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Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by misspicy(f): 3:55pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
5minsmadness:That is the best time to leave any man who was not responsible when he had the money. No man can have his cake and eat it and yes 98% of threads are bashing women,why can't y'all men create threads praising women?. How has the bashing solved the problems? Bunch of frustrated men na hin full NL 3 Likes |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by PaulIdu: 3:55pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Esetim: I have a lot of female friends and I hear them talk you know |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Nobody: 3:56pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
So true PaperLace: |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by thorpido(m): 3:56pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Onegai:I agree it's bad and that was why I made that statement of singing the song,'where is the love'.I was actually asking the MEN where the love is because i've observed the bashing and putting down of women and I understand the frustrations and anger that comes with it and the reactions of the ladies to it. Family section used to be for matured and married people but a lot of boys who probably moved from romance section have infiltrated the section and that's the reason for a lot of childish and irrational comments.I want to believe some do it just for some evil fun,the same way they do tribal bashings.However,overal it's still a bad thing because it could poison some impressionable young readers who might think it's cool to treat women with disrespect. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by misspicy(f): 3:57pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
5minsmadness:Will the storyline mention it? They all want to be vindictive and make women the devil,they will never tell us what led to it. There can't be a reaction without an action 1 Like |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by HaneefahRN(f): 3:59pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Ok, cool Story. The wife was probably just there for the money, it's funny when some guys shout all a woman needs is money ( after marrying the fair weather type of woman he had enticed with money and who left when the supply is cut short, they all come together to shout about how all women are bad) . We can't say though there might be some other hidden issues she could no longer cope with. I can't imagine suffering with and being loyal to a serial cheat for example. |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Esetim(f): 4:01pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
PaulIdu: A lot is not 99%. |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by misspicy(f): 4:01pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
thorpido:True talk. I don't expect to see women bashing on family section,but I am always disappointed because even the assumed men(who will paint their own wives as angels on earth) will join in on the parade… Could be for fun or trolling |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Nobody: 4:01pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
So you believe men cannot be irresponsible?....using all the money for gambling, oloshos, drugs and alcohol, watching tv from morning till evening, eating and sleeping, and has nothing meaningful to do or contribute to the house hold? VikingsOO7: |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Nobody: 4:04pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
She should definitely stand by him....but describe "good man".... what has he been doing for the past 8 years? 5minsmadness: |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by 5minsmadness: 4:06pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
misspicy: But the story was not of a man who wasn't responsible was it? You ladies quickly see the worst thing in men and then you miraculously expect men not to see the worst in you. Lol. As far as i can remember, the ladies started the bashing on nairaland. They insult guys at the drop of a hat then cry wolf when the guys retaliate. Guys have simply caught up on the insults, that's all. I doubt most guys here are interested in bashing women but we learnt to do so from the female folk online. I know i did. Stop bashing guys and guys will stop bashing you. Simples. Back to the story for instance. Honestly tell me why the ladies in the first page responded the way they did. A story was told of a man who had fallen upon difficult times. He was not said to be irresponsible. It takes a lot from a proud man to beg but there he was, begging for a job. His wife left him. That's wrong. The op now remembered his mother and how she stood by her husbamd when he lost his own job, even when he was depressed. Thats a virtuos woman. That deserves praise. Yet they left her and went to bash the Op's father. Why would they behave in such a rude and uncultured way? If someone bashed your father here now, would you take it lightly? Why did they respond that way if they were not already primed to be bitter towards men generally? 7 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Laredojohn(m): 4:08pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:Definitely men also should reciprocate 1 Like |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by 5minsmadness: 4:10pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
misspicy: Lol What you just defined up there can be summed in one word. PARANOIA. you feel everyone is out to get you until proven otherwise. 3 Likes |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Nobody: 4:11pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Who prayer epp? prayer will not make anybody in this life change, people have to change for themselves. ITs just like praying for Nigeria to change when the people of Nigeria is not willing to change, thats just daft puresaint12: |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by 5minsmadness: 4:11pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
misspicy: Sorry pls Are you saying you have never seen a thread where the women start bashing the men first? |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Nobody: 4:13pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
But is it understandable to leave your husband when he's using your hard earn money for oloshos? Starieangel: |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by 5minsmadness: 4:13pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:For the past 8 years he couldn't get a job. .if you are familiar with the job market e.g post nysc, you will understand how frustrating that can be. See graduates carrying concre cos they cant find work to do. Do you even know what concre is? 3 Likes |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Nobody: 4:14pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
5minsmadness:Me think Seun should start giving out awards for the "most intelligent comment of the year". 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Nobody: 4:18pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
I understand .....especially in this recession times .....yes i do know what it is 5minsmadness: |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by 5minsmadness: 4:19pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: Let me answer this. A man that doesnt have a job and uses the money the woman sweated for to visit ashawo is not a real man. A real man would be ashamed his wife is going out to get the daily bread, a job he should be doing. A real man wont be able to sit in the house doing nothing, His conscience won't let him do it, he would rather go out and beg or clear grass or carry concre if he is not physically challenged. A real man will quickly go into depression if he cannot cater for his family because he feels he is letting his family down. A lazy or irresponsible man does not deserve the wife to stay with him. The money she brings home should be for herself and her kids. That will make the lazy or irresponsible man jump up to his respobsibilites. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by handsam(m): 4:20pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: Check your email. |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by misspicy(f): 4:21pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
5minsmadness:[b]It is understandable that the bashing is not going to stop anytime soon,but I totally disagree that women started it. Nairalanders have been bashing famales a long time ago,only recently like last two years that females got enough courage to type back,infact a moniker like that trolled me severally until I responded by bashing him too,even though,I initially ignored. The (f) are just reacting because there is a limit one can take insultive remarks even if it was not directed to one. Eg myself,most threads are not affecting me but I am forced to type something in defence of my gender. Now to the ladies on the frontpage,I don't think anybody commended the lady on what she did,they were only against the norm of bashing women,call it paranoia but that is what this thread is aimed at,and its not surprising that many (m) monikers are out in their droves to add fabricated stories to the Initial post already. Bottom line--------> The men should create threads praising women as much as they create threads bashing them for a change.[/b] 1 Like |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by 5minsmadness: 4:23pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:Pls learn to differentiate men from boys. Some boys dont have sense, all they see is a pretty lady and they are looking for how to enter. I shake my head. |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by neocortex: 4:23pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
There are disloyal wives who are prone dump their husband whenever he is faced with challenges so are some husbands who will abandon their wives. However, some marriages have broken up long time ago, but the couple pretends as if everything is okay, even though the only reason the wife remains with her husband in such marriages is for financial stability. Whenever the man can no longer provide for the family financially or the woman become financially independent, the marriage crumbles. Then you hear story of evil women who dump their husband because he lost his job. 1 Like |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by 5minsmadness: 4:23pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:Pls learn to differentiate men from boys. Some boys dont have sense, all they see is a pretty lady and they are looking for how to enter. Smh. |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by misspicy(f): 4:23pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
5minsmadness:Paranoia or not that is what this thread is aimed and will degenerate to. 1 Like |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by Nobody: 4:24pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
You've given the best answer 5minsmadness: 1 Like |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by thorpido(m): 4:24pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
chibuzorAbia:Have you got statistics to prove this? |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by 5minsmadness: 4:25pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: Ok cool. Men are men and boys are whizkid. Women should know the differences. It will save a lot of heartache. 1 Like |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by misspicy(f): 4:26pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
5minsmadness:Its probably minimal,unlike the women bashing threads if you think I'm wrong,check the first three pages of family section/romance section. |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by 5minsmadness: 4:27pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
misspicy: Someone has to be mature and stop the bashing first. Anyway. I hear you. |
Re: He Lost His Job, His Wife Left Him By Joseph edgar by misspicy(f): 4:34pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
5minsmadness:The people that started it should stop it. |
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