Kindly Advice,
There's this friend of mine who was dating a nice chic who grew up in his neighbourhood however, the chic has chosen to return to her ex because the ex mum prefers her to the ex new girl friends. My friend although has let go but he is hoping on waiting believing that the chic will come no matter what.
For me, although the girl is a very nice lady but does it mean that there are no other ladies that the guy doesn't want to date someone else other than hoping for someone else's wife because the ex is planning getting married next year.
Pls advice cos he is a regular reader on NL and dis wil help at least make him see some reasons with his decision.

Dexlomo:

Kindly Advice,
There's this friend of mine who was dating a nice chic who grew up in his neighbourhood however, the chic has chosen to return to her ex because the ex mum prefers her to the ex new girl friends. My friend although has let go but he is hoping on waiting believing that the chic will come no matter what.
For me, although the girl is a very nice lady but does it mean that there are no other ladies that the guy doesn't want to date someone else other than hoping for someone else's wife because the ex is planning getting married next year.
Pls advice cos he is a regular reader on NL and dis wil help at least make him see some reasons with his decision.

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Dex,tell ur friend to wake up ad smell the coffee. He needs to move on

madlady:

POSAKOSA1

All those , twice, i thought you were going to give some really invaluable advice, could have helped me 2

Sorry doll, I can't tell the difference between attention seekers and those who really seek advice.  

nana:

Dex,tell your friend to wake up ad smell the coffee. He needs to move on

Good enough for me. Time and life waits for no one. She is not the only woman in the world.

What will be urs,will surely be urs.d guy can move on tentatively&d lady might still come back,if they are meant for each other.wait a min,d lady actually wants to go back to her ex.It means she still luvs her ex&its not becos of d ex's mother at all

Hmm. . . . the guy na mugu?

whats gone is gone,
there is no point waiting for a train that has pased your station!

izeek:

whats gone is gone,
there is no point waiting for a train that has pased your station!

well said.

1. Who is he?

2. Why isnt he postin this himself ?

What will be urs,will surely be urs.d guy can move on tentatively&d lady might still come back,if they are meant for each other.wait a min,d lady actually wants to go back to her ex.It means she still luvs her ex&its not becos of d ex's mother at all

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Toba,
D challenge is dat she is agreeing to date him back because of his mum whom she blives she can always report him to her wheneva he misbehaves.

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whats gone is gone,
there is no point waiting for a train that has pased your station!

Izeek,
True talk but u know its not easy sometimes. Imagine he had already done a very nice hand mada card for her for this forth coming xmas. Although, we may say the cost doesn't mata to him considering his status oweva, it is because he likes her that is why he is doing all that. I am sure he will surely get over this. It's only a mata of time. My fear is he stil blives he wil take her back weneva she comes back not minding ow long dis may be.

dexlomo,
i say u move on and not wait for anything.

life is a mobile car, it dont wait for you, u hop in and move on.

and i think this person is you.

Move on jaree, is he dreaming?

he bera walk with his legs.
He needs a woman who will stand by him .