Aw long can I continue to wait just to av a wonderful wedding. I am in my early 30s gainfully employed currently running my Msc. In 1 of d naija UNI. My wife is also a graduate and earn a little. My salary can put food on d table comfortably.... The issue is I dont av d luxury for wedding and the engagement list I got from her family is killing. Waitg I go do?

You don't have to do an elaborate wedding. Cut your coat according to your material. Stay blessed

Bro you don't have to do elaborate wedding, just go for court wedding and safe yourself from debt. Invite few friends and family members you are done.

Lol. The matter be like person weh fit afford to maintain motor but no see money buy am.

You know what? Let us bargain. Gimme ur contact. I will give u money for dowry while u find money 4 wedding or vice versa, it depends on d one you want.

But we will sign written agreement. I will split the money I give you to one naira per day so I will be using your wife daily till the day the money (in naira) finish. But I will be fair to you, I will grant you access to ur wife, you can come and be making love to her and go back or we can share d number of days per week dat we will have her

I promise it will be confidential. We all know how hard the economy is these days. But if you don't keep to d agreement, I will broadcast the written deal and agreement.

So deal?

Guy na mindset.
Is wedding still tripping homies as of late?
Gather ur inlaws (not inlaw's second cousins n dia hood niggas) + ur own ppl.
In short, gather those dt if dy dnt attend, d tin no go hold. IAM TALKING OF TRADITIONAL. If u think only traditional cant mek u guys married couples, ur lying. Then carry, ur money buy dt woman BMW, build urself anoda house n spend d rest in space. Dnt waste money on the Queen's culture, she z nt even aware of ours.

Why can't you do court marriage? It's only 40k btw court marriage is the only true marriage where It's verified and recognize for anything all over the world. You can do traditional and white wedding later, when you have the money