Dating a married man is also unfair to you because you run the risk of becoming emotionally vulnerable with a man who is unable to commit to you. Knowing the signs of whether or not you're dating a married man can help protect your heart and sanity.

Step 1

A married man does not want you showing up at his home, take notice if the man you're dating never invites you over and makes excuses if you invite yourself. Become suspicious if he seems reluctant to disclose his address.

Step 2

A married man risks getting caught when he takes you out in public. Men who repeatedly choose remote locations or avoid high profile destinations, give rise to suspicion. Some married men may not want to go out at all, suggesting staying in and cuddling instead.


Step 3

Men who always arrive late may have something to hide. A married man cannot tell his wife where he goes when he comes to see you, so he will often run late because he had trouble getting away from his wife. If the man you are dating constantly shows up late and makes excuses about why, he could be married.

Step 4

Meeting a boyfriend's family marks the progression to seriousness in many relationships. If you date a man for a considerable length of time and do not get an invitation to meet his family, consider asking him why.

Step5

A married man cannot give you his home phone number because his wife or children may answer the phone. The weekend provides time for couples and families to relax and do things together. If the man you date becomes scarce on the weekends, he may be spending time with his wife and children. The same holds true for major Holidays.

Step 6

If your boyfriend becomes much more distant in public than when the two of you are alone, he could be afraid of recognition. A cheating man never knows when he will run into an in-law or his wife. Keeping his distance from you in public makes it less likely that people will see you as a couple.

If your boyfriend finds excuses not to stay the night with you, be cautious. A married man would alert his wife to his suspicious behavior if he spent repeated nights away from home...

Nice one,

But 78% of the single girls here on Nairaland will ask you one question...

Who single men don epp??


We are in a debased society now.... .:just yesterday I read a thread on Nairaland justifying reasons girls would rather date a married man.

Things that were before now considered sacrilegious are now a norm in our country Nigeria.

Isn't it a conundrum that a single girl will date a married man, take money from him to snap pre-wedding pictures with their single lover and plan a wedding?


81% of Nigerian ladies see romantic relationships as a job opportunity or better still a pension... that explains the rise of supposedly respected women becoming baby mamas to riff-raffs with nothing but fame.

In the first place why the hell he denies he's married?