OBTSubtle:
Pour fuel on yourself, light matches.. See you on the other side..

Kenshinmunac:



You no wise at all.

King Solomon.. Dash me small wisdom nah

herbie27:
Op, don't mind the first to comment. Maybe you should work more on yourself and forget about relationships for the time being...i believe someone who admires you enough to be with you will show forth. Don't bother yourself about it.

kelval:
thanks for the advice jare dear.. and as regards first to comment, i dont even want to know they exist.. am always blind when it comes to them.. he's probably one of those guys that graduated from community secondary high school, most of them lacks that thing called manner..

kelval:
so thats how it all happened though, have always bn with people older, most of them i don't love buh i just give them a trial to help cool my loneliness buh have at last gotten over the loneliness issues and have made a promise never to break someones heart again.. hv only bn able to kip relationship for 3 months, thats the longest have kept. buh have determined that i will solely wait on the one i love presently till she says yes and if she doesnt i surely will wait till my heart choose someone else (though it doesnt love easily).. when i asked two of the gals i do love that much why they turned me down and they were both like they feel insecured even without bn mine.. i was so out of word when i heard that. what was i to do? am lost.

mhisb, liss i don't get my mentions anymore, are we fighting?
makyd, ebbie how's your health, am a secret follow of your diary..
country, girl

cc trapquee, n77

mhisbliss:
nope we ain't quarreling and its nothing personal just that i dont force myself on people, i believe when someone is reaching out to you, ypu appreciate by reciprocating, i dont get your mentions either, but i didnt conclude we are quarreling


And about your relationship issues i think you're trying too hard, being single is not a disease, or something abnormal I've been single for ages and i must admit i prefer it to an active relationship, dont fall into something you'll regret because you're desperate, nothing is wrong with you and you're not at fault

See yourself as an awesome person with alot to offer and anyone who rejects you don't deserve you, that person who likes you for you will surely come and you don't need to impress her before everything fall into place, it'll just happen and you'll have to gp with the flow

Enjoy yourself, do what makes you happy and be yourself i bet you wont see it coming and you'll find her when you least expect, be positive, be you, don't change for anyone, change because you want to

kelval:
mhisbliss thanks so much for your advice, its amazing, its not like am that despera though buh its just i never thought i'd be in this sorta shoe someday.. momma dont even trust me when it comes to lady, she's always worried i'd impregnate a lady in my secondary skul and they wont even lemme stay alone in tetiary, they made me stay with my sister and i kept myself so well, and now that am ready things just got wierd. its f**king funny.

and as regards the mentions, i wasn't that active, dont be that madt on me dear and you know i don't write in the diary section so i don't have many chances to mention you dear. i hope school is doing great and perfect?

everything is perfect and i know you're busy, don't worry am not angry,

I've been there, and its not weird at all, just relax and don't make finding a girlfriend your sole aim, just hang out have fun, you'll be surprised how things will turn out

PeakMilkOfTexas:
@Op Don't rush such things, just be prayerful and search less. At the right time everything will work out like magic... Remember - Be Social.

kelval:
so thats how it all happened though, have always bn with people older, most of them i don't love buh i just give them a trial to help cool my loneliness buh have at last gotten over the loneliness issues and have made a promise never to break someones heart again.. hv only bn able to kip relationship for 3 months, thats the longest have kept. buh have determined that i will solely wait on the one i love presently till she says yes and if she doesnt i surely will wait till my heart choose someone else (though it doesnt love easily).. when i asked two of the gals i do love that much why they turned me down and they were both like they feel insecured even without bn mine.. i was so out of word when i heard that. what was i to do? am lost.

mhisbliss i don't get my mentions anymore, are we fighting?
makydebbie how's your health, am a secret follow of your diary..
countrygirl

cc trapqueen77

mhisbliss:
everything is perfect and i know you're busy, don't worry am not angry, I've been there, and its not weird at all, just relax and don't make finding a girlfriend your sole aim, just hang out have fun, you'll be surprised how things will turn out

TrapQueen77:
I'm here baby... wazzup?

kelval:
good morning.. how was your night?

kelval:
Actually i really do not know what to title this post though buh am kinda down here.. wetin happen be say, actually, i don't know maybe am that ugly though buh the thing is i have never for once had a gal i so much love you know.. actually, i really tried everything i could to stay away from relationship during school (tetiary) years and after skul, i decided to try, there's this gal have waited on for 4 years, i begged her for a chance again that year and she still turn me down so angrily i gave a lady like that who's like 6years older than me a chance, she's bn trailing me since school days, i couldn't keep her that much, it only lasted 2 months, am not feeling a thing for her, i met another gal i fell for again and there was nothing i wouldn't have done for her buh she turned me down still, i sha try another older lady and still it only lasted 3 months. in short sha all what am insinuating is, people i love don't reciprocate its ruining few things. i can't kip a relationship.. am not getting younger,

TrapQueen77:






Ur still wide awake eey...



I don't feel well today... I feel so sick...

TrapQueen77:
Ur still wide awake eey... I don't feel well today... I feel so sick...

truthsayer007:
You don't sleep ni ? , I see your post 24 hours on Nairaland. One time i was beginning to think this was seun's 2nd account

kelval:
i actually couldn't sleep.. and sorry ehn.. you probably need rest and drugs i guess.. you should go get drugs, it should be 11am now, right?

TrapQueen77:
Nearly noon actually... I'm juz having a bed rest... The pain sucks when I'm having a red flag..I feel my skin being ripped into pieces especially on the hips part... so lazy to move

kelval:
eyah, pele uhn.. you should just lie down there on bed buh i hope you have someone that'd do the cooking while you just lay on your couch.. you eat, take pill, watch tv and rest, take a nap, sleep, dont even pick calls just let them leave a message instead.

PeakMilkOfTexas:
@Op Don't rush such things, just be prayerful and search less. At the right time everything will work out like magic... Remember - Be Social.

TrapQueen77:






Ur still wide awake eey...



I don't feel well today... I feel so sick...

harffie:
Pele...prolly missing someone

TrapQueen77:






Who's missing someone?

kelval:
ooh, thanks for not getting madt dear.. and also thanks for this your advice, hun? really appreciate.. and as regards you been there before, how did you eventually get over it?