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Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by nadigo(m): 7:21pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
baby124: Not true ma 1 Like |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by baby124: 7:23pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
[quote author=olaboy1 post=47975300][/quote] DNA only proves biological relationship, having a child and not getting married makes a child illegitimate. In some countries the child will lose rights to property and other entitlements. Your child is illegitimate if you do not marry the mother. Period. |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by olumaxi(m): 7:23pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
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Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by july66: 7:25pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Agunna1:this is an act of wickedness. He is an hungry man otherwise he shouldn't lock out your mother. He out to allow you get married & leave d house & be patient & respect your mum to grow old to join ancestors before taking possession. Anything short of that is madness & greed. 1 Like |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by skuribeebo: 7:44pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Your mum made a big mistake, she should have poisoned /killed the stupid son of a bitch. |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by olaboy1: 8:33pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Baby 124, no matter how much we try to distance you away from your African mentality that children born out of wedlock are not considered illegitimate in most of sane countries in the world, the more you shove this your jingoistic view on everyone without any credibile links of such countries, the more ignorant you appear. Pls don't use your village laws to judge the rest of the world... Thank you Someone has even quoted the section of the law that states that no children should be discriminated against as a result of how they were born, what more do you need. |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by Pillyportions(f): 8:48pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
If u dont hav any good advise to give you shut up. olumaxi: |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by baby124: 9:07pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
olaboy1:Even in your America: http://info.legalzoom.com/rights-illegitimate-children-inherit-estate-deceased-father-21154.html |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by LKO(m): 9:35pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
sotadegrt: U have limited knowledge of the Urhobo culture. Learn to walk before u run please. Female children do inherits houses and lands in Urhobo culture. But if for instance, the late man has only few houses and many kids, the male kids are usually favoured to inherit houses in the circumstance. There is no illegitimate child as far as Nigeria constitution is concerned. Whether the mother of the guy is legally married or not is immaterial. Being the first son put him in an advantaged position. Since the building has two flats, it is proper for the woman and her daughters to take one and the other given to the guy. 1 Like |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:52pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
olumaxi:Ode |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by Coolgent(m): 9:56pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
"Traditionally, they say women do not have a share in the property of a man" Which kind culture or religion is this for God sake! In Islam both Boys & gals can inherit their father/mother assets.l, Wife/husband can from each other. I.e when a man died leaving 2boys 5gals and two wives. He left an assets of 10millions The sharing formular is as follows: 1. 2wives will get 1over8 1.250millions. The remaining 8.750million divided by 14 = 625,000 2. Each gal wil get 625,000 3. Each boy wil get 1.250million. In a nutshell Male will get double of what girl wil have. This is fair enough 1 Like |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by Pidggin(f): 10:03pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
This story is obviously fabricated. Not that it cannot happen to someone in real life but the OP has fabricated this story. |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by olumaxi(m): 10:57pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx:heeya,pele o |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by olumaxi(m): 10:58pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
Pillyportions:heeya...sorry for ur loss |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by greggng: 11:54pm On Jul 28, 2016 |
I was gonna ask where is the mother of ur brother? I suspect that guy was badly treated by ur mum. No one can love u better than ur biological mum. The guy is on a revenge mission. However he is being childish. That you ve gained entrance now doesn't solve any problem. A family meeting needs to be called to settle everything including his status as the first child of ur father. You ve better start seeing him as ur big brother now. |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by cjfavour(m): 3:06am On Jul 29, 2016 |
vodutive: That's nt Igbo culture. The son or child must always go to the father. Whether married to d mother or not. Meanwhile sis, I'm an igbo man. Take my advice. Your half brother was misinformed. He does not have any right to eject your mother from the house she was living with her husband. If he tell your tenants to start paying him house rent, it will be another matter bt to eject your mother from d flat is wrong and unacceptable. Be informed dt there is a recent supreme court case dt says dt a girl child has equal right of inheriting her fathers property. Bt my own question on dt is does d supreme court have d right to change people's culture? |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by cjfavour(m): 3:13am On Jul 29, 2016 |
You're on point. baby124: |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by cjfavour(m): 3:15am On Jul 29, 2016 |
You're 100% correct. You've said it all. DLioness: 1 Like |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by olaboy1: 4:54am On Jul 29, 2016 |
Yes cjfavour the law of Nigeria supersedes any culture or traditional law. Our law makers swore to the pledge of democracy to respect and uphold the constitution of Nigeria, and not any laws in their respective villages. This case is not a village matter anyway, it's a case of legality on inheritance as enshrined in the Nigerian constitution. This is also an eye opener to many Nigerians to understand the problems of inheritance, people have been killed because of mundane things like properties, families in disarray, unending siblings rivalries. Writing a will is still the best way to go and keep all property document in the bank, not in your cupboard where one gluttonous son would lay his hand on it. Children are getting more greedy these days, rather than work hard and drive a small Toyota Corolla, they want to cruise and oppress on Range Rover sport. My father would tell us then in Yoruba (ki enikankan ma gbe oju le ogun mi) meaning no child should rely on any inheritance, he went on saying he has given us the best education anyone could have. Those words stuck in my brain and I worked harder to get to where I am today. 2 Likes |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by Chuksgeo: 8:01am On Jul 29, 2016 |
vodutive: exactly, and even if he wants to truely claim right in your late father's house, your father's brothers with your mother's consent will have to go and pay for his mother's bride price. my advise just get a good lawyer, the customary will handle this effectivelyq |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by Chuksgeo: 8:01am On Jul 29, 2016 |
vodutive: exactly, and even if he wants to truely claim right in your late father's house, your father's brothers with your mother's consent will have to go and pay for his mother's bride price. my advise just get a good lawyer, the customary will handle this effectively |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by josite: 8:02am On Jul 29, 2016 |
Out of wedlock and u are inside wedlock. He is right in locking all of u out so all of u can be outside the locked house. Yeye dey smell. He is the Dawodu.U beta beg him. Na phase one u see o. Phase two is coming |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by Chukwudi718(m): 8:02am On Jul 29, 2016 |
Will comment in a bit.. Hope my advise will be of help to you... |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by Sprintson(m): 8:03am On Jul 29, 2016 |
Op very good but you are making a very big mistake by leaving him to act before he's apprehended. Am no lawyer here but settles this issue now before it gets out of hand and know ye that he may have the support of one or two uncles so the best bet is to believe in the rule of law..sue him now since he's illegitimate and truly he's an ingrate....get a police backup.....email me on akeredolud@gmail.com Ingrates like this should not be dismissed by the wave of hand. They can go father than you can imagine |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by VajanahDischaj(f): 8:16am On Jul 29, 2016 |
DLioness:STORY STORY!!! Not in Nigeria I know of! |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by DLioness(f): 9:24am On Jul 29, 2016 |
VajanahDischaj:I am a Nigerian lawyer. U cn as well go and confirm wat I ve tld u. As a mata of fact a person cn nt be a SAN unless the prsn has undertakn pro bono cases. I dnt lik wn ppl conclude tins without confirmatn. 1 Like |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by VajanahDischaj(f): 11:19am On Jul 29, 2016 |
DLioness:all these ones are only talk for book. are u trying to say if i visit the court to open file for person wey dupe me, dem go answer me ? how many ppl don win land case with no stress?i mean those with not enough money to run around. see as our schools dey even hold our transcripts for no reason, just for us to keep on paying each time we make a request for it . why? |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by chigoizie7(m): 11:37am On Jul 29, 2016 |
Agunna1: To the best of my knowledge as regards to igbo tradition on inheritance. As long as the legally married wife of the man is still alive, she still has the custody of the house till she dies. Let your mother get the kindred to throw those tenants outta the house. Traditionally and legally, your step brother is very wrong. 2 Likes |
Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by chiochio1(m): 12:58pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
Sorry for the delay, I have not been online for days as i have been so busy handling alot of legal issues too. If You Igbo and lives within Anambra state you have to come to my office to enable me proceed with this very matter. Thank you. Barrister Steve Kadmon. |
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Re: The Son My Late Dad Had Out Of Wedlock Locked My Mum Out Of Our House, Pls Advis by KINGinVAHALA: 3:47pm On Aug 03, 2016 |
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