Some girls if not the majority derives joy in playing hard to get, some says they are testing if he is serious and truly in love while some claims that they don't want to appear so cheap to him.
There is this girl I've been toasting for past three months now but she has not say either yes or no to my advances which makes me totally loose interest in her and jejerly shift my attention to another girl. No time to waste. Some girls fail to understand that the more you play hard to get the more guys loose interest in you.
As for me I can only wait for maximum three months and if after that period of time she still dey prove stubborn then I waka comot for her mata.
So guys, how Long can you wait for her to say yes?

And to ladies in the house, how Long can a guy toast you before you say yes to him?

It depends sha... But for me, time is precious..

If I like him too, I don't have time to waste...

TrapQueen77:



It depends sha... But for me, time is precious..

If I like him too, I don't have time to waste...

I really appreciate your sincerity.

3 months cha? Odiegwu, if i ask u out and you start playing hard to get.. I will just walk away.. Introverts don't waste time.

Godswillnwaoma:
I really appreciate your sincerity.

No worries.. Juz an honest & direct answer all the way from south pole

I do give up easily O!



***After all, there are pwenty Fishes in the Nile




Sometimes when you stop the advances, They will still want you to keep doing what you were doing.


Hmm....No time for SHYTES!

RoyalBlak007:
75 seconds

and that's it

hahahaha

There weeks max, after a month u begin to lose value then u are either friendzoned or despised....

ucheHapers:
There weeks max, after a month u begin to lose value then u are either friendzoned or despised....

I concur

That moment...

If u nor say yes immediately bye

Immediately.....cause it's a cycle...... Stranger-hi friend-normal friend-bestie -babe or Bleep mate .........no time for road side preaching

ImDharay:

A minute...

Spot on. I can never wait beyond a minute for a girl's response.

I marvel when I here that a guy proposed with a ring and the gal asked for some time to think about it. Omo, na to dump ur ass straight away.

Nonsense!

OfficialAwol:


Spot on. I can never wait beyond a minute for a girl's response.

I marvel when I here that a guy proposed with a ring and the gal asked for some time to think about it. Omo, na to dump ur ass straight away.

Nonsense!

this guy dey para ohhhh

R2bees:
3 months cha? Odiegwu, if i ask u out and you start playing hard to get.. I will just walk away.. Introverts don't waste time.

Me too except if I notice she's different or special that's when I might wait for 3weeks max
After all relationship no be career.

3 months

Dude na semester U dey oh!!!

See eh, it shouldn't take that long and besides when wooing if U get positive vibes from her continue the woo cos the bridge will soon fall one day, however if no positive feedback within a short period like say a couple of weeks please just fall back, unless U feel she's worth the stress

I keep telling guys there are so many gurls that will like U gbam instantly on the spot and will show U yet they can form the hardest to another fellow

Please move more around and meet more people U will surely find em..

Oh and as for your question, like I said if I get any encouraging positive vibe from her then it continues up to the point she won't even realise we already an item

But no, I can't do 3 months, let me just *sigh and say a month!

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one day

3 What!!! men u tried the highest I have had to wait is 2weeks and that's the height of it
The lady in question refuse to give in, now am with her friend and she is dying
No time man

Bros i wonder o

m6tem:


Me too except if I notice she's different or special that's when I might wait for 3weeks max
After all relationship no be career.

It depends on so many factors. But sincerely speaking, my interest always starts wanning after about 2 weeks. I hardly reach one month. But I think the latter should be the most I can endure. Then it's sayonara!

3months ? haba yaro ? maximum 2wks, if she's worth it.. then ..3wks.. anyhow sha, I meet d girls I know that re into me already.. secondly who would wanna say no to a 6ft9 , goodlooking , confident , rich yaro ??

Me still they wait answer from bae for over1 month. Doe I don kiss her sha. I doubt if need deh to wait for her answer .

zicoraads:
It depends on so many factors. But sincerely speaking, my interest always starts wanning after about 2 weeks. I hardly reach one month. But I think the latter should be the most I can endure. Then it's sayonara!

ok oooo

Godswillnwaoma:
this guy dey para ohhhh

The stupidity of some girls makes me wanna exterminate girls from the face of the earth.

But I blame the guys who keep abiding by a girl's whims and caprices like a gigolo, the more.

So Abeg no be para. Na as e be me I talk so...

I've waited for 2years before and gained nothing...

we dont toast bae again besides toasting machine don cost... Tell her straight baby lets fvck

There are certain things I don't struggle with or impose. Friendship/companionship is one of them. I'm quite straight forward and don't have time for games. The moment I detect any form of repulsiveness, I park my self and go. Conversely, if I sense attraction, I commission my heart valve by 10%. I continue to open it up depending on her level of commitment, sincerity and trust

The max I can wait is 3 weeks. I have got no time for nonsense.
I DON'T and will never beg or persuade a lady to align her feelings with mine.
Lack of self esteem is what would make a sane guy be lurking around a lady.

When you move forward, you will discover there are ladies that are willing to have you and even better than the bone you are hanging on to.

my email sandra.546@yahoo.com