babazako:
To me,a rational thinking guy will prefer a Lady who he can control, a lady who has less bills ,its not easy to keep a pretty lady Nigeria,

mhisbliss:
intimidation
Fear of the unknown
Low self esteem
Fear of rejection
Lack of confidence
No composure the list is endless

luminouz:

Not for me dear! I am not afraid to face any woman! Am not called alien for nothing!

mhisbliss:
ain't that how its supposed to be? It's not like the woman will eat you up or something, btw civilized women don't do such, they'll gently turn you down but wont intimidate you

mhisbliss:
ain't that how its supposed to be? It's not like the woman will eat you up or something, btw civilized women don't do such, they'll gently turn you down but wont intimidate you

luminouz:

Yes o! But u know how some naija babes dey do! Some will slowly n meticulously UnCloth u with their eyes,noting Ur shoe n such,evaluating Ur material worth in just a glance.... A man with no money...n zero confidence will never approach such! I have learnt that even with no extreme packaging...just being raw n bold...n unusual get me what I want!!!!

mhisbliss:
all this only happens in your mind, paranoia is the only thing that'll make you think a girl is using her eyes to access you, most girls get swept of thier feet because of your manner of approach

luminouz:

Paranoia? For real? It happens dear..I am a man..so I know! Manner of approach ke? For some ladies! Others want a man not some sissy! BTW..am talking about gorgeous girls..not gargoyles!

luckyguy2:
Why Are Some Guys Shy Or Afraid To Talk To A Pretty Lady Or Girl, The Reason I Think Why Guys Are Shy Or Afraid To Talk To A Pretty Lady Or Girl They Like, Is That The Guy Is Shy Or Afraid That The Lady Might Turn Him Down, Ignore Him Or Make Him Feel Embarrassed, Or She Might Disgrace Him Or Make Him A Fool, Since You Know That Most Ladies Are Harsh Or Rude, He Might Be Afraid That The Girl Or Lady Might Disgrace Him, Or Insult Him Please Guys Express Your Views

mhisbliss:
am referring to gorgeous girls as well, been cocky isn't admirable to everyone, so don't generalize, infact i personally think it's a turnoff

luminouz:

Am no woman oooo! Being confident shouldn't be a turn off though not talking about egotistical guys o! Most women(97%) I have come in contact with love my confidence(cockiness to u)

yea cockiness it reminds me so much of how guys would want to be lord over your life simply because you agree to date them, no guy can be my president hell no the confidence i know is different from your own version

mhisbliss:
yea cockiness it reminds me so much of how guys would want to be lord over your life simply because you agree to date them, no guy can be my president hell no the confidence i know is different from your own version

luminouz:

Lol...OK..I get! Those guys are egomaniacs or is it megalomaniacs!

mhisbliss:
mega is more like it

Nnamsco4real:
Most Beautiful ladies are easier to talk to and more humble when approached. They politely turn guys down except the guy proves stupidly stubborn (which sometimes is the problem with most guys).
The ugly girls are worse, they always want to be noticed. Most of them even shout when approached .

Source: My Personal Experience