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Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by Mintayo(m): 12:21pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Ishilove:I am telling you. Pre-wedding pictures, bridal showers and other vain lifestyles have taken over, shielding them from the main purpose of marriage. The Lady must have missed somethings when they were courting, I believe she was not sensitive enough to see the hiding characters of the man. I don't know why they didn't discuss their sexuality and other important matters before marriage. That's why I don't support courtship below 3years. I pray God help her. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by MASTERCC: 12:21pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Madam i undestand how much pain you feel The only help i can offer is this .... 08033449779 CALL THIS NO FOR COUNSELLING HIS NAME IS LOVE DR . MNJ HES POPULAR HE CAN BE OF HELP TO YOU N MANY PEOPLE PASSING INTO THE SAME HELL. God bless you God bless as many that offer help to her |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 12:22pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
One thing I. Hate is when you are trying to drag someone out of a bucket of. Water, one decides to. Jump into an ocean,wot a hell to join muslim!!!..my. Dear run for your life pls,..the man your husband. Has many troubles he is battling and feels he can use you to claim happiness at your own risk,.I. Guess that divorce will be better since you have no kid for him to. Deny any parental upbringing from both of you 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by HydrogenForest: 12:22pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
NothingLikeLove: I understand your position on divorce because you are a Christian. This is my advise to you; divorce him. There are some issues too weighty to be hidden from someone before getting married like when you know you are impotent and cannot father a child. That is a very big one and he ought to have told you this before you both got married. On the grounds of this grevious injustice, you can divorce him. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by Tunagee(m): 12:24pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
NothingLikeLove: You signed ''for better for worse'' so dont come and disturb our peace here.Bullshit! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:24pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
AngelAhnie:M? |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by thorpido(m): 12:24pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Ishilove:Ishi,they don't.This generation isn't patient enough to wait for God in matters of marriage. Why would anyone marry someone who doesn't listen to you,gets angry easily,not committed to his faith and is a wife beater?It seems people don't spend their courtship learning about the other person but just having fun. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by HydrogenForest: 12:25pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
princeFAD: GBAM! NothingLikeLove, the truth is that there was no marriage in the first place because of this level of deceit. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Walk out of that 'marriage' now that it is still early. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by clitah: 12:25pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Your biological family means much to me so i feel for them that as at now you don't know what to do. We are tired of stories of women that lost their lives from domestic violence and your case is even worse. If you die in this marriage, you will bite your fingers in deep regret even in the spirit world. Few months later, people will make your husband realise he is lonely and pronto another woman comes in while (God forbid) you rot in the grave. I am not an advocate of divorce, not in the least. I am not a female as my response have portrayed. But i will be very sad if you hang on here and swell the cases of women who have lost their lives because they want to stay or answer married. What beats my imagination is that there's nothing to hang on to.Not that wealth matters in making marriages succesful but it goes a long way not to make some living hells that they are. please move on but atva time he is not aware. Get ur things (certificates most importantly) handy as this will help you. discuss in detail with your biological family (father,mother, siblings) on this and bet me, you will be suprised the immense support you will get from them. The truth is that when the chips are down, they will be the ones to cry and mourn you and you know grief takes ages to go away if at all it does. i don't know you and i wish i can get your email so i can discuss in detail with you and possibly relate some real life experiences that started this way, got more than this and eventually led to death because the woman wanted to stay married. Take a look at your parents and the family that got you to the level you are today.Do they really deserve to lose you? Do you want to see them cry? What more can i say my sister? What more can i tell you? Please this man may turn violent in future. Please live for us all. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by Zico5(m): 12:26pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Ishilove:About the will of God just leave that,Everything in life is grace. U may move from one pastor to another, from one mountain to another, the issue is beyond that. All we need to make the right choice is God grace. |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by HydrogenForest: 12:26pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
thorpido: Honestly I just don't understand. |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by AngelAhnie(f): 12:26pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
STFUareyouG0d:I will modify |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:28pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Divorce him right away plsss 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by yomz1e(m): 12:29pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
It never ceases to amaze me how some bull$hit story copied from somewhere else and pasted here makes the 1st page, and I thought NLs are quick and smart to spot a fact from fiction.... Anyways like the person above me said bullshit....... ..bet I made you lookup... |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by adewumiopeyemi(m): 12:29pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
dont file for divorce, SAY no to divorce |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by Funkybabee(f): 12:29pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
my dear sister, your case is so scared because it seems those power that is following him want to destroy him quickly hope u understand me my advice for you is to go with fasting and prayer because u can't fight this physical if truly u are a Christian believer try to speak with God I hope u can brake that bondage may God help u to fight this battle. divorce is not a solution for every marriage problems there are something God want us to know. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by mmsen: 12:30pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Nigeria is 170 million and growing. We don't need more children, especially at the rate that Nigeria has been growing. If it's that important for the OP to raise children then adopt a child. There are plenty to choose from. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by 400billionman: 12:31pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
NothingLikeLove: He beats you. He has converted to Islam. You know Bible said the only criteria for divorce is infidelity. Were men beating their wives in bible times ? Bible also says thou shalt not kill. Beating leads to death and has happened severally. Better stay alive than dead. Nawa o. |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by 5minsmadness: 12:32pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
An0nimus: Well, someone needs check up on him to find out if he's OK. |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by adehab: 12:32pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Vincent41: Stop saying what you dont know about a Religion. Never you say Islam is Evil |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
thorpido: Bros you didn't read the part op said "During our courtship, he portrayed himself in a good light. A week after our marriage, his true colors started coming out." It's not about not listening or consulting God before marriage. It's about being able to stand temptations. We've seen many men of God with marital problems that's led many of them to divorce. We are not infallible. We are humans Men are dangerous. The can pretend for as long as possible just to get what they want. From op's post, she sounds like someone who is closed to God and must have prayed over it before getting married to him. But now that things aren't working fine, are we gonna blame God? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by dewizzy(m): 12:32pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
1984; A TRUE LIFE STORY My Mum was the first of 4 wives; 9 children from her sleepy stomach, 21 children all together. Mum with incomplete set of teeth, my father’s handiwork though. I didn’t like my mum really. She wasn’t the most beautiful of the wives, add to it, she always quarrelled with my Dad. She always botched things up, I thought. She was a virago.. Yes, that’s the word; a truculent virago. I think I preferred Mama Peter. She was the 2nd wife of my father, a very beautiful woman. Went I was young, I usually had a fair view of her bosom when she took me to bathe in the absence of my mother. At 10, mama Peter still thought I was a baby so she would take me to her bathroom; more reason I live her. She was easier on my father’s eyes than any other of his wives. Back to the story… TO READ THE FULL STORY, CLICK THE LINK BELOW: https://possiblog./2016/07/22/1984-a-true-life-story/ |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:33pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
mmsen:Ridiculous! |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by Phelicx(m): 12:33pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
driveiwe: I totally agree with you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by Safari29: 12:34pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
this is strong. Know your partner very well before getting hooked up. Divorce is not an option. its your cross so carry it. nobody force you to marry. this is why i embrace long courtship and serious observation before getting married. My advice to Op is to try tobe tolerance, am sure there are three sides to the story. All will be well in your unnionism. Ire oh |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:34pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
AngelAhnie:Maybe I should change mine to F. Can't stand me and you being same gender |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by sucess001(m): 12:37pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
FlawlesRebirth02: you english is terrible...but your face is fine...so i ll ignore your grammar... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by ClitRaider: 12:37pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
If you had test run him with a marathon sex, you would've known better. Now you've married an impotent-mohamedan, if i were you, i'd just RUN! #SexBeforeMarriage |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by fexyrich(m): 12:37pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
NothingLikeLove:This is what you get when you jump into marriage with a total stranger..You met a man today and in less than a year you got married to him.Did you seek Gods face before going into marriage with himDid you consult your pastor before taking that decisionAbi you just saw a handsome man and jumped into marriage with him like you ladies always do..So what do you want us to do now..Tell you to divorce himGod forbid..I won't be a party to that cos I don't want to go to hell for giving som1 a wrong advice..marriage is for better for worse..carry your cross and find a solution to your marital problems.Its time to run to God and seek his face for ur marriage.It is well with you |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
AngelAhnie:Yes my angel |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by Tospark(m): 12:39pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
lamideee: Have you married?? She asked for advise not mislead.. Even if she eventually dump the nigga, what assurance that the next nigga is saint.. |
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Get Cure For Low-sperm Count - Advice Needed by AngelAhnie(f): 12:41pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
STFUareyouG0d:Hahahaha...you guys started it all Change yours lemme crush my you, my gf |
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