October1960:


YES

freecocoa:
And we are comparing having sex to selling lands, isn't that just great? Smh.

I guess we also forgot that girls are also humans who can have urges too, you woo her, seduce and turn her on and still expect her to say no to having sex, because you expect her to be a virgin, man get da feck outta here with your double standards.

arosunshine:
Over-fed puerile teenager huh ?


Well am a happily married man with two adorable kids to show off and expecting another bundle of joy by October

believe me or not omalicham (ma beautiful wife) was a virgin till our traditional marriage night.

So stop talking trash

anigbajumo:


Continue nah.....

freecocoa:
And we are comparing having sex to selling lands, isn't that just great? Smh.

I guess we also forgot that girls are also humans who can have urges too, you woo her, seduce and turn her on and still expect her to say no to having sex, because you expect her to be a virgin, man get da feck outta here with your double standards.

Berbierklaus:












All I see are wise men and women

This gender favouristism Culture needs to stop,because what is good for the goose is good for the gander


Btw I want to celebrate this FTC on my new moniker by calling on lalasticlala,Fynestboi,Royalrol,the mods I admire from afar to celebrate with me.


Not forgeting the guy that cracks me up
Smellymouth
And every other friend I made on nairaland
uwanu I never anytin less frm U trying to hide behind a finger after all ............

DJ iykekelvins please play me, E no easy by psquare

Timbuktou:


An analogy shouldn't be taken literally. A beg, keep the emotions in your bag.

Its OK to have urges, don't just tell us to value stuff that's not valuable. Nobody is saying you must be a virgin, just don't tell me that okrika last grade is cha cha. Thank you.

anigbajumo:


Continue nah.....

vectoh:
i knw u said yes to d 22yrs old lady askin u to do..so,probably yo nt married..ur future wife too wil b smwhr wt someone sayin yes to her demands.

okirewaju:
Because virginity has lost its values in the eyes of youths

freecocoa:


Duh! If it's that important to you, girls will continue using alum and revirginization kits, win win for everyone.

xendra:
oh dear! see how them take lie get this one down, a lot of girls keep falling fall lies till date. how can they marry as virgins

njokusboy:


This is as good a comparison as any, you cannot blame the buyer for the sellers decision to sell.... It's common sense....



The fvck is this, this doesn't even make any sense, so if someone cajoles you to do something that's enticing but against ur ideals, you'd do it because you are human...
And you consider yourself a rational , independent thinking being?
I don't have a problem with women having sex like rabbits, doesn't affect me, I'd still marry a virgin if i want... I only found the reasons you gave to be quite ridiculous...

lilyqueen:
I think some of these ladies lacked parental guidance and some were influenced negatively.

Nevertheless that is not enough reason for ladies to go into sexual immorality.

Ladies need to be prayerful and self determined to be able to keep themselves.

Timbuktou:


So, because girls might attempt to deceive me I shouldn't consider it important? Right. Seems like you're making excuses for sluts. Why are you making excuse for sluts?

freecocoa:
The comparison makes no sense whatsoever, sex is a natural thing between two people, therefore shouldn't even be a buying or selling thing in the first place.

You fail to get the point still, it is not against a woman's ideals to have sex, y'all hypocrites only try to twist it to seem so and thank the good lawd women ain't buying that horseshit no more. What I was saying is that, it's a man and a woman that has sex, so maybe if the men said no to sex too, virgins will be everywhere, quite simple.

Yea right, you'll marry a secondary virgin, well unless you marry a naive minor, unexposed mgbeke girl still living in the 19th century or an outright f00lish woman who remained chaste for one man that's been about the block, in hope to get some reward or whatever, but if you are a virgin yourself, then I take it all back cos only a virgin deserves another virgin.

Btw, did I mention I was a virgin?

xendra:
you just did.. kudos

MsGlobalwonder:
Virgin? If married, did you marry a Virgin? If women have sex.. is it your body? Is it ur jajaina?

dhesire:


You go like aproko well well!
Instead if you to advise against such sex appeal, you dey there dey shout continue nah!

freecocoa:
It should be important to you, if you are a virgin yourself, otherwise, you get what you deserve.

Making no excuse for no one.

whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.

freecocoa:
The comparison makes no sense whatsoever, sex is a natural thing between two people, therefore shouldn't even be a buying or selling thing in the first place.

You fail to get the point still, it is not against a woman's ideals to have sex, y'all hypocrites only try to twist it to seem so and thank the good lawd women ain't buying that horseshit no more. What I was saying is that, it's a man and a woman that has sex, so maybe if the men said no to sex too, virgins will be everywhere, quite simple.

Yea right, you'll marry a secondary virgin, well unless you marry a naive minor, unexposed mgbeke girl still living in the 19th century or an outright f00lish woman who remained chaste for one man that's been about the block, in hope to get some reward or whatever, but if you are a virgin yourself, then I take it all back cos only a virgin deserves another virgin.

Btw, did I mention I was a virgin?

Timbuktou:


I'm the one paying and I intend to get value for my money. Isn't it interesting that women will marry a man with wives? You people don't mind being 3rd, 4th, nth wives. That should tell you a whole lot who values what.

sekundosekundo:


I agree with you my dear, I didn't believe that my wife is a virgin even as a graduate but she proved me wrong. I am mad about her, I respect her a lot, she's simply the best.

muller101:
but men are the same. According to ladies.

njokusboy:

Natural or not, some negotiations take place so it fits...Moving on...



Now you are talking, babes no longer feel it's less than ideal to have sex outside marriage, thats why they are fvcking anyhow, you finally said the right thing... Whether men said "no to sex" was never the bone of contention... The question was why the number of virgins are as scarce as grass in the Sahara...



Who tell you? I know women now fvck like Hot greyhounds but I tell you, decent, primaty,non-mgbeke virgins still exist .. Why are you even hating on them ... I suspect your own got lost somewhere , anyway, no wahala , I haven't been a virgin since the renaissance but I'd marry one if I like, cos I can...
Mind you, I can spot the secondary ones... Alum won't help




make I die

njokusboy:


You guys better drop this hare-brianed assertion that girls are having sex because boys are asking for sex....
It makes you guys come across as brainless zombies

freecocoa:
Well then, I bet you know how to go about getting your money 's worth, right? Like I said earlier, win win for all, although one party seems to be complaining more, hahaha.

kaycito:

So who asks for sex most the girls? It wont take away anything from you if you decide to be objective, boys cant be lamenting about lack of virgins around when themselves are not virgins and they always go seeking sex from different girls, thats hypocrisy dont condemn what you are gulity of cos you feel you can.