princeonx:
Hell No!! Mine was nothing but trouble!! Her over Sabi is too much!! If your car didn't start in the morning she will ask if you're sure there's enough air in the tire!!
My own mom on the other hand was double of what I described above. At a point i had three women to please while married to only one! So, they can both visit but no body is living in my house anymore!! Infact I have to see your return ticket before you visit and if it's more than 2 weeks, no room for you.

princeonx:
Hell No!! Mine was nothing but trouble!! Her over Sabi is too much!! If your car didn't start in the morning she will ask if you're sure there's enough air in the tire!!
My own mom on the other hand was double of what I described above. At a point i had three women to please while married to only one! So, they can both visit but no body is living in my house anymore!! Infact I have to see your return ticket before you visit and if it's more than 2 weeks, no room for you.

BumbleBee2ice:
I dnt support aving MILs in ur home on a permanent stay.
My own MIL is really a funny case, weneva she's around i cnt communicate nd play freely wit my man anymore bcs wen i do i notice she doesnt seem too happy dat she will jst sit in a corner brooding nd she wil neva engage in our discuss bt wen we disagree u will see her chatting excitedly wit her son pretending she doesn't knw all isn't well btw us.

specialguest:
My mother in law stays with us weekdays and returns to her house on weekends because we live in the same city. To be frank at first I was not comfortable with the arrangement but when I asked the price of day care near my office and it was way too much (40k monthly), I began to appreciate the favour she is doing us by staying to take care of the baby while I go to work monday through friday.
Now we are really really close, We watch Zee world together after I get back from the office and she even assists to make dinner on the days I return late.
If I were to choose all over again, I would still prefer her to stay with us because her presence has been a blessing and a stress reliever.

Op the choice is yours, weigh it well!

Mrsprof:
I won't be comfortable living with my MIL, she can visit anytime she likes but not live with us. This is to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding, maybe she starts finding fault in one or two things I do and vise versa.

Berbierklaus:
Depends on the type of mother-inlaw she is,some MIL are very accomodating and fun to be with,but some are just too strict and a pain in the neck.


If you ask me,I will appreciate the presence of my mother inlaw no matter the attitude she has,coz I have been trained to withstand situations like that.




PS. i'm not married,just thinking aloud

Mrsprof:
I won't be comfortable living with my MIL, she can visit anytime she likes but not live with us. This is to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding, maybe she starts finding fault in one or two things I do and vise versa.

Adonis3:
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ThuGnificenX:
My wife's mother or siblings can't live with me until my marriage is 5 to 8 years old like wise my mother or siblings... We have to face our formative years alone.
Cos by then we could av grown to the level of handling our altercations codedly and I should have a big enough house that their presence won't be noticed much.. .

LoveJesus87:
hello sweetie, nice one there. Just d kind of woman am looking for

specialguest:
My mother in law stays with us weekdays and returns to her house on weekends because we live in the same city. To be frank at first I was not comfortable with the arrangement but when I asked the price of day care near my office and it was way too much (40k monthly), I began to appreciate the favour she is doing us by staying to take care of the baby while I go to work monday through friday.
Now we are really really close, We watch Zee world together after I get back from the office and she even assists to make dinner on the days I return late.
If I were to choose all over again, I would still prefer her to stay with us because her presence has been a blessing and a stress reliever.

Op the choice is yours, weigh it well!

Mrsprof:
I won't be comfortable living with my MIL, she can visit anytime she likes but not live with us. This is to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding, maybe she starts finding fault in one or two things I do and vise versa.

specialguest:
My mother in law stays with us weekdays and returns to her house on weekends because we live in the same city. To be frank at first I was not comfortable with the arrangement but when I asked the price of day care near my office and it was way too much (40k monthly), I began to appreciate the favour she is doing us by staying to take care of the baby while I go to work monday through friday.
Now we are really really close, We watch Zee world together after I get back from the office and she even assists to make dinner on the days I return late.
If I were to choose all over again, I would still prefer her to stay with us because her presence has been a blessing and a stress reliever.

Op the choice is yours, weigh it well!

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

It may surprise you to know that the average woman doesn't think that deep.

numericalguy:



Very very rearly will you see a man having issues with his MIL. It is typically a female thing and you know that.

Seahawk:
She's such a pretender. She's secretly hoping your marriage won't work out. What kind of mother doesn't want her son happy with his wife except a certified witch. Dem plenty like that for Nigeria. Instead of them to marry their sons and spare some innocent girl the stress of the competition they feel they is happening when their sons marry other women.

Weird funny creatures.

numericalguy:


She was not a witch when she gave birth and was raising her son. She was not a witch when she Sold her cloths to see through his education. She was not a witch when she took her sick baby to the hospital and even stayed awake all through the night by his bedside praying to God for her son to recover. She was not a witch when she suffered so much to raise the money for his school fees in the university. She was not a witch when she prayed all night just so that her graduate son will get a good job. Now that he is a made young man she suddenly becomes an evil witch abi.

Na God go punish that hand wey you take type that rubbish wet you post.

holyfather:

All these "have sex anywhere" things , are they dogs? Mstcheww Smh

specialguest:
My mother in law stays with us weekdays and returns to her house on weekends because we live in the same city. To be frank at first I was not comfortable with the arrangement but when I asked the price of day care near my office and it was way too much (40k monthly), I began to appreciate the favour she is doing us by staying to take care of the baby while I go to work monday through friday.
Now we are really really close, We watch Zee world together after I get back from the office and she even assists to make dinner on the days I return late.
If I were to choose all over again, I would still prefer her to stay with us because her presence has been a blessing and a stress reliever.

Op the choice is yours, weigh it well!

Seahawk:
The woman's mother didn't do all that for her daughter? Yet you will rarely see them coming to disturb the man that married their daughter. It's the men's mothers that don't know how to let go. If they really did all that for their sons with real love in their hearts, they will surely be happy to see him in love. Instead they keep doing their best to frustrate their daughters-in-law. I still wonder why they don't marry their sons so that peace will reign.

God punish your hand too. Marry your mother if she doesn't know her place in your life. Shameless women competing for wife position with their DILs. When her husband is at home and she should be there enjoying her old age with him. She's trotting up and down from one child's house to another.

numericalguy:


Its not everyone's problem if you are from an incestuous home. You are a sick and miserable person. Abeg carry your frustrations comot for this thread.

Mrsprof:
I won't be comfortable living with my MIL, she can visit anytime she likes but not live with us. This is to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding, maybe she starts finding fault in one or two things I do and vise versa.

iRyan:
My mother in law is uber racist and a b*tch too. I been trying to get along with her, and my wife's been trying to get us along too. There's this one time she visited and cooked for just my wife and our miscreant doggy. Yeah she pretended not to know I was home lol. She now visits whenever I am away on a business trip. The bonding process seems to be taking more time than I expected.

Fabulocity:
Would she be in the bedroom with them while they have sex?

specialguest:
My mother in law stays with us weekdays and returns to her house on weekends because we live in the same city. To be frank at first I was not comfortable with the arrangement but when I asked the price of day care near my office and it was way too much (40k monthly), I began to appreciate the favour she is doing us by staying to take care of the baby while I go to work monday through friday.
Now we are really really close, We watch Zee world together after I get back from the office and she even assists to make dinner on the days I return late.
If I were to choose all over again, I would still prefer her to stay with us because her presence has been a blessing and a stress reliever.

Op the choice is yours, weigh it well!

Mrsprof:
I won't be comfortable living with my MIL, she can visit anytime she likes but not live with us. This is to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding, maybe she starts finding fault in one or two things I do and vise versa.

gonkraziiiiii:
Even my own mum visits n stays for sum days n she's crying she wants to go to her house....Omor I no dey for MIL staying for more than a WK o...maybe when I born ehennnn ....and even at dat Abeg do come go Abeg....if she stays with me she wld frustrate me to be too nice....I'd have to away plate immediately after eating instead of whenever I feel like,sweep daily....i wldnt b free in ma house .....can't even move around naked.....pls I b boss for ma house but once she's around...over good girl mode activated....but God blessed me with a good mil sha but Abeg dey call me for phone from ur house ehnnn

Seahawk:
says the maga that can't differentiate between mother and wife. All you mummy's boys should marry your mothers and stop frustrating young girls' lives.