In my recent tweetchat, I presented one of my guests with what she called a controversial and yet must discussed topic “Is your significant other entitled to your password”. Though the end result of that tweetchat was not quite satisfying so I decided it is time we discuss it again. While thinking of this I also came to the realization that there are topics that we think about but don’t like to discuss because the conversation is usually uncomfortable. Instead, we avoid the topics and hope they work themselves out on their own when we already know they never will. Below are three topics people should discuss in the beginning of a relationship but they often don’t have until the end…

ASK YOUR PARTNER IF OR NOT IT IS DIFFICULT BEING FAITHFUL
Asking your partner their thought on cheating, and maybe you can twist the above questions towards a more friendly direction “Is Being Faithful Easy”? This way it doesn’t sound as if you are expecting it from them, but rather you want to trust them more. And if you are asked the above question, in as much as you want to be the good girl or guy, it is dignifying to be truthful.
To be clear, I’m not only talking about physical encounters. Many people limit their definition of cheating to physical encounters. However, most infidelities don’t leap to the physical. You often work your way up to the physical point, so what about all those missteps you took on your way there?
What about all those indiscretions you overlooked, ignored, or somehow excused until the inevitable? You know the type: the extra DM on Twitter, the inappropriate ‘Like’ on a Facebook picture you had no business viewing in the first place, or the “hey, how have you been?” message to an X even though you’re in a new relationship. Then there is real life: the extra flirtatious laugh, touch, or suggestion you give or overlook from a person of interest. You know you respective statuses so instead you entice each other, playfully at first, until that invisible line between flirtatiously innocent suggestions and outright deceitful actions blurs beyond recognition. What then?

This is a conversation that should reach a final destination; don’t shy away from answering or asking your partner. If you’ve ever cheated before, I think it’s important to identify the true cause in order to successfully address the issue rather than make blanket and dismissive statement. Further, it may help to determine is it harder to be faithful than it is to cheat? Do men or women have it harder or easier? Is cheating more about avoiding situations that can lead to infidelity or having the strength to resist all opportunities real or imagined? In one of my recent tweetchat I also indulge my guest who gave his thoughts about cheating and gladly he was very polite and open while discussing the topic.
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