Hello Nairalander,

Please i need your advice on something bothering me right now. Am a 20year old boy. I will clock 21 years in 4 months time. I have been noticing that whenever I pray to God and ask for a certain thing, my prayer get answered in a short period of time.

I have used this to achieve a lot of things. Even if what am asking for is sinful, my answer still get answered. As am talking to you, am having my first car at the age of 20. I pray to God when rain was beating me seriously someday that I don't want to experience such thing again, a lot of miracles happen withing 2-3weekz and am having my own car.

After realizing this, I have turn every 1st - 3rd of each month as the day for fasting and prayer. Any month I do this, I will never suffer or have any difficulty in that month.

Now, I think it's because am still a virgin and not adulterous. My friends won't stop mocking me cause am still a virgin but i know the main reason why am staying away from this.

I don't attend church but i believe that God truly exist. The funniest part of it is that all lady i met always love me. Some tell me I act like a fool when I refuse to dance to their tune.

I have turned to Porn fans cause I use that to cool myself down whenever my Konji is disturbing me. I feel like having sex but am afraid I will loose the benefit am enjoying.

Please advice me, is this an advantage or Talent or am enjoying this cause am staying away from sex.

OAM4J , Lalasticlala

What's d difference between u and someone that is fornicating?
He's just a merciful God.

Some people can deceive themselves sha.

@ OP, Please help me pray make Sai Baba give me Zahra to marry. I sincerely love Zahra.

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But you be Vaseline crew be honest

dollyjoy:
Some people can deceive themselves sha.

I know what am talking about. I have being noticing this for a whole year now. I have tried this with something impossible to do at my age and I always make it out even if that thing seems impossible.

you mean you never even masturbated before?

As silly as your thread seems there are aspects of it that have spoken to me!!!

Pornography and masturbation are both worse than fornication.

You watch porn and masturbate, I find this rather confusing that you are still claiming virgin. The Bible says God will reveal himself to the pure in heart, tell me are you qualified to be defined as such?

If God answers your prayers, it means you are favored but it may not be because of your so-called virgin status but rather your parents integrity before God

"The children of a man of integrity are blessed "
" I was young and now I am old but I have never seen the righteous go hungry nor their descendants begging for bread "

Will your own children find favor with God by the lifestyle you are choosing to live?

Pidggin:
You watch porn and masturbate, I find this rather confusing that you are still claiming virgin. The Bible says God will reveal himself to the pure in heart, tell me are you qualified to be defined as such?

If God answers your prayers, it means you are favored but it may not be because of your so-called virgin status but rather your parents integrity before God

"The children of a man of integrity are blessed "
" I was young and now I am old but I have never seen the righteous go hungry nor their descendants begging for bread "

Will your own children find favor with God by the lifestyle you are choosing to live?

Thanks for this. I knew that am not qualify for this due to my sinful ways. You are true that this favour must have come from my parent.

All my thought was about being a virgin and most time, when am about to do some sinful things, my mind warn me not to. And if it's something I can stop, I won't do it. I believe in what my heart tells me and I try to keep the commandment of God which am capable of.

Now, I don't see anything special in lady. I only know what it means to have a girlfriend when am Turned On. After that, I won't find any reason to have a girlfriend again. But I wish to have this sex someday but am afraid to loose this opportunity if it's coming from the Virginity. I have the money to carry Olosho when am Turned On but the fear of losing this always stop me. Thanks for the comment sha