So my bud got into a strange argument with his babe which was my fault.

For background check, my buddy is the definition of a proper bad boy. Sleeps with hookers, got so many so-called girlfriends and side chicks or whatever you call them. The plus side of him is that he does really well in school. I'm not really the opposite side of him, though bit of a loner, I also like hookers and I do have side chicks but I don't make it obvious, so I'm the guy he pops up to for advice.

So his young with a silver spoon girlfriend, Kemi, 19, he loves her so much and she is really beautiful and older than her age- Tall, curvy and busty. She is the nice girl ish and always clingy to him. I do my part as the friend of a Yoruba demon to convince her that he's not cheating and really loves her.

Last week, while we were studying for our final exams, I told him a joke that Kemi (not real name) would be a hot shot when she enters Uni; guys will be around her always and bad things go on in college. We laughed. I didn't know that my friend took it serious and confronted his girlfriend later that he prefers she attends a day Poly over Babcock, and if she really loves him she will follow his advice.

Ofcourse she refused and they argued (for the first time.) She also called me crying on the phone that Segun (not real name) beat her up (few bruises and she lied about it to her family) and promised to break up if she does otherwise.

She also said she is planning to travel to her grandma's place to recuperate and live there permanently and doesn't want to see him again. She called him a beast and that she has been enduring him because of love but this was the turning point (It had to be my joke that would be the turning point.)

My friend has completely switched off and always moody.

I'm in the middle of a potential split and I feel guilty and cold.

What can I do to get them back together please?

You are very wicked for trying to get them back together! That your friend is bad news, and is also a very toxic person. If it was your sister, would you try and get her back together with this kind of dangerous guy??
Pls, this break up is the best thing to happen to this girl. Leave her alone. Let her make something of her life. Imagine he had the audacity to ask her to pick between him and the university! Abeg, who he epp

Your friend is insecure and needs to grow up. He's not best for the lady and whatever he feels for her is not Love. If you're not a bad friend you'll advise your friend to beg his girlfriend and support her dreams. Because sooner or later your guy will realise you badly advice him and he's going to hate you for life. Hence do the needful now.

juz be quiet... But if he beat his gf physically plz advice her to move on... Tats a domestic violence and he shud be penalized with his actions .

Fabulocity:
You are very wicked for trying to get them back together! That your friend is bad news, and is also a very toxic person. If it was your sister, would you try and get her back together with this kind of dangerous guy??
Pls, this break up is the best thing to happen to this girl. Leave her alone. Let her make something of her life. Imagine he had the audacity to ask her to pick between him and the university! Abeg, who he epp

I tire ooo. Someone he's not even ready to marry yet. It's funny when we date we tend to look at our partner as wife/husband. Until he/she say I Do don't ever think you own him or her.
Just like you said, she should move on. That little boy need some growing up to do

Your friend doesn't deserve any good girl. Stop feeling guilty.

Smileprince:
Your friend is insecure and needs to grow up. He's not best for the lady and whatever he feels for her is not Love. If you're not a bad friend you'll advise your friend to beg his girlfriend and support her dreams. Because sooner or later your guy will realise you badly advice him and he's going to hate you for life. Hence do the needful now.

I'm not a bad friend. I told him head on that the idea is ridiculous, but you don't know him in person so no point going into detail. He's somebody who does his own thing even after you advice him, and when you try to go deep, he becomes irritated.

your guy and ashewo be like

smithsydny:
your guy and ashewo be like

more like dis

Boring:
more like dis

Nasri100:


I'm not a bad friend. I told him head on that the idea is ridiculous, but you don't know him in person so no point going into detail. He's somebody who does his own thing even after you advice him, and when you try to go deep, he becomes irritated.

Then if you really like that girl and wants to see her progress in life. Allow her to go, and tell her to run away from your friend. He's not good enough for her. And from the look of things he's very violent. Such guys should be far away from ladies.

They are not meant to be together

Smileprince:


Then if you really like that girl and wants to see her progress in life. Allow her to go, and tell her to run away from your friend. He's not good enough for her. And from the look of things he's very violent. Such guys should be far away from ladies.

Oh.

My mouth is closed, but i know your friend just Bleep up but anyway just take a look http://www.rafikizone.tk/forum2_theme_112870387.xhtml?tema=4

lol.. that's crazy