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Re: End of Part 1 by Shymm3xx: 7:15pm On Aug 13, 2016 |
bennyrazz: Loool. Bennyrazz, they won’t hear you though. I think it’s now time to take off comic relief jacket and put on the serious one, since part 1 of the Tri-Series has ended. I had fun while getting these frauds on their toes. I actually started off with something that’s real and, I was planning to be mild throughout the discourse, till the usual crazy people start posting their nonsense. However, that doesn’t negate the bitter truth in everything I posted – even in my vicious and caustic posts. I’m a supremely loyal guy and despite how problematic most black women are today, there’s no way I can ditch something that’s natural to me. White chics are cool and, the war I’m fighting as a black man has nothing to do with them. My war is against the face and brain behind white supremacy – and that’s the white man. I mess with white women on and off whenever I can and, I currently have one at the bottom of the pecking order. However, women that look like me will always be my preference. I don’t even see myself living with a white woman. The way they smell like wet dog and the fact that they won’t be able to relate to my experience won’t let me do it, even if I were to try. Coupled with the fact that I want to raise my kids a certain way, without the racial ambiguity and confusion, involved with mixed kids. I’m also somewhat lucky because I’m a Capricorn and I’ve got a natural gift that helps me see through people easily. That basically helps sift and pick the most decent black women from time to time from the lot. Regardless, my ideal black woman will always be a natural/traditional one with natural hair, and crazy body. That said: if you’re from the UK, you’d know that most black guys are opting for white and mixed women. In certain parts of London, about 30-40% of the kids white women are having are mixed kids. When I saw the stats, I was troubled as a black guy. Now imagine how a lot of black chics feel beneath the façade (some of them have started complaining everywhere about the trend), especially when a lot of them can’t find suitable partners. Back in the day, this new wave/madness about white and mixed women used to be a North and West London thing. I’ve got a younger cousin from North London who hates dark skinned black chics and he thinks they’re all evil (I’ve alluded to this a few times on here in the past). Most of us in South and East never cared about them at all, until recently when the wave just went bonkers everywhere. Also, it isn’t uncommon these days to meet black girls with all kinds of self-esteem issues coming to the fore. When they aren’t asking you why you’re with them because they have this notion in their head that you’re better than them – they tend to get confrontation and accuse you of shagging other chics, without any reason to think so. Some would even tell you that they know you’ll leave them for a lightie (mixed race) or white woman. Hence a lot of them have become escorts and are fvcking for whatever they can get out of it, to boost their self-esteem with material things. And really and truly, you can’t really blame the guys because a lot of these chics have their own issues. You have to be around them to know it. No one wants to be around someone that’s problematic – every guy’s desire is a woman that will make him feel comfortable and happy. On what you posited about taking a cue from white chics - the truth is that: rather than emulate the great things the decent white women, who are in the majority are doing, by being traditional and womanly (just as they imitate them with bleaching and straight hair). They’re emulating the white rejects who spearheaded the third wave of feminism and, most of these white women are lesbians and obese unattractive women no one wants to be around. That’s why a lot of them have become undesirable cum-buckets for quick sex, in exchange for loose coins. And the few of them that have been able to force themselves on certain guys always end up destroying these guys. Anyway, this is the end of part 1 – I hope everyone had fun while it lasted. And I believe some of you had a few head scratching moments that are now subconsciously speaking to you about the need to change for the better. Part 2 is going to be more fun – follow me home. This is what I do as the ultimate villain (Reek Da Villain) and agent provocateur. Someone has to do it…too much arse kissing and unnecessarily circular debates are boring and unstimulating. You need verbal boot camp. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Cc: kaziblake, missy89, and depressedgurl. This is part 2: https://www.nairaland.com/3286646/black-british-girls-most-likely |
Re: End of Part 1 by Subom1(f): 8:39pm On Aug 13, 2016 |
Stillfire: Yes lol let me quote One of his many response to me : shymexx: Yeah, you did struck a nerve - I can't stand women who put black men down and put other races of man on a high pedestal, just to make themselves happy... We've got too much to deal with as a group - from our economics to education and social lifestyle... We have it worst out there and when our own women who were naturally created to support us start destroying us as well, then it becomes problematic, to be honest.... There are millions of highly educated black men born and raised in West, so saying you're too "westernised" is just utter tosh... Perhaps, you need to stop messing around with "freshies" and start dealing with black men on your wavelength... I, for one, can't deal with fresh black women - however you'll never see me use them as a pretext to judge all black women... I only deal with black women with a similar background as myself... Anyway, do whatever makes you happy... ^^^ Shymm3xx is such a hypocrite 6 Likes |
Re: End of Part 1 by Subom1(f): 8:47pm On Aug 13, 2016 |
Only on page 5 and you are already admitting you playing and i was just getting warmed up 5 Likes |
Re: End of Part 1 by Shymm3xx: 8:54pm On Aug 13, 2016 |
Subom1: Lol. Read the post before ya post. I'm still pro-black - ain't nothing changed. But I'm not into black women like you though. I prefer my black women to be like the image below, with a big batty. What year was that? 2013? I was trying to save you from the white bums that take you on dates to McDs back then lol. I remember you alluded to McDs as ya spot with ya white BFs. Anyway, I'm not as super-duper militant about being pro-black like I used to be back then. When you discover that black people can't be saved, you just have to give up and focus on yourself and future seeds. However, I don't regret it one bit. A lot of things I learnt about my blackness (knowledge of self) and black/African history propelled me to where I'm today. And if I had to do it again: I'll always pick that consciousness over everything else.
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Re: End of Part 1 by Shymm3xx: 8:56pm On Aug 13, 2016 |
Subom1: Shoot. I'm here for the fun. I live for it. |
Re: End of Part 1 by bennyrazz: 9:27pm On Aug 13, 2016 |
@shymm3x you certainly have alot going on your mind. Many Black Nigerian women come with alot of excess baggage and only few men living outside the country would want to carry that. I understand your school of thought but no matter how you go about it, Some black men will still go after white women, it's like a preference after trying out Nigerian women. You try out our Nigerian sistren and you are not getting the expected result, you switch over to white. My brothers are married to whites after trying out blacks and they are okay now with kids (Bi-racial) they look so fine though. So their reasons for doing away with black Nigerian women is a whole lot of case study, some of which you have outlined here. I just hope that pure white population doesn't go extinct by year 2100 in London because the rate at which blacks are marrying whites and giving birth to mixed raced kids is on a rise. I think for the kind of blackwoman you are looking for, look in the direction of the elites in the Nigerian society. Those ones have a family name to protect and they usually don't come with much baggage. 1 Like |
Re: End of Part 1 by Sybella: 10:14pm On Aug 13, 2016 |
Shym3xx: happy to hear from u again Shymy, I good, hope u too ...i see u r always bvsting Black W B** loool....i looked around a bit, a lot of the old folks are gone.... anyways I don't know if u r trollin (i think u r ) or if u being serious, but u r putting every black women in the same box, which is unfair. As a black women myself, my feminine entourage is mostly filled of young black women and they are far of what you are describing, how do you explain that? As much as many black women do not fit the stereotypes you provided, many white women do, however black guys (like yourself ) choose to index only black women because they consider white girls as trophee assets. I have never seen before guys from other races constantly denigrating their women the way black guys do as if they forgot they came from a black woman themselves....but remember oh, the likely child you will have with a white woman will never be considered white, and if it happens to be a girl, remember many black guys will think as you do, favoring white chicks, while many white and asian men would prefer to stick to their own... I am not saying that there are 100% chances she ends up alone, but with more black men opting more and more for other women than their own, they are chances that after a few deceptions, she ends-up insecure and bitter, and later fall in the category of what daddy call "a typical black woman". 4 Likes |
Re: End of Part 1 by Shymm3xx: 10:38pm On Aug 13, 2016 |
bennyrazz: Lol. London is the new mixed race capital of the world lol. The funniest thing is that it has happened before, hence Black Brits from the slavery generation are now extinct. They all got assimilated in and the blackness became white. That's why a lot of white people in the UK have at least one black ancestor in their family tree lool. White people can't go extinct - all those mixed kids would get assimilated back into whiteness lol. I don't have a problem with mixed kids or black guys dating white women. People deserve to be happy and it's always refreshing to be around a woman that knows ya worth and give you peace of mind, regardless of race. I've got a mixed race cousin that's like 25 now (I've not seen him for time now cos he goes to Naij a lot - his dad is into a lot of things there and he has been going since he was like 12), a lot of mixed friends, and a lot of acquaintances (can't call them friends cos we're not close on that level) that have mixed kids. I just don't see myself having a mix kid. Some mixed kids tend to look too white these days and you have to wonder if ya kids won't look like them. I'll post a pic of one of my mixed friends who looks very white and his mixed gf at the end of this post (I'll remove it later - his dad is Ghanaian while his mum is Portuguese but he was born in London). Lol. I'm not into Naij Chics from Naij - rich or poor - we're going to clash all the time. My mentality is so different and I'm too South London. Everything about me is just South London and most Naij folks clash with that easily. Naij people are impressionable and they tend to try to fit in with the white culture, while I'm more comfortable with the black/urban cos that's what I'm used to. This is the pic: |
Re: End of Part 1 by Sybella: 10:41pm On Aug 13, 2016 |
My point is what u r describing is not a typical black woman, but may be a woman who became insecure due to some circumstances...so if you think that more black girls these days are falling more and more in this category, try to understand why, and see if the issue could be fixed instead of making it worst by denigrating them, I don't think we deserve that. also, i don't understand those guys who don't wanna date black or dark skin girls but get furious when they see them with white guys ....other guys do the same actually, but usually they don't run around like Hot rabbits to chase other women. 4 Likes |
Re: End of Part 1 by Shymm3xx: 11:21pm On Aug 13, 2016 |
Sybella: Sysy, the exotic Ivorian Queen, I don't see folks from back in the day again, apart from Onila. I saw Sholly last year but I've not seen her this year. The rest have disappeared. I should be going ghost as well soon. The old squad that got me addicted to the forum has gone ghost. Time to fade to black, as soon as I'm bored of clowning people, which is what I do these days. Anyway, read the long epistle I posted on this page to bennyrazz. I was just messing about. I'm still the vessel of Malcolm X and Steve Biko, though I've slowed down a bit. Black power! 1 Like |
Re: End of Part 1 by bennyrazz: 1:53pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
Shymm3xx:someone once told me about that @bolded but I wish they go extinct while we blackerise the world But some blacks in the world still preserve their cultures just like Jews do. The white culture can be somehow absurd, they are things we don't accept in Africa. And I get your point when you say some naij people try to impress by accepting the white culture. It can somewhat be described as culture of the gentiles in the Bible days Im off to your next thread |
Re: End of Part 1 by TV01(m): 4:04pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
Stilly how far? I'm posting here because of you, I'd typically give this one a miss,but had to query the below; Stillfire:Please ma, where is the promised land they are "exodusing" to? TV |
Re: End of Part 1 by bennyrazz: 4:42pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
TV01:kikikikikikikikikiki |
Re: End of Part 1 by bukatyne(f): 4:55pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
Thread sounds like different is exotic. American men complain a lot about their women and allude to black women being better (according to manosphere). Another pained American man (rdchemist) is rooting seriously for Russian and Brazilian women as American women are fat fugly mad bytches. He interestingly advises black men tired of American Women to go for Brazilian babes as Russians are likely to be racist. (rdchemist happens to be divorced sha.)Russian and Brazilian women think their men are bad business anyways.. Another thread here recently was asking why black men in UK come back to Nigeria to marry.... Besides, the whites are believed to have crazy divorce rates (wondering if black man/white woman will do the magic). Some peeps here also opine white men are no longer marrying as their system favors white women who misuses it and initiates divorce at the drop of a hat. It is all perspective. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: End of Part 1 by Nobody: 9:59pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
Bait thread lol A lot of the time it feels like utterances like this come from a place of hurt and bitterness and fair enough, we’re only human lol But I will say I’ve noticed that some black men who prefer to date out often feel the need and almost make it a mission to constantly let everyone know lol, on top of that slandering black women in the process. Anyway, date/marry whoever makes you happy to be honest. 9 Likes |
Re: End of Part 1 by Sybella: 3:41pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
Shymm3xx: There u go!! That's my bebe right here <3 |
Re: End of Part 1 by Shym3xx: 4:53pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
1bkaye: Says a sket that looks like she has sickle cell anaemia with breathing difficulties and all kinds of flabbiness going on. Are you illiterate and can't you see the thread has ended? I bet ya amala infested brain won't let you see that, what an obese tosser with cheese fat everywhere. If I were you, I'd focus on losing weight, rather than running around looking for attention like a lonely and depraved slob. STFU and get the fvck out of the thread. Loser. 1 Like |
Re: End of Part 1 by Shym3xx: 4:55pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
Sybella: Don't watch that. The UK is about to get hot in a few days. The police just killed a black ex-footballer who was visiting his dad for no reason and we're about to march on these heifers. Black power! BlackLivesMatter. |
Re: End of Part 1 by Nobody: 6:56pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
Shym3xx:Lmao if the shoe fits 3 Likes |
Re: End of Part 1 by Shym3xx: 7:04pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
1bkaye: Lol. Fvck off and eat a dyck - you saw it coming cos this is ya 2nd time. After this, you'd start watching ya fingers before you type. I bet the shoe fits with ya ra.pe threads as well. |
Re: End of Part 1 by Nobody: 7:40pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
Shym3xx: lol. 3 Likes |
Re: End of Part 1 by Shym3xx: 7:49pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
1bkaye: Lol. At least it got you dazed/confused and you aren't running ya twitter fingers like you did yesterday. I've got you where I want you and you had to post a gif (first time you've ever done that on this forum). You're gonna deal and watch ya mouth henceforth lol. Anyway, lose weight, you can't be running around these streets looking like a mini-whale. That's not trill. And stop getting ra.ped, since you can't go two months without creating a ra.pe thread. I'm mean as fvck lol. Ciao. Mission accomplished. |
Re: End of Part 1 by Nobody: 8:00pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
Shym3xx:You're the only one involved in this exchange who actually knows what you're on about lol bye ashy 4 Likes |
Re: End of Part 1 by Shym3xx: 8:07pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
1bkaye: I hope you won't suffer a seizure with the breathing problem and tears in holy matrimony. Bye Felicia. 1 Like |
Re: End of Part 1 by Stillfire: 6:35pm On Aug 17, 2016 |
TV01: I'm pretty fine!!! They are 'exodusing' to the land of options and FOREIGN opportunities. African American women have been sold the disastrous ideology of black men only. Not any more! The black community is toxic. Over 60% of black women have been sexually assaulted before they reach 18. Any sensible black woman would have as little as possible association with the toxic black community. http://sojournerspassport.com/last-call-to-evacuate-black-residential-areas-before-the-peace-walls-go-up/ Numerous blogs have been set up to aid in the campaign of killing this damning 'black men' ideology. Black female consciousness INDEPENDENT of the toxic black community is being encouraged. The efforts so far have not been in vain. There is now a proliferation of non-black men and black women relationships. That diehard black man only mentality must die! I reject it!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: End of Part 1 by Stillfire: 6:52pm On Aug 17, 2016 |
cococandy: Absolutely. I feel like giving uppercuts to the black women joining in this nonsense black lives matter mantra which should in truth actually be 'black men's life matter'. And women partake in this crap for sons that HATE their freaking guts?.?.?.?.? You've got to be kidding me! The biggest racism a black woman receives day in day out comes from BLACK MEN! More than half of black girls have been sexually assaulted before the age of 18. Which one requires urgency from me? Some 'police brutality over a black man we have to pray he is not a thug in order to find an ounce of credibility in his story' or damning statistic about girls getting raped by BLACK MEN before the age of 18?' Bloody hell!!! Black women wake up!!!! 6 Likes |
Re: End of Part 1 by cococandy(f): 7:09pm On Aug 17, 2016 |
About the hate, what can they really do? You know mothers' love. They'll keep on loving even when they get disrespect in return. Poor women. I don't know if anything could hurt more than giving life and giving your all to someone who looks at you and wishes you are not who you are. God forbid I use this my womb to bear a son who will repay me with hate on me and his sister/s. I'll send him back to where he came from. Well let's see how far the hate can be carried. Will they hate their own daughters who will be 'unfortunate' to get the black gene from them? Will they discourage any suitors who come for their daughters because she's black and not fit to be wifed. We are watching. Stillfire: 2 Likes |
Re: End of Part 1 by Nobody: 9:58pm On Aug 17, 2016 |
Shym3xx:ugly neg-ro , i bet im finer than all da women in ur family combined . ur mama n sisters should be ashamed of wat an uncouth , despicable being u've become |
Re: End of Part 1 by TV01(m): 10:26pm On Aug 17, 2016 |
Stillfire:Good to hear. Always good to hear from you up in here... Stillfire:...but I often have to disagree. . Be it foreign men, or foreign men in distant lands, at a community level, na lie. Nothing has changed. Black women are as a group lower down the desirability hierarchy. This is plain fact. Would this additional toxicity you speak of make them more or even less desirable? Not to mention they are still not shot of the cray-cray, wahallasome, ghettochick image they have long struggled with . Stillfire:AA women have, do and will always prefer black men . Same as black women the world over. Only black men match them for the high octane intimacy they crave - you get me Stillfire:Women of other races/communities claim equally horrendous figures. And the scope for what constitutes sexual assault is so wide as too trivialise the problem. It does not actually change anything. Stillfire:Black woman, non black-man (of any race) is still a minority pairing. At an individual level, it will work, and possibly quite well for some. Others will manage, some knowing they settled. I have no problem with male/female pairings of whatever hue and for whatever reason. The good news is most black men - like other men - marry women of their own race. And all races can easily accommodate some admixture. It shouldn't do any harm and will likely be beneficial. Black women (and men) would be best served by restoring a healthy male/female dynamic between them, and strong families to facilitate this. That would make them all round more desirable. Then, when they did choose to marry out, their superior pedigree would command a premium . Please don't reach for your colt 45 - spoken as a lover of black women and happily married to one TV 1 Like |
Re: End of Part 1 by Gloriagee(f): 4:02pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
@ Shym3xx, Waoh, I get it that you believe black women are belligerent, aggressive, and delusional skin bleachers with fake hair but u seem to be trying so hard to convince urself on this point. N who's to say anything bout poorly behaved rednecks and hillbillies when all that matters is their ready availability, in South Africa or even on the internet? I leave u with these words from John Henry Patterson, 'Before u try to convince anyone else, be sure u are convinced and if u cannot convince urself, drop the subject'. 2 Likes |
Re: End of Part 1 by Shym3xx: 5:50pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Gloriagee: Lol, there's an element of truth in what I said but I don't think all black women are like that. And I'm definitely not into those from the other side who smell like wet dogs like that. At least, you didn't act the stereotype like all the other uncouth rabid n1gger biitches who can't articulate themselves without being confrontational. We've moved to this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/3286646/black-british-girls-most-likely/2 . You can post ya opinions here. |
Re: End of Part 1 by sukkot: 4:33pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Shym3xx:nah nigga aint nobody hiding from yo ass. this ID got a one month man and just now being released 1 Like |
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