I see why some girls don’t like to be slaves to their boyfriends, now I know the reason why most girls will say if he hasn’t married me I won’t cook or clean for him and I wish I had that same philosophy before dating this cow.


No one has ever had a problem with my cooking, but anytime I come to his place he complains about my food, it’s either the salt is much or the pepper isn’t enough, one day he told me I didn’t cut vegetables well and it made the soup bitter, I was shocked, I didn’t know vegetable sizes could make soup bitter, anyway I let it go and apologized.


I read you posts on Nairaland and decided to email you and know if you can talk some senses into me, yesterday I prepared rice and stew because his friends were around, I was at my place and he called me to come to his and cook and me being a fool in love hurriedly left everything I was doing, went out in the rain just to go cook for the goat who doesn’t even appreciate my food.


After I had spent two hours cooking, I served he and his friends, he took one spoon and spat the whole food out and landed me a slap on my face, everyone was shocked, he said how many times has he told me to use olive oil instead of groundnut oil to cook stew for him, I lost my tongue and voice, not only has he never told me anything like that, I had always cooked with groundnut oil for him, his friends were so angry at him that they left without eating the food.


Bella what do I do? Do I just walk away and save my face? The shame is becoming unbearable each day and I just can’t take it anymore.




Talk2Bella.



You’re in a relationship with an abuser and this is how it starts, from emotional torture to physical torture and most times death follows.


You need to walk away ASAP, I don’t need to advise you much, it’s clear you know what to do; from your email I can sense you aren’t a weak woman and walking away would be very easy you should take that step.


Nothing concerning your cooking will ever please him so do not even try, he’s going to keep complaining even when you do it exactly the way he told you to, nothing ever pleases people like that.


Yesterday was a slap, tomorrow might be the mortuary, is he worth all these?

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/09/he-says-i-dont-know-how-to-cook-but-i.html

What episode of super story is this please, I need to download it.

DTOBS:
What episode of super story is this please, I need to download it.

Bella's Episode

Madam (talk2bella) you again? if you no sabi cook, wetin cum be our own nah.. just kidding though.

KingCheezyPuff:
hahaha this is good stuff

Why wont it be good? when u actually cannot cook too.. maybe it was you that even sent her the story self, who knows?

Nothing is wrong with your cooking. It his ex's juju that's strong. Her babalawo get phD

Claiming he warned u against olive oil when he never did na original manipulation.

Hmmmm!! Speechless what a man!!!!

This story doesn't sound real joor

Not new,i know four people that behaves like that you can't ever cook their taste.

Ah think am lost........fvcking find a way out

Are you fυcking him well? fυck his brains out and watch his impression change

Thank me later

HIS ROYAL FUCKNESS i Love to fυck was here

kelval:
Madam (talk2bella) you again? if you no sabi cook, wetin cum be our own nah.. just kidding though.

missKiffy:
This story doesn't sound real joor

Uhun

RadicallyBlunt:
Nothing is wrong with your cooking. It his ex's juju that's strong. Her babalawo get phD

Claiming he warned u against olive oil when he never did na original manipulation.

Hahahahahhahahaha
Damn
That's a good one

queencalipso:
Hmmmm!! Speechless what a man!!!!

Just say what a "Confused man"

Eleganza33:
Not new,i know four people that behaves like that you can't ever cook their taste.

Looool
Wonder how that's working out for them

Talk2Bella:


Just say what a "Confused man"

Some men ehh!! I just tire for them. Somebody like me in this situation; will just locate my bag, walk out and never look back.

Imagine!! Not a single gratitude for taking her time to make the meal rather she got a slap and embarrassment. And she's still asking wether to leave him

Good morning dearie.

Talk2bella, look you have to incorporate me into this your guidance and counselling ministry

Hmmn kill us

queencalipso:


Some men ehh!! I just tire for them. Somebody like me in this situation; will just locate my bag, walk out and never look back.

Imagine!! Not a single gratitude for taking her time to make the meal rather she got a slap and embarrassment. And she's still asking wether to leave him

Good morning dearie.

Goodmorning love

In this recession period kwa

I'd cook with my money and be rewarded with slap

Issorite

Cutehector:
Talk2bella, look you have to incorporate me into this your guidance and counselling ministry

Which position do you want

Talk2Bella:




Which position do you want

lol the male position of you. two heads are better than one, you knw.

Cutehector:
lol the male position of you. two heads are better than one, you knw.

yea indeed, 'd give it some thoughts

Talk2Bella:


yea indeed, 'd give it some thoughts

how many years will it be wen u make up ur mind?

Cutehector:
how many years will it be wen u make up ur mind?

I have some unanswered mails yet

Before I post for noon I'd send one of them to you then you can advise that person and send it back to me I'd upload and either both of us can upload it here cool?

I love this episode. The lady sounds like someone who knows what to do which makes the advice simple. ~MOVE ON IN LIFE BEFORE YOU ARE MOVED TO THE OTHER SIDE~. You can cook but not for him.

Talk2Bella:


I have some unanswered mails yet

Before I post for noon I'd send one of them to you then you can advise that person and send it back to me I'd upload and either both of us can upload it here cool?

ice cool baby...



Pls follow me bak

Cutehector:
ice cool baby...



Pls follow me bak

alright, I posted that one already, will upload it now sorry your reply came late, send me your email and i'd send u two this night, you're gonna be in charge tomorrow alright?

Talk2Bella:


alright, I posted that one already, will upload it now sorry your reply came late, send me your email and i'd send u two this night, you're gonna be in charge tomorrow alright?

alright. Cool.