Good afternoon nairalanders.
I stumbled on one picture on Instagram of a guy and a lady celebrating 10 years of being in a relationship. Now they are planning their wedding which is coming up February 2017.
so I was just wondering and asking myself if its really possible cos I still don't understand how they did it and made it..
If its possible, what are the tips that can help and encourage people that want to go into such a committed relationship probably due to what they plan to acquire before getting married

#comments from mature minds


Check my siggy#

Google

Communication. And planning together

Frei:
Google

Really? did that make any sense to u?? If u want to comment, do so if you know you would probably say something that doesn't really add up.l, just leave the thread. its not compulsory to comment abeg

#no offence

its so possible only if both parties are ready to accept a whole lot of bullshits,forgive and communicate constantly,pray and play together...

Hmmm...







Maybe they took an oath

MzLarem:
its so possible only if both parties are ready to accept a whole lot of bullshits,forgive and communicate constantly,pray and play together...

my bae.. long time

Bluezy13:
Hmmm...






Maybe they took an oat!

Bluezy13:
Hmmm...






Maybe they took an oat!

jeenah:
Good afternoon nairalanders.
I stumbled on one picture on Instagram of a guy and a lady celebrating 10 years of being in a relationship. Now they are planning their wedding which is coming up February 2017.
so I was just wondering and asking myself if its really possible cos I still don't understand how they did it and made it..
If its possible, what are the tips that can help and encourage people that want to go into such a committed relationship probably due to what they plan to acquire before getting married

#comments from mature minds


Check my siggy#

WHY DIDN'T YOU ASK THEM THERE AND THEN AM PRETTY SURE THEY WOULD HAVE GIVEN YOU THE ANSWERS THAT YOU SEEK

jeenah:

my bae.. long time

yeah..so you are a customer here too

Bluezy13:
Hmmm...






Maybe they took an oat!

Yeah and cornflakes too

MzLarem:
Yeah and cornflakes too

Could have politely notified me of my error but youthful exuberance deterred you.

Anyways, Thanks for displaying immaturity.

Bluezy13:








Could have politely notify me of my error but yo
uthful exuberance deterred you.

Anyways, Thanks for displaying immaturity.

human beings and problems..if i had done it that way,they will still say someone is trying to be proud..whatever tho

i did that for the pleasure of it anyways and i'm not sorry. Good evening.

MzLarem:
human beings and problems..if i had done it that way,they will still say someone is trying to be proud..whatever tho

i did that for the pleasure of it anyways and i'm not sorry. Good evening.

Don't forget you are a human being with problem(s).
Wisdom is not the acquisition, but the application of knowledge. You were unwise to not have done it that way.


Howbeit, the whatever pleasure was very transient.
And besides, your concern for sympathy was unnecessary.


Thanks for the pleasantry, unfortunately I can't reciprocate it.
Let's call it a day.

Bluezy13:


Don't forget you are a human being with problem(s).
Wisdom is not the acquisition, but the application of knowledge. You were unwise to not have done it that way.


Howbeit, the whatever pleasure was very transient.
And besides, your concern for sympathy was unnecessary.


Thanks for the pleasantry, unfortunately I can't reciprocate it.
Let's call it a day.

That 'Good evening' is actually me calling it a day.

jeenah:


Really? did that make any sense to u?? If u want to comment, do so if you know you would probably say something that doesn't really add up.l, just leave the thread. its not compulsory to comment abeg

#no offence

Noted

sapiosexual1:

My story is similar, though not up to 10yrs, surely wouldn't get up to 10yrs.

Congrats in advance..dont forget to invite us oo

sapiosexual1:

My story is similar, though not up to 10yrs, surely wouldn't get up to 10yrs.

wow

sapiosexual1:

My story is similar, though not up to 10yrs, surely wouldn't get up to 10yrs.

awwwmm.. invite me o, dont invite MzLarem you hear? winks

jeenah:


awwwmm.. invite me o, dont invite MzLarem you hear? winks

Hehehehe you would surely be invited buh be ready to pay your way to Caen in France.

1. Understandings
2.Tolerance
3. Effective communication
4.Accomodation
5.Ability to quickly admit a fault, appologise, forgiveness and then move on...this is where the whole thing lies.

I'm sure inside these ten years there must 've been a lot of ups and downs in their relationship but yet they always look for a way to settle amicably within themselves without inviting a 3rd party.

Op where is the picture


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2BB4CB3E:
10years
I have only been with my gf for 3years and for the past 12months!
she has been preaching marriage
how do guys do it?
even my side chicks hint marriage at times.

lol. they prolly wanted to know where the relationship is heading

2BB4CB3E:
10years

I have only been with my gf for 3years and for the past 12months!

she has been preaching marriage

how do guys do it?

even my side chicks hint marriage at times.

its normal tho

firstking01:
1. Understandings
2.Tolerance
3. Effective communication
4.Accomodation
5.Ability to quickly admit a fault, appologise, forgiveness and then move on...this is where the whole thing lies.

I'm sure inside these ten years there must 've been a lot of ups and downs in their relationship but yet they always look for a way to settle amicably within themselves without inviting a 3rd party.

... And lots of temporary split ups.


But i cant do it. The longest i've done is 3years. How it ended, story for another August.
...

firstking01:
1. Understandings
2.Tolerance
3. Effective communication
4.Accomodation
5.Ability to quickly admit a fault, appologise, forgiveness and then move on...this is where the whole thing lies.

I'm sure inside these ten years there must 've been a lot of ups and downs in their relationship but yet they always look for a way to settle amicably within themselves without inviting a 3rd party.

hmm thats true

jeenah:


lol. they prolly wanted to know where the relationship is heading

i see!

So why didn't the girl in the story question the guy?

10years that's a decade! maybe she is dumb or ugly!

LordScent:









... And lots of temporary split ups.


But i cant do it. The longest i've done is 3years. How it ended, story for another August.
...

Hehehehe, my relationship doesn't last...i mean i 've not dated up to 5mths before...i pray this current one last sha...this one that she doesn't call, i 've been the one calling since we started dating.


Dating a nigerian girl is really a job, i mean is headaching and tasking more than anything.

2BB4CB3E:

i see!
So why didn't the girl in the story question the guy?
10years that's a decade! maybe she is dumb or ugly!

dont say that o, its love.. no doubt they loved each other

firstking01:
Hehehehe, my relationship doesn't last...i mean i 've not dated up to 5mths before...i pray this current one last sha...this one that she doesn't call, i 've been the one calling since we started dating.


Dating a nigerian girl is really a job, i mean is headaching and tasking more than anything.

yeah it is o,I agree cos am a lady too.. BTW, today marks my 8th month anniversary