flakkybaby:
Well as for me i was onec nice and good to my MIL until when i gave birth i called her mum i need something from you and d response she gave me, was i know how many children i have in yoruba says (mo mo eyeh omo ti mo bi , or olomo mo omo e) can u imaging will u still be able to take her inn anytime again?

Mzflexydeeva:
Would you be comfortable living with your mum??

flakkybaby:
Well as for me i was onec nice and good to my MIL until when i gave birth i called her mum i need something from you and d response she gave me, was i know how many children i have in yoruba says (mo mo eyeh omo ti mo bi , or olomo mo omo e) can u imaging will u still be able to take her inn anytime again?

blessedqueen:



I love your idea

specialguest:
My mother in law stays with us weekdays and returns to her house on weekends because we live in the same city. To be frank at first I was not comfortable with the arrangement but when I asked the price of day care near my office and it was way too much (40k monthly), I began to appreciate the favour she is doing us by staying to take care of the baby while I go to work monday through friday.
Now we are really really close, We watch Zee world together after I get back from the office and she even assists to make dinner on the days I return late.
If I were to choose all over again, I would still prefer her to stay with us because her presence has been a blessing and a stress reliever.

Op the choice is yours, weigh it well!

specialguest:
My mother in law stays with us weekdays and returns to her house on weekends because we live in the same city. To be frank at first I was not comfortable with the arrangement but when I asked the price of day care near my office and it was way too much (40k monthly), I began to appreciate the favour she is doing us by staying to take care of the baby while I go to work monday through friday.
Now we are really really close, We watch Zee world together after I get back from the office and she even assists to make dinner on the days I return late.
If I were to choose all over again, I would still prefer her to stay with us because her presence has been a blessing and a stress reliever.

Op the choice is yours, weigh it well!

Oluwashegunnn:
...are you insuniating that if a man gets married 2 u he should 4get his mum and face u squarely

.dont 4get u will be a MIL one day..

specialguest:
My mother in law stays with us weekdays and returns to her house on weekends because we live in the same city. To be frank at first I was not comfortable with the arrangement but when I asked the price of day care near my office and it was way too much (40k monthly), I began to appreciate the favour she is doing us by staying to take care of the baby while I go to work monday through friday.
Now we are really really close, We watch Zee world together after I get back from the office and she even assists to make dinner on the days I return late.
If I were to choose all over again, I would still prefer her to stay with us because her presence has been a blessing and a stress reliever.

Op the choice is yours, weigh it well!

iRyan:
My mother in law is uber racist and a b*tch too. I been trying to get along with her, and my wife's been trying to get us along too. There's this one time she visited and cooked for just my wife and our miscreant doggy. Yeah she pretended not to know I was home lol. She now visits whenever I am away on a business trip. The bonding process seems to be taking more time than I expected.

princeonx:
Hell No!! Mine was nothing but trouble!! Her over Sabi is too much!! If your car didn't start in the morning she will ask if you're sure there's enough air in the tire!!
My own mom on the other hand was double of what I described above. At a point i had three women to please while married to only one! So, they can both visit but no body is living in my house anymore!! Infact I have to see your return ticket before you visit and if it's more than 2 weeks, no room for you.

opcon:
Bad idea. talking from experience. my own mum gave my husband hell just because I was bringing in more money to the house than he is... I sent her away. little wonder her marriage crashed. bad bad idea. I have known no greater peace since just I my husband and 2 kids alone live. we have disagreements but we settle within an hour or less. na my choice, make me live with am.

ehimeayeni:


My dear, i beging to wonder why some girls hate their mother in laws and forbid them to visit their matimonial home after marriage not knowing that they too would be mother in law one day.... Only those who wear the shoes knows where it pinches most

Sweetpenis:



Anty!God bless u abeg I don ask d woman b4 fear no let am answer....wives hate constructive crticism as long as its nt coming from their own mother......dis nonesense u talk no try am with me oo,say my own mama no go stay u jst myt end up in ur father's house with ur load....d way u take cherish ur mama I cherish mine pass.....and dnt 4get family get heirarchy there are no equals;the way ur kids aren't equal to u d mum na so d mum no equal to d dad nt withstanding any circumstance watsoever.....

specialguest:
My mother in law stays with us weekdays and returns to her house on weekends because we live in the same city. To be frank at first I was not comfortable with the arrangement but when I asked the price of day care near my office and it was way too much (40k monthly), I began to appreciate the favour she is doing us by staying to take care of the baby while I go to work monday through friday.
Now we are really really close, We watch Zee world together after I get back from the office and she even assists to make dinner on the days I return late.
If I were to choose all over again, I would still prefer her to stay with us because her presence has been a blessing and a stress reliever.

Op the choice is yours, weigh it well!

Nyceguy92:
An arrangement where a mother-in-law is living with her son-in-law is not common.
They usually visit for a short period.

However, if you find yourself in the situation you describe, treat her like your mother.
*MOTHERS know their boundaries and when not to interfere.

I don't see how she will interfere in sexual matters; it's between you and your wife in the bedroom.
But that does not mean you should go ultra-conservative and stop acceptable public displays of affection because she is there.

Pleas note that you cannot hide obvious misunderstandings from her...
After keeping quiet for a while, she may one day deem it obligatory to ask questions - as an adult and as a mother.

tunbebes:








I love you sis! May your brothers wife treat your mother well too. Amen.

DonFodio2:
why do you think she doesn't seem happy?

Seahawk:
The woman's mother didn't do all that for her daughter? Yet you will rarely see them coming to disturb the man that married their daughter. It's the men's mothers that don't know how to let go. If they really did all that for their sons with real love in their hearts, they will surely be happy to see him in love. Instead they keep doing their best to frustrate their daughters-in-law. I still wonder why they don't marry their sons so that peace will reign.

God punish your hand too. Marry your mother if she doesn't know her place in your life. Shameless women competing for wife position with their DILs. When her husband is at home and she should be there enjoying her old age with him. She's trotting up and down from one child's house to another.

Seahawk:
She's such a pretender. She's secretly hoping your marriage won't work out. What kind of mother doesn't want her son happy with his wife except a certified witch. Dem plenty like that for Nigeria. Instead of them to marry their sons and spare some innocent girl the stress of the competition they feel they is happening when their sons marry other women.

Weird funny creatures.

Berbierklaus:
Depends on the type of mother-inlaw she is,some MIL are very accomodating and fun to be with,but some are just too strict and a pain in the neck.


If you ask me,I will appreciate the presence of my mother inlaw no matter the attitude she has,coz I have been trained to withstand situations like that.




PS. i'm not married,just thinking aloud

Berbierklaus:
Depends on the type of mother-inlaw she is,some MIL are very accomodating and fun to be with,but some are just too strict and a pain in the neck.


If you ask me,I will appreciate the presence of my mother inlaw no matter the attitude she has,coz I have been trained to withstand situations like that.




PS. i'm not married,just thinking aloud