Nw i blame both the girl and the guy, Love comes with alot of list, If a guy wants to get a sexy, fine babe , he should be
1 serious
2 marureed in age nd in mind
3 he should be commited nd involved
4 he should be boyant enough
5 he shouldnbe strong
: he should put d girl nd take nd look at d girl as his own nd a potential wife, mature in age nd mind means he should be able to comprehend women language nd understand a woman nd he should be exposed to alot also, Nd he should have other experiences with ladies
he should be commited and involved means he should let d woman inhis life bt nt to take control over him or d relationship, he should take time to knw wen his girl is happy nd ready to asist , bt nt to make it his own cross nd responsibility
He should be boyant enough means, if a man decides to have a woman, then his pocket is full enough also
He should be able to take care of him self before even tinking of amy oda human being wherher girl or boy sef
But that doesnt mean those that are nt boyant shouldnt have taste or desires also or shouldnt have good things that other are having
They shouldnbe given equall right also
amazingcidpro: This where most girls fail to distinguish nd understand

[ Which i will also explain
[ From both men nd women side
Any man thats wants a bea should be also able to carry the load bt thats on the contrary
There are factors that affects many girls to tinkd that way
1 family
2 environment
3 training
4 influence
5 character/behavioir
Well the people that fall into this trap are je guys that are also called mr nice guy, they try to woo a girl by buying heaven and eartj, which means their strength is in their money, which 50% thats what a girl wants bt other 50%nko ? Like gesture, humore, understanding, care, tolerance emotional wants md sexual wants ?? Such a girl will kmw d mans weakness nd go for d money nd wen d money is gone d guy goes broke md wll have nothing to offer again nd d girl will go
This is what players use , simple guys mite nt hv d money, bt if they can give d other 50% very well , d girl will stay , will even get from d rich guy nd give it to the other bad smart guy
Ladies wants d guy that can take control, d guy that will make dem.cry today nd fucl dom so well d next day, they want a guy that is bold nd less emotion so most guys that knw d secret use it to survive bt it will nt also last long wen the money is nt there bt at least dem enjoy d girl pass d mr nice guy wey go spend heaven nd earth bt will nt see ordinary pant
So nw from the girl side
If a girl is after money, its her own problem, cox she mite fall into trap of rituallist who she mite sleep with nd lose her womb
Or she mite fall into d trap of if everybody knws she is after money, even a small guy can give her small money nd still sleep with her
All these boils down to if she comes from a good home, the environment she grew up in, the good training her parents gave her, the influence she gets from friends, Internet or tv and dhe natural character she had from childhood
If she has dis her imagination nd fantasy wont be after d money but after hvin a good man nd raising a boy to a man
The Bible says he thats finds a wife /good woman has found a good thing nd a blessing
Nd beside every successful man there is a woman nd also beside every unsuccessful man there is a woman
[Some girls wants already made men, which is bad , coz if dah man becomes broke tomorrow u wont knw hw to raise him again coz u didnt raise him at first place
U need to knw what to do to raise ur man up, even if he is ur type bt doesnt hv much , d strength God has given u is to make him a better man,
If a guy spends on u that doesnt mean he loves u
Bt if he is with u nd he has no money , for s fact he has nothing nd he has u, that means he has a good taste coz even without money he is nt settle for d less which is u, that means he has a good standard nd taste nd hat means he has d potentials of becoming rich
Nd finally some guys are lazy, they want to eat from where they didnt cook, some guys are stupid nd idiotic in nature, instead to work tink on hw to get money nt only to keep a woman bt to hv a family nd hv a family they are busy wanting pussy pussy pussy
[ Nd also for d girls, a wise girl should knw hw to determine if a guy has a vision nd also if a guy would be rich,
For example girl a will see a yahoo guy nd say he is rich while girl b will see a humble , hardworking , guy with vision, girl b will come in help him, nd make him that rich guy, by d time wey d humble guy go get money, d yahoo guy money go Don finish
Girl a only saw now nd only wants now nw nw, bt girl b , saw not only nw bt also what d humble guy has nd what he could become in d future
[What i say wen a guy see that any girl is a girl A , he should run away from such girl, coz they will take d little he has nt even caring if he has eaten or not ,
The materiallistic girls, girls who follow a guy based on money nt love
And 4 a guy should be strong enough to tolerate girls coz no matter hw a girls is she is still lile a little sister, a guy should be strong enough nt to be emotionally nd psychologically down
No girl should treat his guy like trash coz he has no money, no girl shoulf disrespect his guy coz he has no money, no guy should abuse the facts that a guy doesnt hv mucn
A girl should learn hw to be independent , should be hardworkimg
So men wont knw thats d weak point
So mem wont capitalise on that
Even d husband mite decide to punish d girl by nt giving her money, bt if d lady is educated or she has someting doesnt , she wont even feel bad or ask too much from d husband nd d husbamd wont hv any reason nt to give her money
Dont look at what ur frends hv nw, d kinda cloth nd material tings they hv nw, better ones nd tings are ahead , nd dont also put pride wen a guy gets u stuffs coz he mite use that to insult u tomoro
Its better u get it ur self u understand to also let him knw u are also hardworking so he cant use his money to influence or control u
Knw ur guy nd hw big his pocket is, always ask for d most important timgs nt irrelevant tings, dont frustrate ur guy with ur wants nd needs he is just a bf nt a busband , knw wen he has nd knw wen he is broke, communicate with him to knw dis, dont make him to hv anoda tot abt u that u ar only after d money, dis will make him wen even d money comes he will be afraid to give u, coz he mite ne tinking that u ar only after money
And dont make or drive him.to go nd steal
Be contented nd satisfied he is nt a fool, he loves u nd he knws hw to make u happy maybe d money no dey nd his hustling to get it nd surprise u
But that doesn't mean he wont spend on u at all ooo, he should once in a while , send card, buy u ear rings, mayne sexy cloths, shoes, even if na only at least na someting, he should take u out , bt that's wen he has enough dear
D facy still remains, a girl get parents, uncles nd sisters and other relatives nd close friends that can help her nt everytime d bf , nd before u asl knw d income of ur guy , what he does , if he is hustling nd geting like 30k nd u ar askin a fone of 70k, u want to kill him, that one sef would make him to change his mind,
He alsp has other responsibilities, he needs to buy stuffs for him self also, its nt a must he will spend, u can also take him out, md buy stuffs for him, stop watiing till he gives u money,
[As far as a guy is nt yet married , he can only help or asisit a girl with d little he has thats if its available , its nt d guys responsibility to get all her needs , nd to carr her wahala for him head