party:
First off, i really can't put up with the stress of having a girl friend.
The need for attention, incessant phone calls, assurance and reassurances and all.
The best i could come up with is a friends with benefits arrangement.
Ladies can be so demanding too and i don't see any benefits that accrue to keeping a girl who doesn't cook or clean and yet make demands for money.
Finally, sex is just too cheap and most times our ladies are not adventurous enough to do the extraordinary. A visit to the strip club with just 5k and i'll have the time of my life with at least 2 strippers bumping and grinding me plus booby slaps and all.
Is anybody with me on this one?

Essence6055:


In other words you cannot manage a wife and a home,

#Thinkresponsibly

Essence6055:

In other words you cannot manage a wife and a home,
#Thinkresponsibly

party:


A girlfriend is different from a wife.

Girlfriends of these days are liabilities while a 'good' wife is an asset.

It's funny that in this age and time some men still think they will just bump into a woman and then she automatically becomes your wife.

There is no way she will become your wife if she does not start from being your girlfriend.

Or how else do you plan to do it again?

Pouyan:
a girlfriend is not a wife sir

naijaboiy:

It's funny that in this age and time some men still think they will just bump into a woman and then she automatically becomes your wife.

There is no way she will become your wife if she does not start from being your girlfriend.

Or how else do you plan to do it again?

party:

Bro please tell them, especially all these girls playing hard to get.
Some of us aren't even into all these relationship nonsense.

party:
First off, i really can't put up with the stress of having a girl friend.

The need for attention, incessant phone calls, assurance and reassurances and all.

The best i could come up with is a friends with benefits arrangement.

Ladies can be so demanding too and i don't see any benefits that accrue to keeping a girl who doesn't cook or clean and yet make demands for money.

Finally, sex is just too cheap and most times our ladies are not adventurous enough to do the extraordinary. A visit to the strip club with just 5k and i'll have the time of my life with at least 2 strippers bumping and grinding me plus booby slaps and all.

Is anybody with me on this one?

Cholls:
my brother I tire o.......... One realisation I came to, and I don't know if this is just me or other guys feel it too, is that the level of lust you feel for some of these girls doesn't always translate into enjoying sex with them more. There would be times when I'd really lust after some girl but when I banged her for the first time it would almost be a let down. Not because they weren't good in bed or didn't look as good naked as I'd hoped, just because at the end of the day a gash is a gash and sex is sex. I don't know if that makes sense.

lilyqueen:
Hmmm

Kemicares:
hmmmmmm

party:


It only takes an act to make a girl your wife and that's giving her a ring and meeting her parents. At that point, she resumes her wifely duties.

Courtship is a more serious version of dating.

Most girls go into dating just for what they can get out of the relationship but going into courtship is more serious. At that point, she also considers what she's bringing to the table so in that case, it's much easier.

As a matter a fact, the desperate ones take more responsibilities than the guy so courtship is a lot easier than just dating a girl.

Have you ever noticed how a girls attitude changes when you promise to marry her?

The sex becomes more regular and she starts taking up responsibilities.

naijaboiy:

You call it courtship but it's still the same thing. She will be your girlfriend until you ask her to be your wife.

Of course if you want to go into a relationship as a responsible man you ought to take thugs seriously. Therefore, those things the Op said he doesn't want to do or can't do must be done else I don't think he's looking for a wife yet.

You can't jump stages. If you do, it will backfire at you.

party:


Why are you humming?
Is there anything bad in what i said?

lilyqueen:



Not really

party:


I intend marrying my best friend without even dating her.
All i need is to have a good understanding of who she is as she does with me.

Will that backfire?

Essence6055:


In other words you cannot manage a wife and a home,

#Thinkresponsibly

party:

So can you marry a guy like me,even if i don't follow you to the church?

party:
First off, i really can't put up with the stress of having a girl friend.

The need for attention, incessant phone calls, assurance and reassurances and all.

The best i could come up with is a friends with benefits arrangement.

Ladies can be so demanding too and i don't see any benefits that accrue to keeping a girl who doesn't cook or clean and yet make demands for money.

Finally, sex is just too cheap and most times our ladies are not adventurous enough to do the extraordinary. A visit to the strip club with just 5k and i'll have the time of my life with at least 2 strippers bumping and grinding me plus booby slaps and all.

Is anybody with me on this one?

party:
First off, i really can't put up with the stress of having a girl friend.

The need for attention, incessant phone calls, assurance and reassurances and all.

The best i could come up with is a friends with benefits arrangement.

Ladies can be so demanding too and i don't see any benefits that accrue to keeping a girl who doesn't cook or clean and yet make demands for money.

Finally, sex is just too cheap and most times our ladies are not adventurous enough to do the extraordinary. A visit to the strip club with just 5k and i'll have the time of my life with at least 2 strippers bumping and grinding me plus booby slaps and all.

Is anybody with me on this one?

Pouyan:
I'm with you, women think a boyfriend is a full-time job where they get paid to do nothing but have sex and be a pain in the arse.

lilyqueen:

I can't marry a stranger