Hello guys there is one of my friend who is currently running an Msc program in one of the university in south west. She is getting married this October but her supervisor who is a female professor is unmarried and they are kind of close,she likes this my friend and always tell her to be serious with her career and make impact bcoz some gals are only destined to give birth with no future ambition . So the question she has been asking me is whether to tell her she's getting married or not. Bcoz she doesn't want her to change towards which could affect her program. What should I advise her to do.

She should tell her

It is good she let her know, atleast they are more like friends, but she has no choice on what her supervisor can do after that. Its better that way than her 'friend' getting to know about her wedding later.

It's just like she is between a rock and a hard surface....

Well, few things here.... How long does she have before the her program is over? 1 year or 1 month..

Wherr does she live?close to the school or out of town?

Does her supervisor know her from home

The reason why i am asking is that, if she didn't tell her and she find out from another person, big kasala.... Women and marriage news by like 5 and 6 and again considered she herself is not yet married... "Jealousy" maybe..

This is one of the reasons why i don't like being too close to my professors, or bosses

There is no problem in hiding it from her supervisor provided she is ready to hide it all through her programme by not wearing her wedding rings.

See gbege o, is she responsible for why her supervisor is single huh,,,is it not too much of "i can do without a man syndrome and pride of i know book" has kept her at that stand still where she found herself?...dnt ask me how i knew cos i know.

Betapikin101:
Hello guys there is one of my friend who is currently running an Msc program in one of the university in south west. She is getting married this October but her supervisor who is a female professor is unmarried and they are kind of close,she likes this my friend and always tell her to be serious with her career and make impact bcoz some gals are only destined to give birth with no future ambition . So the question she has been asking me is whether to tell her she's getting married or not. Bcoz she doesn't want her to change towards which could affect her program. What should I advise her to do.

Some girls are only "destined" to give birth with no future ambition, really?, from where did you get that from??

firstking01:
Some girls are only "destined" to give birth with no future ambition, really?, from where did you get that from??

That's her own ideology

Badgers14:
It's just like she is between a rock and a hard surface....

Well, few things here.... How long does she have before the her program is over? 1 year or 1 month..

Wherr does she live?close to the school or out of town?

Does her supervisor know her from home

The reason why i am asking is that, if she didn't tell her and she find out from another person, big kasala.... Women and marriage news by like 5 and 6 and again considered she herself is not yet married... "Jealousy" maybe..

This is one of the reasons why i don't like being too close to my professors, or bosses

At postgraduate level there is no how u won't be close to ur main project supervisor if u want to get along with her

Hawx:
There is no problem in hiding it from her supervisor provided she is ready to hide it all through her programme by not wearing her wedding rings.

Thats exactly what I was advising her to do but was not too sure if it will be the option for her

Betapikin101:

That's her own ideology

She's so fvcking wrong with that ideology, no wonder she's still single @45...all these so_called lectuters and profs be thinking they know it all...that's how one was accusing God of how wicked God was sometime ago that God would 've allowed adam to eat of the evalasting tree and live forever...if you know the story very well, there was this tree aside from other trees in the garden call "the tree of life", if you eat it you will live forever and not die...so, after adam ate the other fruit from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, God drove adam and eve out of the garden so they will not eat of the tree of life and live forever eventhough His(God) plans was for man to live forever, but because of adam's sin God now proclaim dead to mankind...this is the simple understanding the lecturer lacked though i wanted going to his office to clear him up but on a second thought i had to change my mind cos he was taking us on a borrowed course citizenship education, you know how mean and strict all those Gns lecturers can be na, so, i just allowed him wallow in his folly but i adressed and corrected a few of my friends with right impressions.

firstking01:
She's so fvcking wrong with that ideology, no wonder she's still single @45...all these so_called lectuters and profs be thinking they know it all...that's how one was accusing God of how wicked God was sometime ago that God would 've allowed adam to eat of the evalasting tree and live forever...if you know the story very well, there was this tree aside from other trees in the garden call "the tree of life", if you eat it you will live forever and not die...so, after adam ate the other fruit from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, God drove adam and eve out of the garden so they will not eat of the tree of life and live forever eventhough His(God) plans was for man to live forever, but because of adam's sin God now proclaim dead to mankind...this is the simple understanding the lecturer lacked though i wanted going to his office to clear him up but on a second thought i had to change my mind cos he was taking us on a borrowed course citizenship education, you know how mean and strict all those Gns lecturers can be na, so, i just allowed him wallow in his folly but i adressed and corrected a few of my friends with right impressions.

that was quite reasonable of u not to have met the lecturer such people only need the spirit of God to minister to them. This woman in question is a devoted Christian but she just doesn't believe in marriage

Betapikin101:

that was quite reasonable of u not to have met the lecturer such people only need the spirit of God to minister to them. This woman in question is a devoted Christian but she just doesn't believe in marriage

She should remain single for life na, that's her cup of tea.