Dyt:


The OP is simply an idiot

ozodigboo:
What I'm about to say is the truth...i need honest answers pls.
I'm not bothered with criticisms, just let your opinions be HONEST and am satisfied.

I'm in a dilemma....I'm a lawyer practising in anambra, been in a long distance relationship with a corper practising in Kwara.
She will complete nysc next month.
She knows that if things go well, marriage could be on the cards, but we're still getting to know each other.
The last time she visited 2 weeks ago, we were discussing career prospects, i asked, she said she had 3rd class...later she said '' ordinary pass ''.
But she was smiling while saying this.
I didn't wanna push further in order not to give the impression that i'm more concerned about degree than finding a good person.
She looks and sounds reasonably decent......or is she not ? I'm i mistaken ?
3rd class [ or ordinary pass ]for a lawyer......does it matter in marriage ?

OTHER QUESTIONS
1. If she really had that type of degree, could she still be a good girl ? The course she studied isn't that competitive.....3rd class means she may not have been going to class..so where has she been going to ?
2. last time she visited, she saw a pic of an old Flame of mine...i was calm. she asked nothing, i said nothing. [ quite unusual, maybe she didn't wanna ask because she didn't want me to ask back ].
3. i jokingly told her i will come and visit her in ilorin, she wasn't really keen....is she hiding something ? or not ? she lives in a private catholic family house, but knows i can easily afford a hotel, so why the hesitance ?

** i found out from someone that she had a carryover...that alone doesn't mean 3rd class. And that '' someone'' couldn't give me additional info. i know i will eventually know [ she wants to give me her CV and results at the end of nysc for job search etc] but i want to make up my mind asap....that's why i came here.
THANK YOU ALL

Berbierklaus:


I hope with these few words of mine I have been able to convince and not confuse you about my stand on the issue Mr Lawyerman .

can you now epp me like the pinshure

LadyMercedes:

My life didn't end because I had a 3rd class.

My 2 cents. Good luck.

ozodigboo:
What I'm about to say is the truth...i need honest answers pls.
I'm not bothered with criticisms, just let your opinions be HONEST and am satisfied.

I'm in a dilemma....I'm a lawyer practising in anambra, been in a long distance relationship with a corper practising in Kwara.
She will complete nysc next month.
She knows that if things go well, marriage could be on the cards, but we're still getting to know each other.
The last time she visited 2 weeks ago, we were discussing career prospects, i asked, she said she had 3rd class...later she said '' ordinary pass ''.
But she was smiling while saying this.
I didn't wanna push further in order not to give the impression that i'm more concerned about degree than finding a good person.
She looks and sounds reasonably decent......or is she not ? I'm i mistaken ?
3rd class [ or ordinary pass ]for a lawyer......does it matter in marriage ?

OTHER QUESTIONS
1. If she really had that type of degree, could she still be a good girl ? The course she studied isn't that competitive.....3rd class means she may not have been going to class..so where has she been going to ?
2. last time she visited, she saw a pic of an old Flame of mine...i was calm. she asked nothing, i said nothing. [ quite unusual, maybe she didn't wanna ask because she didn't want me to ask back ].
3. i jokingly told her i will come and visit her in ilorin, she wasn't really keen....is she hiding something ? or not ? she lives in a private catholic family house, but knows i can easily afford a hotel, so why the hesitance ?

** i found out from someone that she had a carryover...that alone doesn't mean 3rd class. And that '' someone'' couldn't give me additional info. i know i will eventually know [ she wants to give me her CV and results at the end of nysc for job search etc] but i want to make up my mind asap....that's why i came here.
THANK YOU ALL

ozodigboo:
What I'm about to say is the truth...i need honest answers pls.
I'm not bothered with criticisms, just let your opinions be HONEST and am satisfied.

I'm in a dilemma....I'm a lawyer practising in anambra, been in a long distance relationship with a corper practising in Kwara.
She will complete nysc next month.
She knows that if things go well, marriage could be on the cards, but we're still getting to know each other.
The last time she visited 2 weeks ago, we were discussing career prospects, i asked, she said she had 3rd class...later she said '' ordinary pass ''.
But she was smiling while saying this.
I didn't wanna push further in order not to give the impression that i'm more concerned about degree than finding a good person.
She looks and sounds reasonably decent......or is she not ? I'm i mistaken ?
3rd class [ or ordinary pass ]for a lawyer......does it matter in marriage ?

OTHER QUESTIONS
1. If she really had that type of degree, could she still be a good girl ? The course she studied isn't that competitive.....3rd class means she may not have been going to class..so where has she been going to ?
2. last time she visited, she saw a pic of an old Flame of mine...i was calm. she asked nothing, i said nothing. [ quite unusual, maybe she didn't wanna ask because she didn't want me to ask back ].
3. i jokingly told her i will come and visit her in ilorin, she wasn't really keen....is she hiding something ? or not ? she lives in a private catholic family house, but knows i can easily afford a hotel, so why the hesitance ?

** i found out from someone that she had a carryover...that alone doesn't mean 3rd class. And that '' someone'' couldn't give me additional info. i know i will eventually know [ she wants to give me her CV and results at the end of nysc for job search etc] but i want to make up my mind asap....that's why i came here.
THANK YOU ALL

saintdennis:
Hmm baba 3rd class doesn't just mean she doesn't know book o.

It means she was loose or focusing on one boy (school husband n wife thingslol)

Sir b4 I conclude...pls which school did she grad from? That's what will determine errthing.

Also go and investigate her FB. Olosho love posting pics n updating status (go and check her posts during school)

Anyway personally I can't marry a 3rd class/ pass babe

ozodigboo:
What I'm about to say is the truth...i need honest answers pls.
I'm not bothered with criticisms, just let your opinions be HONEST and am satisfied.

I'm in a dilemma....I'm a lawyer practising in anambra, been in a long distance relationship with a corper practising in Kwara.
She will complete nysc next month.
She knows that if things go well, marriage could be on the cards, but we're still getting to know each other.
The last time she visited 2 weeks ago, we were discussing career prospects, i asked, she said she had 3rd class...later she said '' ordinary pass ''.
But she was smiling while saying this.
I didn't wanna push further in order not to give the impression that i'm more concerned about degree than finding a good person.
She looks and sounds reasonably decent......or is she not ? I'm i mistaken ?
3rd class [ or ordinary pass ]for a lawyer......does it matter in marriage ?

OTHER QUESTIONS
1. If she really had that type of degree, could she still be a good girl ? The course she studied isn't that competitive.....3rd class means she may not have been going to class..so where has she been going to ?
2. last time she visited, she saw a pic of an old Flame of mine...i was calm. she asked nothing, i said nothing. [ quite unusual, maybe she didn't wanna ask because she didn't want me to ask back ].
3. i jokingly told her i will come and visit her in ilorin, she wasn't really keen....is she hiding something ? or not ? she lives in a private catholic family house, but knows i can easily afford a hotel, so why the hesitance ?

** i found out from someone that she had a carryover...that alone doesn't mean 3rd class. And that '' someone'' couldn't give me additional info. i know i will eventually know [ she wants to give me her CV and results at the end of nysc for job search etc] but i want to make up my mind asap....that's why i came here.
THANK YOU ALL

ozodigboo:

Thanks, dear...I'm not TOO embarassed as per the grade. I'm more interested in knowing WHAT CAUSED that type of grade. i don't wanna marry an olosho....or someone who married a husband throughout her 5yrs in skl

realtalk19:


before concluding, u ar not God. 3rd class in a state or federal uni isnt as easy especially if u ar a true christian .

my junior sis just concluded NYSC and she already has offers from a standard lab,multinational beer company and an eye clinic at V.I. she has gone for d multinational company medicals and immunization shots.shes resuming training for nxtweek . she had a 3RD class. despite her devoted and studious nature with no bribing nd expos.

its only God dat can place u were no man can get to easily. as long as u pray wholeheartedly nd blive in God and also study rightly. he wil connect u

ozodigboo:
What I'm about to say is the truth...i need honest answers pls.
I'm not bothered with criticisms, just let your opinions be HONEST and am satisfied.

I'm in a dilemma....I'm a lawyer practising in anambra, been in a long distance relationship with a corper practising in Kwara.
She will complete nysc next month.
She knows that if things go well, marriage could be on the cards, but we're still getting to know each other.
The last time she visited 2 weeks ago, we were discussing career prospects, i asked, she said she had 3rd class...later she said '' ordinary pass ''.
But she was smiling while saying this.
I didn't wanna push further in order not to give the impression that i'm more concerned about degree than finding a good person.
She looks and sounds reasonably decent......or is she not ? I'm i mistaken ?
3rd class [ or ordinary pass ]for a lawyer......does it matter in marriage ?

OTHER QUESTIONS
1. If she really had that type of degree, could she still be a good girl ? The course she studied isn't that competitive.....3rd class means she may not have been going to class..so where has she been going to ?
2. last time she visited, she saw a pic of an old Flame of mine...i was calm. she asked nothing, i said nothing. [ quite unusual, maybe she didn't wanna ask because she didn't want me to ask back ].
3. i jokingly told her i will come and visit her in ilorin, she wasn't really keen....is she hiding something ? or not ? she lives in a private catholic family house, but knows i can easily afford a hotel, so why the hesitance ?

** i found out from someone that she had a carryover...that alone doesn't mean 3rd class. And that '' someone'' couldn't give me additional info. i know i will eventually know [ she wants to give me her CV and results at the end of nysc for job search etc] but i want to make up my mind asap....that's why i came here.
THANK YOU ALL

saintdennis:

Sorry but this your post reeks of all emotions & no intelligence

No1: I never said I was God! I only said I can't marry a 3rdie holder...don't I have the right to choose who I wanna date/marry?

No2: Which reputable company will employ a 3rdie holder without connection?

Pls be honest & tell us she was first referred by someone with influence (its still part of God's grace) I have 3rdie friends who working with reputable firms un2 connect-connect.

If she got hers with ZERO connect but jes CV submission NO P! It's all to glory of God.

No3: per the bolded pls don't abuse our universities by telling us 3rd class isn't easy especially if you're a true christian? what does true christianity entail?
I know TWO morally upright, overzealously religious women who are first class & 2.1 holders Respectively.

Don't insult christianity by using it to justify a poor grade.
It's also a slap on the face of people who did well without sorting or engaging in malpractice.
You say she was studious but made a 3rdie? Lol

No4: I don't even understand how ur last line relates to my post...abi I talk say 3rdie no go make am 4 life?
Grades don't determine success & the OP isn't talking about success But whether or not it was her lifestyle in school that caused her 3rdie #simple.

Congrats to your sis but I still maintain my earlier assertion.

*take care*

realtalk19:


there was no refferal. God singled her out for favor.dnt take my opinion personal. u can bliv wat ever u want to blive.

since u cant marry a 3rd class it shows how myopic ur idea of marriage is. marriage goes beyond class,grade, love etc
it takes d grace of God.

afterall like u said earlier its ur choice. goodluck saintde.nnis

Berbierklaus:

Very sorry if I sounded insultive,I believe in leading people through instead of insulting them,btw I am in every position to lecture you on education, you know jackshit about me but I know you claim to be a lawyer...lolzzz

If you truly attended a university,you will know that various reasons could lead to an individual graduating with 3rd class or even pass aside from promiscuity or runs girl,like you called it
1)mistaken grading
2)Lecturers sexual harrassment
3)some people are not just wired to excel in education,doesn't make them lesser human or even dullards.
Brilliance Is different from intelligence


My dear so called lawyer,what I mean by that statement is that you communicate with the lady in question,and even see her during holidays,all the questions in your initial posts can only be answered correctly by her and no one else,the best anyone here can do is to start assuming,from what i can see from the earlier commenters,which could be wrong

What I mean is that a long distance relationship requires enough trust,but you already raised doubt's about what she could be doing in kwara,meaning you don't trust her.
And you are the one ranting here ,you created the thread

Refer to what I said earlier,a number of reasons could have led to her having third class all you need to do is ask her, btw ARTICULATE,WELL SPOKEN does not equate brilliance or education excellence,If you are truly a lawyer you should know this...I know several people who can't speak very good English but excel well in academics and vice versa.


At this point I need to ask,what is your choice in a life partner? a 2:1 graduate or a articulate well spoken 3rd class graduate, because you made me understand that you aren't bothers about her 3rd class but why she had it or are you just following the norm of creating unnecessary problems because ladies have ridiculous reasons to reject a guy?

Lolz,your post is getting under my skin like you called it because you are belittling a lady you want to marry for funny reasons
And you have some bloated egos too

[i]I hope with these few words of mine I have been able to convince and not confuse you about my stand on the issue Mr Lawyerman .

can you now epp me like the pinshure [/i]Hmmmm u make me smile I swear,u re very correct my dear,i can help but steer @ ur pix I like de sense of ur judgement.

Diplomaticbeing:
@OP

Before you crucify a possible faithful girl, kindly take note that something like the kind of primary and secondary education she had could have been the major reason she graduated with a 3rd class. Besides, to graduate from FUTO is not easy, especially for someone that attended a community primary and secondary schools in the hinterland. Most of the people that came through the aforementioned backgrounds normally passed their SSCE and JAMB through runs (sometimes not because they wish to, but because of the poor standards of the schools/teachers, coupled with poverty and misconceptions about corruption being the means to attain greatness in life). Therefore, they always finds it hard to assimilate quickly when they finds themselves at the higher institutions.

As a lawyer you said you're, I'd expects you to use your analytical and sensitive attributes/attitudes to know her level of IQ and personality traits. . . . Believe you me, I only need less than a day of physical contact with someone to know the person's attributes and level of IQ.

Don't judge her by her past or formal academic grade, rather make your decision based on whom she presented herself to be at present. Good luck.