Hi guys! I know you all are going to call me gay, queer or whatever you want but please listen to me. Here let me first narrate the situation.
I am Harsh, 17 Indian. My mothers has an British ancestry and one of my maternal uncle is fully british and has a son Miche 24. His wife has passed away when my Miche was 12. So he frequently either stays at my home or either we go there. So, when I was 15 I came out to Miche as I was very close to him. To which he was happy and was like"Really? Oh god!" Then he too confessed he was gay and has had sexual relationship with men and women in the past. In my birthday when we finished celebrating. At 12 in night Miche asked for a long drive. There he kissed on my cheek in his car and confessed his love. I was very shy but I was young( in my POV) I agreed without thinking he's my bro. After sometime he moved in to live with us as his father had to shift to some other country due to his job. We both shared the same room and you know what happened. Like he's 187 cm tall and has a good body and is fair and blond. I was very attracted to him and we'd had sex like everyday. There were condoms used as Miche managed to get them. But after sometime he'd start to act possessive and mad for talking to other men. He almost made me ignore all my friend by constantly fighting with me. Calling me a LovePeddler, slut and later on according to him my pants started to get tighter because I was a LovePeddler and my shirts became more revealing because I wanted to every man, according to Miche. He would Bleep me harshly make me do some 'cheap' sexual acts which I don't want to describe. My parents are always out of home because they work for big projects so Miche and I end staying alone. He'd even film me giving me a MouthAction. Some weeks ago I arrived late at home and he argued that I was fucking the black guy next-door and called me a cock LovePeddler. To which I slapped him and then he hit me like a dog. I cried and asked him to stop but he continued to hit me. Next day I said to the doctor that I fell down. I feel suicidal as I cant break up with him because even if I do he's gonna be near me and he even has a lot of our videos and pics. I feel like hanging my self.

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Sorry but you will be called more than what you up there. I just pray they see the "suicidal" part and "tamper bashing justice with mercy

Baby run!!
Jeez, you're suffering . Can't you report to security officials? Tell your parents? Tell older ones you respect.
Common harsh, you deserve the best, leave the relationship and make sure you don't go back and..... Don't hang yourself, you are worth full.
Run!!!

mysticgal:
Baby run!!
Jeez, you're suffering . Can't you report to security officials? Tell your parents? Tell older ones you respect.
Common harsh, you deserve the best, leave the relationship and make sure you don't go back and..... Don't hang yourself, you are worth full.
Run!!!

Wrong thread I suppose.. ..

Lol

And OP, you better think about your life.

It's one thing to be gay. Another to be incestuous and another to be a incestuous gay!

kaboninc:


Wrong thread I suppose.. ..

Lol

And OP, you better think about your life.

It's one thing to be gay. Another to be incestuous and another to be a incestuous gay!

It's not wrong.. This boy is just young and it's wrong if he suffers this young whether gay or not, his safety comes first before his sexuality besides he's human.




BTW
I missed you sha :p

Don't take you life and don't let the frustration get to you.

You need to tell your parents what's going on.They will be upset but they will help you sort out this.

So you are in a relationship with your own cousin. He is living in your house and is abusing you. Your own house? First and foremost, you must try to be nice to him again. Hack into his phone and get those videos and pics transferred to you and deleted from his phone.

Also hack into his laptop and email just in case he has backup there. Then make sure you make videos of him doing sexual acts as well. Even if in secret and he doesn't know. Then annoy him and let him hit you.

Call your parents and tell them that he has been sexually abusing you since you were 15, and he is beating you and threatening you if you stop. come out to your parents to call his bluff and let him know on his way out that you have videos of him as well. So if he likes, he can release your own and you will release his own too. The fact is you are gay, come out to your parents. They will be angry, but they will get over it. You are who you are, don't let anyone blackmail you with that. Cover your tracks for future damage, come out to your parents and call his bluff. Also, always always use protection in all your future affairs and never ever make videos or take pics.

You are gay and incestuous and worst of all an indian on NL?

Eleyi o gidi gan!!!

Have you tried TB Joshua?

mysticgal:


It's not wrong.. This boy is just young and it's wrong if he suffers this young whether gay or not, his safety comes first before his sexuality besides he's human.




BTW
I missed you sha :p

My dear, he's got a whole lot of issues...that is if the story is true.





BTW, yeah I've missed you too. You just abandoned me and be following money. I dey here oh. Dey wait you!

Hmm. Interesting.

Does your mum know about your sexuality? And where do you stay? I guess not Nigeria.

The fact that he has videos of you shouldn't make you tie your self down to him for life. You can always claim that he blackmailed you into doing those videos (which I think is what he did anyway).

One way or another, you'd have to come out to your mum (or someone close you can trust), lest you end up getting killed by him (whether intentional or not).


On another note, I agree with what baby124 wrote

Dude, no need for any more hide and seek...just tell your parents. They would take it from there. Wetin you seek for another man/boy chest you go explain, but before then pls tell your parents. All will be well, there's nothing under the sun the world hasn't seen before. Brace up, suicide is a no-no. Sorry dear.

first gay I'll consider cute.... Who thinks this dude acts like a typical girl?
Cuute boy.

My guy, you are really bold to come to nairaland to spin this.


This is the only place that will hasten your suicidal ideation.

Check other more accommodating sites please. Thanks.

thorpido:
Don't take you life and don't let the frustration get to you.

You need to tell your parents what's going on.They will be upset but they will help you sort out this.

So that his father will help him take his life. Good advice.

Harshiyer12

You are British Indian, homose.xual and you have come to an African / Nigerian forum to seek advice on your homos.exual, abusive relationship with your cousin?

Do you want more abuses?

Boy! What is wrong with you?

Of all these forums online, you have chosen this one to find solutions?



I do not know what to tell you other than that your subconscious mind for some reason is out for more abuse.

Mindfulness:
Harshiyer12

You are British Indian, homose.xual and you have come to an African / Nigerian forum to seek advice on your homos.exual, abusive relationship with your cousin?

Do you want more abuses?

Boy! What is wrong with you?

Of all these forums online, you have chosen this one to find solutions?



I do not know what to tell you other than that your subconscious mind for some reason is out for more abuse.

Lol! Makes you wonder what @op's real intentions are

EfemenaXY:


Lol! Makes you wonder what @op's real intentions are

Some are here to generate traffic, I guess.

Please tell your mum before he ends up destroying your life.

harshiyer12, tell your mum but first get irrefutable evidence of him making the blackmail threat. use phone recorder without disclosing it. mum would know how to handle things. peeps it was right for him to come to the family section on child abuse.

Go to the police and report him.

Next, get a professional psychological help.

No matter what you're told, being gay is evil. Being incestuously gay is double evil.

Get help fast.

There are people who have overcome these problems, you can too.

Please go to the cops and report the abuse. Don't wait until he kills you, because that's the next step for him.

what is this am reading??
go to quora or redddit and ask them. not here.

Farmerforlife:


So that his father will help him take his life. Good advice.

Talk wey we say make baba no hear,na baba go still sort the matter.

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Welcomme:
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Are you ok?

going tru peoples comment and am wondering if it was same thing i read ...

this thing na story na ....