So (In Omo Alhaji’s voice)who are you, babe? And guy, who the hell are you dating? A woman or a teeny weeny girl Let’s see.


1. A girl sees the world as an overly competitive ground. A woman sees the world as a place where everybody can succeed together.
Now, get the point. Somehow the world is really competitive, to succeed in life, you must have a little spirit of healthy competition. But we talking about excess, seeing every damn thing as a thing for competition.
A girl competes and is ready to tear and bring down another in order to succeed, secure resources, achieve set goals or even to “hook” a man.
But in the other leg hand, a woman helps other women. She knows that the sky is wide enough to accommodate all the birds in the sky, she knows that there’s plenty enough to go round for everyone. She is competitive but not the point of doing evil or seeing everything as a tug of war. She believes that life must be taken jeje.


2. A girl goes out and get wasted. A woman drinks alcohol responsibly cos she knows her drinking limit and she remains in control of herself
If you club, you’d be used to the sight of girls dancing like fools, showing their t|tties and doing all sort of stupid things.
You know why?
Yes, you do. Mr Alcohol!
Girls always want to chug down “free” booze in order to get hammered (inamiiin??). Yeah, it allows them to make poor, stupid and regrettable decisions.
But not a woman.
No be say a woman no dey shayo, but they do it with style and elegance. This is because they know their limits and never drink to the point of losing control.
A women is always stay in control and in charge, even when she drinks.



3. A girl wants to look $exy by all means so she resorts to wearing revealing dresses. But a woman looks $exy no matter what she wears.
Don’t get me wrong, being $exy is not such a bad thing. Hell yeah, Chidey likes his woman $exy too, lol. But when is a woman said to be $exy
For a girl, her physical beauty and “endowments” is her only yardstick for measuring “$exiness”. She sees it as her only true value and she uses it as the most primary tool to get all her life needs.
But a woman, knows her worth is beyond just her physicality. She mustn’t have her everything hanging out in order to feel $exually appealing. She believes more in her intelligence, her integrity, her values, her contributions, her humanity. In fact she knows she is $exy because she is $exy.
A girl does not respect her body. She has not yet understood that her body and heart are sacred, and that it’s important to be mindful of how she treats it and who she shares it with. “A girl cherishes handbags, diamonds and her shoe collection as her prize possessions. A woman cherishes her health, her sense of self, and her talents as her greatest assets.” – N. Mah

A woman is a queen, an empress, a goddess. A girl is buffoon.
— Chidey (2016)


4. A girl wants attention. But a woman wants respect.
Need I say more?
A woman commands respect through her actions, inactions and responsibilities. Even kings and mighty people tremble at her feet.
But a girl? She’s a baby and likes being so. She wants this and want that. She forces you to observe her. She is disturbed by what people say about her, her dressing and her bum! And oh yeah, she will do everything to have the attention of men (and women as the case may be) on her body.


5. Girls expect their “magician” men to know how they feel and what they’re thinking. Women use their words to communicate.
Ladies oh ladies. Please I have to speak Igbo to this? UMU NWOKE ADIGHI AMA IHE UNU BU N’OBI. MEN CANNOT READ MINDS!!! At least, not every man. Chidey can’t, Charley can’t, Mandela can’t, Emeka Nwogbunyama can’t, even my roommate can’t. It’s that bad. We wish that we could, it would make things a whole lot easier, but unfortunately we can’t.
Girls believe that their men should understand them so well that they simply know what they are thinking, how they are feeling and what they are “hinting” at.
Unfortunately, most men are not well-versed in picking up such signals. This is the point at which girls get frustrated and b|tchy.
But women accept their counterparts’ shortcomings and speak their minds instead.
Hats off.


6. A girl calls it domestic “duties”, a woman calls it domestic “responsibilities”
A girl doesn’t want to be bothered with anything domestic; as a matter of fact, she is proud of the fact that she cannot cook or clean.
Not a woman. A woman understands that being domestic is not a duty, but understands that it is one way of taking care of herself and others. She also understands that in the event she wants to create a family, having a person in the household who can contribute domestically is important. And she is ever ready to be that person.


7. Girls expect you to foot the bill all the time. Women are financially independent and they show it.
I don’t know, but girls don’t like whipping out their wallets. Even if someone is dying, they always want us to believe she has nada, after all, she still has to buy that latest designer shoes, $exy thongs, to-die-for handbags, iPhone 25, et cetera.
A woman, on the other hand, although confident enough to allow her man to pay for her, sometimes also makes a point to cover the bill herself from time to time – for both of them!
A woman likes to remind her man that she only keeps him around because he respects her and treats her well, and that she doesn’t need his cash.
This is exactly the person Neyo sang about.


8. Girls can’t wait to update their Facebook status to “In a relationship.” Women forget they have a Facebook account.
Ife umuazi.
But girls will be girls.
Immediately a man screws her and gives her some stupid hope of a relationship, she rushes to Facebook and other social and public platforms to make the public service announcement.
Women are just too busy with real life to bother updating their Facebook statuses. They will probably do it eventually when and if need be. But don’t expect them to go running to Facebook to update their status just to freak their man out and make fellow ladies jealous.
Time no dey, gyal.

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