The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.

The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a young man to keep himself till he gets married as compared to back in the days.
I also noticed that some of these young men are actually good, husband material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.
Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the boy child or what?? I don't just get it

Seahawk:
I don't even know how it makes sense to anyone that it's okay for men to have sex but not okay for women. Like the men have other socially acceptable options than to do it with women.

Seahawk:
Because the men are having sex with them. That's why. Unless you prescribe that the men should start sleeping with themselves or animals.

EfemenaXY:


Perhaps if men like you were castrated, then society would be overflowing with virgins.

Or don't you know lots of virginal, untested men = lots of virginal, chaste females??

Yewandequeen:
Dear Op i will assist in answering this question after you have confirmed you are also a virgin till date.

No offense

kkboy:
Why will a man who is not a virgin be thinking that a lady be a virgin before marriage. What took away the virginity of the man also took that of the lady.

All I see are wise men and women

This gender favouristism Culture needs to stop,because what is good for the goose is good for the gander


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And every other friend I made on nairaland


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I will come back to comment, in case

*Modified*
Why is it difficult to cook without using water.
Life is no more in the BC's, immorality is a joy of the day. Even if a girl tells you she's a virgin, how many guys out of 100 will believe?

Because virginity has lost its values in the eyes of youths

Of course it's the modern society. This generation is sex obsessed unlike ‘back in the days’. Premarital sex is no longer a taboo. Couples have no qualms about getting intimate in relationships. Morality - washed & degraded.

Simply because...sex is so sooo sweet

1. Lack of fear of GOD


11. Over advertisement of sex


111. End of the world is near.

Etc

me am still a virgin .

its not easy when sex is everywhere these days. Its so hard to keep it.

Too much social exposure,and nobody wants a bride with a vestigial genital!


Technically, Virginity is overrated!..

Wizzyblack3:
I will come back to comment, in case

comment now, let's have your opinion

VolT0xic:
Of course it's the modern society. This generation is sex obsessed unlike ‘back in the days’. Premarital sex is no longer a taboo. Couples have no qualms about getting intimate in relationships. Morality - washed & degraded.

moral decadence...

so sad

elrony:
Too much social exposure,and nobody wants a bride with a vestigial genital!


Technically, Virginity is overrated!..

wet in be vestigal.........

fromnigeria:
1. Lack of fear of GOD


11. Over advertisement of sex


111. End of the world is near.

Etc

On point bro, I think the end of the world is near.....

The world needs to be restored to factory settings

whogoesthere:
wet in be vestigal.........

Vestigial as in non functional ...

elrony:


Vestigial as in non functional ...

na so.....it is well

whogoesthere:
na so.....it is well

Lol....
Buh on a lighter note,Virginity doesn't make one a better person!

I'll always pray to marry a better person someday! !!..

Lack of self worth and value
lack of principles and selfcontrol
victimization(rape)
media influence
peer pressure
stupidity and ignorance

Because the men are having sex with them. That's why. Unless you prescribe that the men should start sleeping with themselves or animals.

whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.

Perhaps if men like you were castrated, then society would be overflowing with virgins.

Or don't you know lots of virginal, untested men = lots of virginal, chaste females??

EfemenaXY:


Perhaps if men like you were castrated, then society would be overflowing with virgins.

Or don't you know lots of virginal, untested men = lots of virginal, chaste females??

I don't even know how it makes sense to anyone that it's okay for men to have sex but not okay for women. Like the men have other socially acceptable options than to do it with women.

Seahawk:
I don't even know how it makes sense to anyone that it's okay for men to have sex but not okay for women. Like the men have other socially acceptable options than to do it with women.

Don't bother trying to figure out senseless posts. Senseless posts deserve senseless responses. Garbage In, Garbage Out (GIGO).

EfemenaXY:


Don't bother trying to figure out senseless posts. Senseless posts deserve senseless responses. Garbage In, Garbage Out (GIGO).

GIGO

Good one.

Some ladies are exceptional,we all cannot be the same,some are unique,even though the world has gone bizarre towards sexual activities, they still maintain their dignity.

I think some of these ladies lacked parental guidance and some were influenced negatively.

Nevertheless that is not enough reason for ladies to go into sexual immorality.

Ladies need to be prayerful and self determined to be able to keep themselves.

Dear Op i will assist in answering this question after you have confirmed you are also a virgin till date.

No offense

Because their toto is their work-chop.

Nobody talks about morality now, rather the world leaders are busy taking homosexuality to the next level

1. Ladies re not fucking themselves. Guys are. So, i think the question should be directed to us. Not the ladies.

2. In case you want to ask the guys, the answer is polygamy is nolonger allowed. We are entitled to just one girl for life nowadays hence, we want her to be beautiful, a good cook, housekeeper, mother, manager a well as good in bed. How else do we ensure she is good in bed if we dont try it first?

3. Infact, i still put it to the guys. The rate @ which child rape increases today, don't be surprised if virgins become an endangered species.

4. Who virginity help self? Does it add food to my belly?

@ op, its not about the girls. We guys re doing the cherry popping

Why will a man who is not a virgin be thinking that a lady be a virgin before marriage. What took away the virginity of the man also took that of the lady.

whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.

why is it difficult for guy to avoid jumping after anything under skirt??

To be very sincere Virgins are Abundant in Nigeria!
I had an encounter with 5, saw the ***** with my eyes. But I encouraged them as a gentleman to keep it till the right time!
One recently got married offered me a Lexus gift but I was out of the country on official business