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Should I Ignore Her! by hanked: 4:25pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
I need a matured contribution on how to go about this, my wife of 8 years now did something I believe was bad ( 1. she stopped giving me food . 2. secretly in contacts with most of her ex. 3. associating with pple I asked her not to) divorce is out of it cos of the children. she's so stubborn that she did not want to listen , what's the best solution to this?should I ignore her or talk to her pple? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Nobody: 4:29pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
Ignore her and live your life 1 Like |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by LilSmith55(m): 4:33pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:Gbam, Tiri Gbosa 4 You Jare.. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by sisisioge: 4:34pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
Lobatan! I'm not qualified to say a word. Let the experienced handle this. Observing... |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by sisisioge: 4:42pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: Which kind? Na to just scatter everything u want abi? Na your kind go be the most docile wife ever especially if you go marry heady Chijioke! Na you go wear mellow if him wear craazee In this guy's case his life is woven around her...he can't just ignore. If na his gf ni, I would concur that by all means put her on a blast! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by RiloKiley: 4:43pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
hanked: 1. Why did she stop giving you food? 2. How many ex does she have that u said "most'? How did u find out? How r u sure they are her exes? Was she discussing anything bad with them? 3. What does she stand to gain by associating with those people? Why don't u want her associating with them? 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Nobody: 4:46pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
LilSmith55: |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Friendz4blue(m): 4:49pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
Because I'm not married I don't think I have d right to give any advice here.... Also dose singles advising... Una try wel wel... Go get married first before advising him |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by hanked: 5:04pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
RiloKiley: I accused her of unfaithfulness after going through her WhatsApp message with the ex's . one (married)out of them was telling her that he love her and miss her after 9 months, others was chatting about how she is ,most of other discussion was on voice call according to their messages. |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Alexk2(m): 7:23pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
hanked: Please be sincere and tell us the whole truth....what did you do wrong or what are you doing wrongly? 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by OreoPaschal(m): 7:27pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
hanked:Send her on suspension. Yes! Even though beating her would have gone a long wrong way. Send her to her parents for them to talk sense into her. If after the suspension she still not behaving as expected, You move to the other room. 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by hanked: 7:42pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
Alexk2: wish I knew what I did wrong! maybe cos my work temporary took me away from my Base, which I do come back to see them every two weeks |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Nobody: 7:51pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
hanked: Haba bros!! Na only you waka come?? evidence you're married ?? |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by lilmax(m): 8:03pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
see finish, that's what is wrong with her |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Alexk2(m): 8:36pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
hanked: Are you taking care of them as a father and husband?.. If she stopped preparing your food, it may mean you aren't taking care of ur responsibility..."may" 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Mimzyy(f): 9:30pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
Just wondering out loud if we still have couples who have/are having a blissful marriage. Everyday, it's one sad tale to another. Na wah 1 Like |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by johnson232: 9:34pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:this advise is bad.... for how long? |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by johnson232: 9:39pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
hanked:Sir sorry to say your wife perceive you as a weak man... that is the reason she is acting this way... it is obvious she doesn't have an iota of respect for u... the best option is to report her to her parents for future reference.... Try to man up.... women naturally don't like weak men.... opening this kind of thread already bespeaks the kind of man you are... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by johnson232: 9:43pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
Alexk2:hope u aren't the op's wife? why are all your comments lopsided? shame for u... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Nobody: 9:44pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
hanked:my dear,don't think of divorce..it is trite that where there is God,there is peace.how strong is your family's relationship with God.do not allow the devil to destroy ur union.if u are a Catholic,I will advise u to pray to mother Mary to intercede for u..prayer is the key. |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Nobody: 9:44pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
johnson232:for as long as it takes |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Nobody: 9:47pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
He said he loves her but she didn't say she love him back hanked: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by johnson232: 9:48pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:that is not good... he should report her to her parents, perhaps they can talk some senses into her, remember they ve got kids you and this emoji... why do u like it so much? |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Nobody: 9:59pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
Why is it that in a Nigerian home, when couples are having issues, they always get their parents involved as if they are still a baby and can't think for themselves... when their parents die I wonder who they will go to for their problems? if every time couples include a third party(parents) for their problems, they shouldn't be married in the first place because marriage is all about responsibility and independence not dependence. I use this smiley because it's cute and positive johnson232: 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by johnson232: 10:17pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:lots of broken homes has been saved by parents. Reporting marital issues to one's parent still remains one of the most effective way of resolving marital disputes. from the post, u can see the issue is beyond what both parties can control. ignoring it only means postponing the evil day, which the may not be able to contain when it eventually explodes. it is best advise they report it to their parents or experienced relatives.... so the issues can be nipped in the bud before it escalates.... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Nobody: 10:42pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
what about couples with no parents? johnson232: |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Alexk2(m): 11:11pm On Oct 20, 2016 |
johnson232: The guy is asking for advice; not male solidarity pls. BTW., I'm a guy and I don't know op. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Dheartless: 12:57am On Oct 21, 2016 |
johnson232:He is looking for a means to blame the op |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by cococandy(f): 3:14am On Oct 21, 2016 |
Don't ignore her |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by Florblu(f): 5:58am On Oct 21, 2016 |
Talk to her about it,be humble while you talk to her about it.Carry out your responsibilities duly. |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by bukatyne(f): 8:38am On Oct 21, 2016 |
hanked: I concur with RiloKiley... What went wrong? |
Re: Should I Ignore Her! by toyeem(f): 8:56am On Oct 21, 2016 |
Mimzyy: Oh yes dear, there are lots of people having a blissful marriage. Marriage has its ups and downs. Unfortunately, we don't get to hear of the ups, just the downs. If you are married and you think your spouse is bad because your marriage is going thru it's down, take your time to write down three good things your spouse is doing/has done against one bad thing he is doing/has done. Go over it several times and you will learn to appreciate your spouse. |
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