
truth. Yet, you can't be yourself if you
don't know, understand, and accept
yourself first. It should be your primary
goal to find this out.

ERASE THE ERASABLE
Avoid fixating on the past and not
letting yourself grow. One of the
most unhealthy approaches to being
oneself is to make a decision that who you
are is defined by a moment or period of
time, after which you spend the rest of
your life trying to still be that person from
the past rather than someone who is still
you but grows with the passing of each
season and decade. Allow yourself this
space to grow, to improve, to become
wiser.

LOOK 4 YA SABIFICATE
Never stop looking for your own
strengths . Over time, these may
change and thus, so may your definition of
yourself, but never let up in focusing and
refocusing on them. They more than
adequately balance out your flaws and are
the principal reason for not comparing
yourself to others.
Comparison leads to resentment. A
person filled with resentment cannot
focus on the mantra of "be yourself"
because they are too busy hankering
after someone else!

DON'T COMPARE
Don't compare yourself to others . If
you're always striving to be someone
you're not already, you'll never be a happy
person. This comes about through
comparing yourself to others and finding
yourself wanting in certain ways. This is a
slippery slope to tread, where your thinking
will only become more and more negative.
You can always see the appearances
others wish to portray publicly but
you won't ever see what's really
going on behind their facades in their
apparently perfect world.

By comparing yourself to others, you
give their image-portrayal way too
much power and reduce your own
worth based on a mirage. It's a
useless activity that only brings
harm.

Oya continue.

NO ONE IS PERFECT [A]
Be honest and open . What have you
got to hide? We're all imperfect,
growing, learning human beings. If you feel
ashamed or insecure about any aspect of
yourself and you feel that you have to hide
those parts of you, whether physically or
emotionally then you have to come to
terms with that and learn to convert your
so-called flaws into individualistic quirks or
simply as basic, down-to-earth
acknowledgments of your own
imperfections.


Try the tactic of owning up to your
imperfections mid-argument with
someone. You will often discover that
suddenly you've removed the very
reason for stubbornly holding the line
of argument, which is often about
preserving face and not giving in. The
moment you say, "Yeah, look, I get
really irritable when the room's in a
mess too. And I acknowledge that I
shouldn't leave my clothes in a pile
on the floor and yet I do it because
that's a lazy part of myself I'm still
trying to train out of the habit. I'm
sorry. I know I could do better, and I
will try," you suddenly infuse an
argument with genuine self-honesty
that disarms the entire point of the
argument.

NO ONE IS PERFECT (B)
Relax. Stop worrying about the worst
that could happen, especially in
social situations. So what if you fall flat on
your face? Or get spinach stuck in your
teeth? Or accidentally head butt your date
when leaning in for a kiss? Learn to laugh
at yourself both when it happens and
afterward.
Turn it into a funny story that you
can share with others. It lets them
know that you're not perfect and
makes you feel more at ease, too.
It's also an attractive quality for
someone to be able to laugh at
themselves and not take themselves
too seriously!

STOP PLEASING PEOPLE (A)
Stop caring about how people
perceive you. Some of them will like
you and some of them won't. Either
attitude is as likely to be right or wrong.
It's next-to-impossible to be yourself when
you're caught up in constantly wondering
"Do they think I'm funny ? Does she think
I'm fat? Do they think I'm dumb? Am I
good/clever/popular enough to be a part
of their group of friends?" To be yourself,
you've got to let go of these concerns and
just let your behavior flow, with only your
consideration of others as a filter — not
their consideration of you.
If you change yourself for one person
or group, another person or group
may not like you, and you could go on
forever in a vicious cycle trying to
please people instead of focusing on
building up your talents and
strengths.

STOP PLEASING PEOPLE (B)
Stop being a people-pleaser . Always
wanting everyone's love and respect
is a totally pointless exercise in the end
that can harm your personal development
and confidence. Who cares what other
people say? As Eleanor Roosevelt said
once, no one can make you feel inferior
without your consent and what matters
most is that you listen to your own inner
confidence and if it's missing, that you
start developing it!
Does this mean no one's opinion in
life matters? No. It hurts if you're
socially rejected. If you're forced into
a situation where you must spend
most or all of your time among
people who can't stand you for
reasons of their own, it's dangerous
to internalize their negative ideas of
who you are. What you can do is
exercise some choice in whose
opinions you value more than others.
It's much healthier to pay attention
to people who genuinely mean you
well and who agree with you about
what you want to do with your life.