Ladies – have you ever dated a man who you shared an
incredible connection with, but then he suddenly
wanted his "freedom" or said he wasn't ready when
you started to get (REALLY) close?

If you don't know the common mistakes to avoid that
men see as unattractive, needy, and the sign of a
woman who wouldn't make a great partner, then
you're shooting yourself in the foot.

If you've ever been in this situation, or known
a woman who was, here are the 5 most common ways
women respond that don't work and push men away or
turn them off for good:

1) Pretending you don't want anything serious
either and keep on sleeping with the man
"casually" in hopes that things will grow from the
"physical relationship"

2) Staying close to him by trying to become his
"best friend" as you help him in his life and with
his problems - all the while imagining the
"payoff" of a real relationship for your good
deeds once he recognizes how great you are

3) Trying to make him jealous by telling him
you're seeing other guys, even if you're not. Or
going out with other guys and doing things with
them not because you like them, but because you
want him to find out and want you back

4) Getting pissed off at him and telling him he's
dumb, immature, and acting like a little BOY,
and that he's just scared of a real relationship
and a commitment - and then trying to get him to
have a relationship with you to "fix" himself

5) Trying to make him interested in you by
complimenting him, doing nice things for him,
taking up things he's interested in to be around
him, and being available to him at anytime he
should show interest. This is kind of like trying
to be his "best friend," but different since it's
often still sexual.

Now, I'm guessing that you recognized at least
one of these responses as you were reading through
them.

keep hope alive

I don't agree entirely with ur post. Points 1,3 & 4 are on point but 2 & 5 in my book are exactly wat a woman should do aside the sex of course.

yup thats about right, kinda have to side with lord on this one. Nothing wrong with being around a guy trying to be there friend, Just don't get stuck in the dreaded friend zone then its just a flat out waste of time. lol

yes those 5 reasons are true if you have a dummy as a boyfriend,  mine's only few months older than me but 3000 times smarter he always think ahead of me so whatever i intend or plan to do he already saved a reaction in his head, and no one should try number one, if he's not interested then hes not and he could be sleeping with you till eternity its your responsibility to run if he's taking you for granted, but i like the others tho

My poor friend does point number 5 in the hopes that the guy will suddenly take their relationship to the next level . Cooking, cleaning and slaving for a man will not make him love you.