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Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
I don't want to open this thread, buh i couldn't bear it anymore am too emotional for this, is not by force to be friends with everyone, i choose the people i want to make friends with, buh the people i ignore, will feel hurt, from that moment, they will convince everybody that am a cultist or that i have a spreadable disease,, i came out today, and people even my close friends were avoiding me, i just don't know, is not my fault, my happiness comes first before any other thing else, am trying my best to let it go, buh the more i keep, thinking about it, is the more i keep on getting hurt, my close friends should have known me better by now, am not a cultist, am 100% fine, if am not comfortable with you, i can't be friends with you, thats what makes me an introvert, i won't change for anybody, people keep on giving me unnecessary attention, i don't like it, please what can i do about it? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by olagold79: 8:26pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
Zceesneh: If you are truly an introvert, what people feel about you will be the last thing on your mind. I used to be an extreme introvert, but now I can say I am an ambivert, regardless I careless about anybody's opinion about me. Your happiness comes first. I find happiness in the solitude of my thought, if you still crave acceptance then work on been an extrovert. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by vchykp(m): 8:36pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
i am an introvert too, i'm cool and comfortable with my nature, people mistake mine for pride and ego, but the few ones that are close to me knows how cool and funny i could be, i'm comfortable and ok with been an introvert, its really helping me maintain my self respect, so my dear BRO, i'll advice you to keep it up, don't give a shit about what people think, be your self and dont compromise who you are for no one, thats the only advice i can give you, for me i enjoy been myself. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by Nobody: 8:41pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
HMMMM |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
olagold79:thanks |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by donTbone(m): 8:51pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
Ion care what u care about other people, but this is my advice for you... Don't marry an introvert like you... For the sake of your kids and friends. #amOut. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by KnightRod(m): 9:00pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
It was hard reading that. You put a coma after almost every word, you use /am/ instead of /I'm/. But the important thing is you've passed your message. |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
donTbone:lols, am not really an introverts, buh my mom is a chronic introverts, i like that aspects of her, she keeps secret, in secondary school, am everybody's friend, introverts don't care about gossips, am an ambivert, is official |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by vicstar(m): 9:07pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
• • • • • Who gives a fuuuck about what people feel |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by Nobody: 9:09pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
KnightRod:faultfinder, thanks |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by AlienStar: 9:34pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
Well I care less 'bout what people say 'bout me. You have a single story that introverts are boring or dull people. I'm an introvert it's the one thing I won't lose for anything, most people I come across appreciates me that way. The first step you need, is to believe in yaself. You can read the book "WHY YOU ACT THE WAY YOU DO" by Tim LaHaye. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
I'm an introvert and people love me. Abi I lie? @Chiwetel You don't want to be friends with someone shouldn't make you ignore him/her. C'mon, exchanging pleasantries doesn't translate to friendship. Just some hi here, hi there wouldn't hurt. People don't hate you because you're introverted but because you ignore them. And you don't ignore them because you're an introvert but because your interpersonal relationship sucks. When you ignore people, they tend to feel you do so because you feel you're bigger than them and they aren't at your level. This makes them detest you. They also relate your bad character with their friends. So, don't be surprised that there are people you haven't met but know you and hate you already. Start working on your interpersonal relationships. When you see someone you know, even if the person pretends not to see you, call out to him/her and say hi/how far. Trust me, it's easy and you'll be happy you did. Inugo? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
iAmCharis:am not buying this, thanks, u don't expect after hurting me and painting me bad before people i haven't met before, i should say hi to them, i hold nothing against them buh they won't get my attention |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by Heromaniaa: 10:00pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
You learn to raise your middle finger often when haters dig into your business. raise it and wriggle it. |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by Nobody: 10:00pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
Zceesneh:And you didn't hurt them all the while you've been ignoring them? Okay, keep your attention. |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by chiwetel(f): 11:32pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
iAmCharis:Awwwn..the love is real like that.hope ya good? |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
chiwetel:Yea, I am. Tainx. |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by drmikeadams(m): 11:58pm On Jul 29, 2016 |
,i smoke my isshh..introverted,,.. ,people really wanna know u when ur introverted.. babes go give u green light pass red light,,,just be ya self ..you will be fine,,,so many bottled up secrets within me,imma die with em too |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by Nobody: 8:14am On Jul 30, 2016 |
iAmCharis:is not by force, not everybody talks to me, so i won't talk to everybody |
Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by johnstar(m): 8:19am On Jul 30, 2016 |
Na dm sabi o I choose to b alone
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