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Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by amebono1: 10:38am On Oct 13, 2009
When some men clear their throats, their wives develop symptoms of tuberculosis. Those are men who are neither bullies nor mad dogs. They do not get a kick from kicking their wives around the house.

They do not beat their women just to prove they are men. And their women know when to pull the brakes. So, there are men and there are men. Mad men, wife beaters and men who know how to enforce discipline in their homes.

We’ve heard enough of men who kick their women in the tummy when they are pregnant and those who cause their women to wear D&G ‘bones’ to cover up dark patches on their faces after slapping sessions. We have also heard enough of women who make their husbands so miserable, the poor men lose it and go berserk.

In other words, there are wife beaters, women batterers all over the place and women with vile mouths who don’t know when to duck when they see a flying punch. So, there is no point belabouring the violent point. It is bad to be foul-mouthed and worse to be a wife or woman beater. Is there then a middle road? Of course. Only dumb men don’t know how to discipline their women without raising a fist. Wife beaters should learn from their women. We, the daughters of Eve do not beat men and yet smart men don’t toy with us.

We do not give our men black and blue faces to get them to buy us gold, diamonds, the latest SUV and build us houses. They do all those things nice and easy and we know how to express our gratitude. But men who insist this is a man’s world don’t know jack about making their women do what they want. All brawns, no strategy.

A woman will tell a man to go to hell and the dude is actually going to look forward to the trip. Well, it’s absolutely a woman thing. We were designed by God with that particular element. Poor men, what do they know?

But wait, I found men who know how to get their women to fear and revere them. Their women confessed so. Some men told me how they do it. The lesson in all I learnt is unless you escaped from a psychiatric hospital, there is no reason to beat the woman in your life.

Bimpe is 40 and said her husband simply shuts down all activities at her oil installation. Alfred does not actually freeze his wife’s account when she errs, he simply insists on a proposal and due process for every expense. Like Cross River State Senators, Bayo deploys the hunger strike strategy and Nath makes Bo- la Ige proud with his siddon look approach. Let’s take them one by one.

Bimpe’s story
‘Babe, you know I married in my old age. At 37, I had been around and I do not joke with my sex life. I knew if I was going to keep my pants on, I must marry a man who can hold them in place. My husband may be guilty of all sins and inadequacies but he is all the man I want in bed. The thought of him gets me through a bad day, believe me. He is a long distance runner who is skilful every step of the way. He knows my weakness and he exploits it to the hilt. If I step out of line, he wears a belt with his pyjamas.

He’s got plenty of self-control anyway, so he’s difficult to seduce. When I’m serving penance, that’s when my husband wears what advertises his ‘goods’ in the house- great biceps, firm thighs. He would give me long lingering kisses and that’s it. He’s very fashion conscious and when he’s punishing me, he wears all those things that keep the women ogling him. The total torture is lethal, more lethal than I can put into words. I love him to bits and so, of course, I can’t stand the punishment for more than three days. After that I beg and make sure I do exactly as he pleased. It’s working for our marriage.

Afred’s story
My wife knows I’m generous and that is also the weapon I use to whip her in line. Once I start asking for explanation on how the house-keeping allowance is spent, why she can’t travel for summer or why they all have to go to Gambia instead of Spain, she knows it’s not because I’m broke. I refuse to talk about her demands for anything that has to do with money. All aso-ebi for parties are rejected. I ask for special dishes, soups. But no extra kobo comes out of anywhere. We do not run generator all night. The big cars stay in the house because their keys stay in my locked-up wardrobe. Even the children know when things are not right. My attitude is if I’m not happy in my home, everybody joins the unhappy train. Period. It works for me.

Bayo’s story
If my wife offends me, I refuse her food. I eat outside until she apologises and stops whatever it is that has rubbed me up the wrong way. Sometimes she is angry too and ignores me and my hunger strike. When she does that I step up the strategy by bringing food home, warm it in her microwave while whistling and I eat it on the dining table. That leaves her wondering where the food came from. Oh, to make that angle effective, I do not bring anything that looks like it is from a fast food eatery. I bring real native food like pounded yam and vegetable packed in a beautiful food flask complete with hand towel and bottled water and wine, all in a nice basket. And no matter how tired I am when I get home, I eat my ‘food from outside’ and tell the house help to put the flask back in the car.

Nath’s story
I go out a lot when my wife offends me until she returns to her senses. If she calls me while I’m out, I tell her I’d call back later. I never do. If she greets me, I grumble. I stay in my room when I’m in the house. If she feigns illness to get my attention, I call the doctor to come to the house but I make sure I leave before he arrives. I know what hurts her and the silent treatment is the most potent. I’m ordinarily a jovial person. We talk a lot. We are each other’s best friends. We even gossip like two girls. We drink wine on the balcony and swap jokes but when she offends me, I withdraw all that. She is a banker and likes to return home where she can relax. Instead of beating her or shouting, I simply listen to my old school blues and watch wrestling. Otherwise, I’m out with the boys and I let her know.
So, what did we learn folks? There are many ways to kill a cat. Find another whip to beat your wife otherwise you are a certified psycho

http://news.onlinenigeria.com/templates/?a=8912&z=3
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by amebono1: 12:38pm On Oct 13, 2009
Bimpe’s story
‘Babe, you know I married in my old age. At 37, I had been around and I do not joke with my sex life. I knew if I was going to keep my pants on, I must marry a man who can hold them in place. My husband may be guilty of all sins and inadequacies but he is all the man I want in bed. The thought of him gets me through a bad day, believe me. He is a long distance runner who is skilful every step of the way. He knows my weakness and he exploits it to the hilt. If I step out of line, he wears a belt with his pyjamas.


Afred’s story
My wife knows I’m generous and that is also the weapon I use to whip her in line. Once I start asking for explanation on how the house-keeping allowance is spent, why she can’t travel for summer or why they all have to go to Gambia instead of Spain, she knows it’s not because I’m broke. I refuse to talk about her demands for anything that has to do with money. All aso-ebi for parties are rejected. I ask for special dishes, soups. But no extra kobo comes out of anywhere. We do not run generator all night. The big cars stay in the house because their keys stay in my locked-up wardrobe. Even the children know when things are not right. My attitude is if I’m not happy in my home, everybody joins the unhappy train. Period. It works for me

grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by amebono1: 12:40pm On Oct 13, 2009
Nath’s story
I go out a lot when my wife offends me until she returns to her senses. If she calls me while I’m out, I tell her I’d call back later. I never do. If she greets me, I grumble. I stay in my room when I’m in the house. If she feigns illness to get my attention, I call the doctor to come to the house but I make sure I leave before he arrives. I know what hurts her and the silent treatment is the most potent. I’m ordinarily a jovial person. We talk a lot. We are each other’s best friends. We even gossip like two girls. We drink wine on the balcony and swap jokes but when she offends me, I withdraw all that. She is a banker and likes to return home where she can relax. Instead of beating her or shouting, I simply listen to my old school blues and watch wrestling. Otherwise, I’m out with the boys and I let her know.
So, what did we learn folks? There are many ways to kill a cat. Find another whip to beat your wife otherwise you are a certified psycho

grin grin grin grin

Bayo’s story
If my wife offends me, I refuse her food. I eat outside until she apologises and stops whatever it is that has rubbed me up the wrong way. Sometimes she is angry too and ignores me and my hunger strike. When she does that I step up the strategy by bringing food home, warm it in her microwave while whistling and I eat it on the dining table. That leaves her wondering where the food came from. Oh, to make that angle effective, I do not bring anything that looks like it is from a fast food eatery. I bring real native food like pounded yam and vegetable packed in a beautiful food flask complete with hand towel and bottled water and wine, all in a nice basket. And no matter how tired I am when I get home, I eat my ‘food from outside’ and tell the house help to put the flask back in the car.


buahahahahahahhahahahahhaha this is it, oh gawddd grin grin grin
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by MrPrsdent(m): 12:45pm On Oct 13, 2009
this is all soooooooo childish
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by amebono1: 12:50pm On Oct 13, 2009
oga tell us how you whip your partner grin grin grin
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by throttler(f): 1:08pm On Oct 13, 2009
bimpes story is truly hilarious.
well, as a female, i dont fear my huby or any man beating me, though my huby isnt that type, but i sure know a thing or two about fighting back, and it wont be soft punches. i think all women should be prepared to use that if it ever happens. you beat me 1, i beat you 2, that is simultaneous equation grin

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Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by tessybaby(f): 1:13pm On Oct 13, 2009
whatz so childish mr president?
just tell us ur own nah
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by Rooneyboy(m): 1:28pm On Oct 13, 2009
Brilliant ideas
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by Rooneyboy(m): 1:33pm On Oct 13, 2009
Good ideas , but what of a man that's got no biceps or money to go on hunger strike;what does he do ? Drink kìèkìè all day long ?
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by otukpo(f): 1:38pm On Oct 13, 2009
!amebo no1:


Bayo’s story
If my wife offends me, I refuse her food. I eat outside until she apologises and stops whatever it is that has rubbed me up the wrong way. Sometimes she is angry too and ignores me and my hunger strike. When she does that I step up the strategy by bringing food home, warm it in her microwave while whistling and I eat it on the dining table. That leaves her wondering where the food came from. Oh, to make that angle effective, I do not bring anything that looks like it is from a fast food eatery. I bring real native food like pounded yam and vegetable packed in a beautiful food flask complete with hand towel and bottled water and wine, all in a nice basket. And no matter how tired I am when I get home, I eat my ‘food from outside’ and tell the house help to put the flask back in the car.


http://news.onlinenigeria.com/templates/?a=8912&z=3


Very funny.
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by MrPrsdent(m): 1:58pm On Oct 13, 2009
tessybaby:

whatz so childish mr president?
just tell us your own nah

why get married in the 1st place? wink
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by Kokodeni(m): 2:41pm On Oct 13, 2009
1st, I must commend your (poster's) effort in bringing this Topic, Cause I believe its so absurd for a man to beat his wife for any reason, imagine a pilot fighting his co-pilot in a plane 4 whatever reason you know what the outcome will look like,

for me though i am single when my girlfriend offends me even when she overdoes it, i just keep to myself for as long as it takes to apologies, grin grin grin. Imagine a day or a week or even a month without those sweet words, romantic moments, playing times, jokes, outings, shopping spree and most importantly the hmmmm hmmm undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided . etc, I tell you before you know she comes on her knees and if i refuse she begins to cry, damm i hate it when she cries, so i forgive her only if she promises to abstain from all errors,

THATS WHAT I CALL LOVE
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by chaircover: 3:30pm On Oct 13, 2009

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Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by Spyker: 3:49pm On Oct 13, 2009
This has been my method and it always work.
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by kidsam: 4:04pm On Oct 13, 2009
I naturally use the keep quiet method and ignore method, it gets to her big time, but i always feel i'm making her tougher as every episode goes by and one day wen she has developed enough hard skin, it may no longer be my game
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by tonjoan: 4:07pm On Oct 13, 2009
@ poster I applaud ur post. Though sounds hillarious but these attitudes are way better than physical abuse. My fiancee sees me as her comedian, so when she goes off the mark i simply wear d guerila's face. This kills her a lot and she comes apologising. When i go wrong she refuses eating with me cos she knows how much i enjoy her eating from same plate with me. I'll definitely make peace with her to get back my joy.lol

chaircover:

There is physical abuse and there is mental abuse. . . . . . both will eventually kill the relationsip dead. Its a matter of time.

What is wrong with 2 mature adults talking over issues in a responsible manner? No one is perfect and these men dishing out emotional abuse to their wives have their own shortcomings too.

I think we cant ever escape what you call the mental abuse in a relationship. In my view it even helps in oiling the wheels
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by ikamefa(f): 4:11pm On Oct 13, 2009
bimpe up there is simply crazy" grin "

as for me its the silent treatment, once i give him the evil eye and just stay silent and apart from him he knows instanta " grin "
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by chaircover: 4:17pm On Oct 13, 2009
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by texazzpete(m): 4:37pm On Oct 13, 2009
chaircover:


I have a problem with men and women who delibrately go out of their way to make their partners miserable. Now thats just plain wicked & mean angry

It will only end in tears in the long run.

Better it ends in tears than in bruises and welts

Besides, try explaining to your mother and mother-in-law that you've stopped cooking for your husband. Wahala grin
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by spikedcylinder: 4:38pm On Oct 13, 2009
Lol @ belt with pyjamas. cheesy
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by ban1(m): 4:40pm On Oct 13, 2009
what happens if wrong doing is as bad as having an affair and she gets caught , what do u do to her or after a dna u find out ur son is not yours?
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by kellorah(f): 4:41pm On Oct 13, 2009
Wow, only a silly person will put up with such crap. WTH?! VERY childish indeed.

You might as well just stab eachother to death.
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by tonjoan: 4:51pm On Oct 13, 2009
@cahircover, I do see reasons with you. I think anyway, it both parties should know each other well enough to know when to drop the curtain
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by obiflex: 5:27pm On Oct 13, 2009
This post is arrant nonsense. the fact that it was poted by a woman suggesting ways to deal with an erring wife shows it's totally in-effective and that's why she suggested it.

personally i believe in communication. talk things over, place your cards on the table, know what your woman is protesting about and make as much compromise as neccessarry just to restore a peaceful loving relationship.
where this fails it means the other partner is fed up. at this point my solution is to end the relationship. there's no point enduring a bad situation that won't improve
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by Nezan(m): 5:37pm On Oct 13, 2009
I knew a woman who use to bully her husband.
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by Utaroz(m): 5:50pm On Oct 13, 2009
Well, well, well---Interesting post, interesting contributions!

So, this is marriage huh? cheesy
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by Nobody: 6:29pm On Oct 13, 2009
He’s got plenty of self-control anyway, so he’s difficult to seduce

I wouldnt bank on it.

men are always men.
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by spikedcylinder: 6:52pm On Oct 13, 2009
^^^^ You'd be surprised. Some men are incredibly disciplined and difficult to seduce. Rare though.
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by ikamefa(f): 9:31pm On Oct 13, 2009
men difficult to seduce? shocked shocked shocked

they must be from mars or something grin grin grin

all it takes is for a woman to drop-it like its hot and shake it like its going out of fashion and they are drooling uncontrollably
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by Consultant(f): 10:12pm On Oct 13, 2009
In a healthy marriage, the couple sits down together like mature adults and talks through their issues. They don't go around sulking, using inuendo, or denying themselves of food, sex or companionship. If you are dealing with disagreements in your marriage that way, you should probably seek counselling from older, more mature couples.

It is not the job of the husband (or wife) to discipline the wife (or husband). That was the job of her parents. If they didn't do a good enough job for you - then don't marry her.
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by amebono1: 11:21pm On Oct 13, 2009
SO chaircover how do you whip your man? dont tell me you have not done one or two shakaras for him before sitting down to discuss whatever? women we are guilty of it abegii

As for me i love shakara, and i love fronting cool, shakara comes first before any two-grown-up-adult-discussion
Re: Men-A Better Whip To Beat Your Wife-( Women how do you whip your partner?) by proproman(m): 2:08am On Oct 14, 2009
Forget all that crap about communication. If they love each other, they will eventually communicate. Stuff like these sorta lighten up the marriage and make things more interesting (if they know when to stop). They will laugh it off later and will be pleased to remember it. Relationships are not all about being the seriously dedicated lovers. A little competition would be just right to spice things up and make the relationship stronger. (remember, i said little competition!). Sorta reminds me about secondary school. I had quite some unhappy moments but i won't trade memories of those days for anything. Same applies to such moments in a marriage or a relationship.

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