So Dipo and I have been dating for a very long time, one time we had problems like every other young couple, but I got carried away, I was more exposed and loved having fun than him, he was a little reserved and was more the indoor type. During this period I began to have doubts about our relationship, I began to ask myself I wanted to spend the rest of my life with someone as boring as Dipo, then I met someone else, he was exactly my type, we got along so well on the first day that I knew we were gonna do it soon, well we had sex and the whole excitement died down, and I went back to Dipo, this was 10 yrs ago.


Five years after that incident, Dipo and I got married, we were happy for two years, we bought our own house, we had great jobs and our first baby was on the way, I felt like the most blessed person on earth, after I put to bed that’s when my trauma began, Dipo became a completely different person, it started from the drinking, I didn’t mind, as long as he didn’t come home drunk, I never suspected cheating, I knew Dipo was old fashioned and would never do that so when the late nights and absence from home began I just thought work toll, never for once did I imagine my husband to be cheating, not just cheating but with multiple women.




I just had a baby, I was on maternity leave, Dipo wouldn’t let me hire a nanny or a maid, so I was home full time, taking care of our baby all by myself, I was getting tired of him not helping out, so one day he comes back from work very late, I was up and I told him how I felt, I couldn’t control the rage anymore, I shouted at him, and told him what a piece of sh**t he was, he calmly looked at me, went straight to our bedroom, into the bathroom to take a shower, I just couldn’t hold it anymore, I followed him, when I got to the bedroom, his phone kept buzzing, I wanted to pick to tell whoever was calling to go to hell, who calls a married man this late anyway, I wished now I hadn’t picked that call, the next words I heard made my heart froze “Darling you home, hope you wife wasn’t angry, we had a nice time and I’m still sore”.


Right there and then my world crashed, I was in shock, I didn’t believe my ears, I thought maybe it was a wrong dial, but she had called his name, he came into the room and just looked at me, he knew I knew, I could see the hurt in his face, I asked him “Temi have you been cheating on me” we call each other that, that’s our pet name “Temi” he didn’t deny, he just said yes, I wanted him to deny vehemently, wanted him to say anything other than a yes, he told me “Temi and she isn’t the only one, I don’t know what’s wrong with me, ever since you cheated in school, I never forgave you, I wanted to pay you back for what you did but since I started I can’t stop please help me”


Well I woke up in the hospital, I must have fainted after hearing that, how could anyone hold a grudge for almost a decade, who does that? He’s been pleading, our marriage is really young though we have been together for a long time, I wanna make it work, but I know he won’t stop cheating, please what do I do?


Talk2Bella

http://talk2bellaa..com.ng/2016/08/i-cheated-once-now-my-husband-wont-stop.html

you too continue cheating nah. hahahaha. ask God to forgive you for what you did. and make sure you never go back to it. talk to your husband

Two wrongs do not make a right.

The moment you guys stop taking this cheating thing too seriously, the happier your lives would become.

The natural essence for getting "married" is for reproduction and advancement of our species through biological evolution.

Humans are genetically hard-wired to have sex with many people. It's our natural programming. Creating institutions like marriage and injunctions like sexual commitment to just one person, through organized religion and cultural laws, is just a means of diverting and distracting the human species from their natural genetic configuration. And history has shown us that this can never work.

Hmmmn... so the other person @ the other end of the call said all these
I wished now I hadn’t picked that call, the next words I heard made my heart froze “Darling you home, hope you wife wasn’t angry, we had a nice time and I’m still sore”.
Without verifying the identity of the receiver?

Okay na. Kontinew

So sad.

Where are the marriage counselors when you need them?

Let me put a twist on it, "birds of a feather bed together"

Forgive him and when he does it again, forgive him, you should forgive him 1 million times

Caravan:
The moment you guys stop taking this cheating thing too seriously, the happier your lives would become.

The natural essence for getting "married" is for reproduction and advancement of our species through biological evolution.

Humans are genetically hard-wired to have sex with many people. It's our natural programming. Creating institutions like marriage and injunctions like sexual commitment to just one person, through organized religion and cultural laws, is just a means of diverting the human species from their natural genetic configuration. And history has shown us that this can never work.

What was she expecting? A man is entitled to as many women as possible. She was the one who started cheating first. Do you know what it means to cheat on someone who truly loves and care about you? Simply cos of a little quarrel you decided to cheat on him. As for the guy he has already made his point and needs to stop. This is simply one of the reasons why I take relationships in Nigeria as a joke.

So that's how u guys wana play me movie huh?

CrazyQuinn:

What do the smiley faces mean? Do you agree with me?

Caravan:


What do the smiley faces mean? Do you agree with me?

1000% yes

What you did was bad op, but what he did is worse. Jez, y hold on to ur problem, when u can let it go.

lumzybo:
Hmmmn... so the other person @ the other end of the call said all these
I wished now I hadn’t picked that call, the next words I heard made my heart froze “Darling you home, hope you wife wasn’t angry, we had a nice time and I’m still sore”.
Without verifying the identity of the receiver?

Okay na. Kontinew

Lol my thoughts exactly..

No idea. But indeed he care for you nd still loves you. Settle your differences, dont make decisions while covered by anger.

Talk2bella..com.ng??

I'll pass

She cheated sch days and my nigga dint get over it...
Paybck isa biccch

Talk2Bella:
So Dipo and I have been dating for a very long time, one time we had problems like every other young couple, but I got carried away, I was more exposed and loved having fun than him, he was a little reserved and was more the indoor type. During this period I began to have doubts about our relationship, I began to ask myself I wanted to spend the rest of my life with someone as boring as Dipo, then I met someone else, he was exactly my type, we got along so well on the first day that I knew we were gonna do it soon, well we had sex and the whole excitement died down, and I went back to Dipo, this was 10 yrs ago.


Five years after that incident, Dipo and I got married, we were happy for two years, we bought our own house, we had great jobs and our first baby was on the way, I felt like the most blessed person on earth, after I put to bed that’s when my trauma began, Dipo became a completely different person, it started from the drinking, I didn’t mind, as long as he didn’t come home drunk, I never suspected cheating, I knew Dipo was old fashioned and would never do that so when the late nights and absence from home began I just thought work toll, never for once did I imagine my husband to be cheating, not just cheating but with multiple women.




I just had a baby, I was on maternity leave, Dipo wouldn’t let me hire a nanny or a maid, so I was home full time, taking care of our baby all by myself, I was getting tired of him not helping out, so one day he comes back from work very late, I was up and I told him how I felt, I couldn’t control the rage anymore, I shouted at him, and told him what a piece of sh**t he was, he calmly looked at me, went straight to our bedroom, into the bathroom to take a shower, I just couldn’t hold it anymore, I followed him, when I got to the bedroom, his phone kept buzzing, I wanted to pick to tell whoever was calling to go to hell, who calls a married man this late anyway, I wished now I hadn’t picked that call, the next words I heard made my heart froze “Darling you home, hope you wife wasn’t angry, we had a nice time and I’m still sore”.


Right there and then my world crashed, I was in shock, I didn’t believe my ears, I thought maybe it was a wrong dial, but she had called his name, he came into the room and just looked at me, he knew I knew, I could see the hurt in his face, I asked him “Temi have you been cheating on me” we call each other that, that’s our pet name “Temi” he didn’t deny, he just said yes, I wanted him to deny vehemently, wanted him to say anything other than a yes, he told me “Temi and she isn’t the only one, I don’t know what’s wrong with me, ever since you cheated in school, I never forgave you, I wanted to pay you back for what you did but since I started I can’t stop please help me”


Well I woke up in the hospital, I must have fainted after hearing that, how could anyone hold a grudge for almost a decade, who does that? He’s been pleading, our marriage is really young though we have been together for a long time, I wanna make it work, but I know he won’t stop cheating, please what do I do?


Talk2Bella

http://talk2bellaa..com.ng/2016/08/i-cheated-once-now-my-husband-wont-stop.html

If the story is true, then I think the guy is a Scorpio. They don't trust easily and when hurt with betrayal, they neither go give nor forget.

This shows that most men are emotionally weak while women are emotionally strong

Why are you complaining?...you cheat,he reciprocated..two can play the game.....marriage is a joke

CrazyQuinn:
This shows that most men are emotionally weak while women are emotionally strong

smh

My dear do me this favour,its not gonna be easy but just try. The main aim of cheating is to get attention and hurt the other party. Now my advice is; ignore him,don't act hurt or give him that attention anymore. Go about your business like he doesn't exist, believe me he will come around and stop the childish act of his. You are already giving him his heart desire by getting hurt. Stop it and focus all your love and attention on your baby, like you said he wasn't like this before, which means he is a good man. Don't forget to pray too depending on if you want your marriage back...if not separation and divorce is the end of it all! Cheers

Please what's chelating...?

Karma iz a bastard

U should cheat too.
Case closed

players


Just play safe

CrazyQuinn:
This shows that most men are emotionally weak while women are emotionally strong

The thunder that will fire you is having PHD lesson from *SANGO*

CrazyQuinn:
This shows that most men are emotionally weak while women are emotionally strong

Read it again and tell me if you made sense. Go on.

Swizdom:


Read it again and tell me if you made sense. Go on.

It made 1000% sense

yorhmienerd:


The thunder that will fire you is having PHD lesson from *SANGO*

and you are making any sense