Well, my cousin come over to stay in my city of residence two years ago and had a lovely young lady (who stays in my city)as his girlfreind. After he left...(you'll know what distance does to a relationship, don't we?). She broke up with him because he wasn't keeping in touch. I met her by chance (or whatever you might calling it) again somewhere. She great respect for me...which my cousin knew even when he was still around here. I called and told him about the meeting and he urged me to put in some good words for him, that he still had a thing for her. It happened that i had somethings i needed to sell and she had buyers for them. e became business partners. Now i did ask her what caused the break up for her (irreversable). In the course of this collabo i'm kinda looking at more that her marketing but her calmness, her polished manners and all the epitomes of feminine grace which
she possesses.
I don't want to seem like a "TRAITOR" or "BACKSTABBER". At the same time this lovely young lady just got it all upstairs. Should I just let things run naturally.

I won't say don't Go there... But PLEASE don't GO THERE!...

I mean, it'll just be wrong. The girl would probably be thinking you're insane when u even tell her that you like her. Cos it's like, you're talking to her about your cousin, you're doing business with her, then you say, you like her.[i] She would be thinking in her mind.... "is the person that would be my inlaw if i was with hhis cousin", plus.. she would also be thinking u take her for a cheap commodity. She just left ur cousin, and because She offered to help with ur business, u feel u can make use of her.... to pleasure urself. [/i]If the girl is reasonable and has good manners [like u say she does].. i'm sure those r mainly wat she'll think of when u say u like her.

Just try and get over this feeling, it's probably just her outward appearance and some characters that u like. (well that's all u need to like right?)... Anyways, my point is that... U shouldn't go for your cousin's girl.. esp when your cousin is saying you should talk to her on his behalf. Plus the girl, is she showing any signs that she likes you?

If the girl prolly tells u that she likes u and stuff.... then that's a diff case.. because both of you're gon be the one that are doing the "liking".

Anyways.. just try to get over this feeling. Seems to me like.. u havent even battled your feelings yet.

Looser, get your own girl and leave your cousin ex alone. that is insulting for you to even consider her.

these nuts, odeku.

hot-angel:

She would be thinking in her mind.... "is the person that would be my inlaw if i was with hhis cousin", plus.. she would also be thinking u take her for a cheap commodity. She just left your cousin, and because She offered to help with your business, u feel u can make use of her.... to pleasure yourself.

Word hot angel

Odeku:

Looser, get your own girl and leave your cousin ex alone. that is insulting for you to even consider her.

He's right

Who says i want to pleasure myself? do get carried away hottie.

Who says i want to pleasure myself? do get carried away hottie. Ex-girlfriend is the word, here.

yeah but ur cousin still loves the girl
and if u do it u might never get on well with ur cousin
and that wouldnt be good just bcoz of a girl
leave her u can get another better girl believe me.

already have

well thatz great

Swish:

already have

nothing here to say then

Swish:

already have

Then y the feelings for ur cousin's ex? OLOJUKOKORO

not to be rude or anything but these nu**

ATTRACTION is a MUTHERF**KER... and many peeps don't know what U're dealing with, what it is and what to do till they've been there. I was once in Ur shoes! worse the attraction was so mutual it was CRAZIE!!! -and they were still together. What'd I do. I RAN! AVOIDED HIM/HER/THEM. And that was/is the only thing I told/tell myself... RUN!!! In fact I still run from her coz (tho they seperated now)- U know U've met chicks before U know U might not be able to control urselves!!

The situation may be different for U. With me everyone knew her with him. Soundz like that aint the case here. My advise- First check to see if its mutual... if it is then ask yourself all the other questions... if they check out... FEEL OUT UR COUSIN..... THEN take it from there...... It aint easy but good luck...

Shisssh..after all this while there's someone who doesn't see me as an "Olojukokoro" and all that. Olori, well thanks jare but i've layed out of the feelings. Telling my cousin would be out of it 'cos he still got it all for her. But i've moved on though. One needs people like you in here, you know.

Swish:

Shisssh, after all this while there's someone who doesn't see me as an "Olojukokoro" and all that. Olori, well thanks jare but i've layed out of the feelings. Telling my cousin would be out of it 'because he still got it all for her. But i've moved on though. One needs people like you in here, you know.

@swish
yeh, that's the point of a lotta pple's "participation" here now; to bash ur brains in with no often with no sensible answers for ur enquiries, suggestions to direct u or feeling/thots for ur predicament, well, who gives tha F whether u fff/ing ur cozins gf sef?!

FINDER'S KEEPERS JARE. EVEN IF THEY WERE MARRIED. . . YOUR GODS MUST HAVE USED HIM AS A POINT OF CONTACT FOR BOTH OF YOU. . . . if the feeling is mutual. . .go for it! BY GOD. . .CUT OFF FROM THAT FRIEND. . . .ESPECIALLY IF HE IS A NIGERIAN MAN!!!!!!!