Met this damsel, we exchanged contacts same day and after about a week of frequent calls and whatsapp chats, I decided to ask her out on a date which she accepted. At the eatery, I told her about my desire of making her my bae. She blushed, good sign right? After all from our chats and calls it was evident we have a connection but to my surprise, I got a shocker. "George, I can't date you. I'm in a relationship with someone else and I don't double date but I'll like us to be friends" she said. I kept my cool, didn't press further as I wouldn't want to be in such relationship again.



Fast forward to yesterday, 7:50pm. 2 years, 6 months and 1 day passed since we first met. She broke up with her guy 5 months ago due to unfaithfulness and I've dated 3 ladies since then. See? We've grown, our relationship was no exception, I was now a bona fide member of the NFA (Nairaland FriendZoned Association). Even worst was the fact that I was in the "I don't want to ruin our friendship zone" despite that I always remind her of how badly I wanted her.


In my usual manner of letting her know my intentions, I got the ever "I don't want to ruin our friendship" but this time, I wasn't ready to settle for less. I told her that this will be the last of me asking and after this she should forget about me but I still got same reply...I fired again, if u still don't want us to be together because of the friendship you so much cherish, then count me out of it. She paused and begged me not to say stuffs like that. I noticed she was getting emotional, so i tried to reason with her...

ME...okay, let's have a test run relationship for 2weeks. In fact, 1 week and see how things go and if after 7 days u still don't want me as ur BF then we end it.

HER... *laughs* I have never heard that before, btw who does that...?

ME...I don't know, haven't tried it with anyone before but I'm willing to take step. Do u accept?

HER...hmmm. U sound so confident, what makes you so sure that after the 7days, I'm gonna be yours?

ME...people fall in love at first sight, 7days might even be too much for me as I know u also have feelings for me.

ME...*in a calm voice* I may sound confident but the truth is, I'm equally scared of my proposal...for I might end up loosing a friend whom I cherish so much.

HER...okay...I accept. *laughs* you have less than 7 days to make me fall in love with you.



The problem now is that I'm confused, as I don't know how to go about the whole ish... Should I call her more often than usual, visit her more, even get her more gifts or just be myself; my none romantic self. 3days after my deadline, she'll be leaving the country for vacation and we might not see till next year as I'll also be traveling.

So no beta plan on how to go abt dis b4 proposing ur 7 days faln in lov tn? My guy,any one dat is really meant 4 u wil neva giv u headache to get. If she is urs, she wil com back 2 u.. Don't look pity or in desperate 4 her love or she wil just sees u as her maga. I pray it works for u sha.

U are confused as fvck bro....



Never rush a girl..

tee59:
So no beta plan on how to go abt dis b4 proposing ur 7 days faln in lov tn? My guy,any one dat is really meant 4 u wil neva giv u headache to get. If she is urs, she wil com back 2 u.. Don't look pity or in desperate 4 her love or she wil just sees u as her maga. I pray it works for u sha.

These are signs the girls don't like you back, just forget her because if she loves you, you could have been dating since last 2 years

tee59:
So no beta plan on how to go abt dis b4 proposing ur 7 days faln in lov tn? My guy,any one dat is really meant 4 u wil neva giv u headache to get. If she is urs, she wil com back 2 u.. Don't look pity or in desperate 4 her love or she wil just sees u as her maga. I pray it works for u sha.

abi o.. You never plan finish, you dey propose.

1. Be simple. Dont talk about you guys dating blaa blaa.
Don't brag. Be confident.
Hug her once in a while.
Hold her waist sometimes,
Take her on a walk nd Hold her hand.
If you like don't call her 'bae'
On the seventh day, kiss her.



Don't shower yeye gifts o, yu might turn her off.

NevetsIbot:
abi o.. You never plan finish, you dey propose.

1. Be simple. Dont talk about you guys dating blaa blaa.
Don't brag. Be confident.
Hug her once in a while.
Hold her waist sometimes,
Take her on a walk nd Hold her hand.
If you like don't call her 'bae'
On the seventh day, kiss her.



Don't shower yeye gifts o, yu might turn her off.

tnx

Kalatium:


These are signs the girls don't like you back, just forget her because if she loves you, you could have been dating since last 2 years

so u didn't see the part where I wrote that we were both in other relationships at one point or the other, I don't double date and neither do I want to be in a relationship triangle AGAIN ... This is the only time we are both single

KissChrix:
So, you want to spend 7 full days chasing after worshipping a girl?

lol...no, I have things to do na. Work to go to

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dnt bother calling, texting, visiting her for 7days so she will knws that ur life doesnt depend on her....by so doing, u re putting her on suspense and she would wanna inquire wut the problem is..

YUNGLURD:
dnt bother calling, texting, visiting her for 7days so she will knws that ur life doesnt depend on her....by so doing, u re putting her on suspense and she would wanna inquire wut the problem is..

this seems tempting, will be leaving for ogun state tomorrow and will return saturday night...maybe we should just talk on phone b4 I leave instead of us hanging out this evening

tee59:
So no beta plan on how to go abt dis b4 proposing ur 7 days faln in lov tn? My guy,any one dat is really meant 4 u wil neva giv u headache to get. If she is urs, she wil com back 2 u.. Don't look pity or in desperate 4 her love or she wil just sees u as her maga. I pray it works for u sha.

yeap, no beta plan o...will give ur advice a try

Okworigeorge:
so u didn't see the part where I wrote that we were both in other relationships at one point or the other, I don't double date and neither do I want to be in a relationship triangle AGAIN ... This is the only time we are both single

I get you, buh wat am saying is to forget the girl.

Kalatium:

I get you, buh wat am saying is to forget the girl.

after my test_run and she still refuses, I'll delete her number.

My brother something tells me u jst want to smash!!...

Cuz to me ur abt to waste 7days of ur life. There's no way she can fall for u the babe has already Zero her mind dat she can't date u.

She broke up with her bf and it took her 5months to give u a short.

Trust me everything is jst gona feel awkward for her.

mrkay101:
My brother something tells me u jst want to smash!!...

Cuz to me ur abt to waste 7days of ur life. There's no way she can fall for u the babe has already Zero her mind dat she can't date u.

She broke up with her bf and it took her 5months to give u a short.

Trust me everything is jst gona feel awkward for her.

I was in a relationship till a month ago and I wasn't aware of her breakup till last week

she knows you well by now since you have been friends. she must have a reason for declining your offer. or she might just be playing "catch me if you can"

PrettyClare7:
she knows you well by now since you have been friends. she must have a reason for declining your offer. or she might just be playing "catch me if you can"

hmmm...do u think I have a chance?

Okworigeorge:
hmmm...do u think I have a chance?

unless she has difficulty when it comes to taking decisions you don't stand a chance.

over all you know very well the facts of your relationship,so I believe you should know deep down whether you stand a chance

PrettyClare7:
unless she has difficulty when it comes to taking decisions you don't stand a chance.

over all you know very well the facts of your relationship,so I believe you should know deep down whether you stand a chance

but I think I have a slight chance. maybe 25% cos of recent I noticed she has been kind of jealous, always asking abt my EX. if she sees a lady's pix on my fon, she always ask who she is. The last 2 weeks, she has visited 4 times; b4 then was just twice this year...

I think her decision making might have been altered by the fact that I have never for once said I love her

Okworigeorge:
but I think I have a slight chance. maybe 25% cos of recent I noticed she has been kind of jealous, always asking abt my EX. if she sees a lady's pix on my fon, she always ask who she is. The last 2 weeks, she has visited 4 times; b4 then was just twice this year...

I think her decision making might have been altered by the fact that I have never for once said I love her

lol if you think so then by all means woo her. I wish its a movie so I could watch.

PrettyClare7:
lol if you think so then by all means woo her. I wish its a movie so I could watch.

will drop update after the 7th day for u then but do u think she'll be that wooed? Or should I just tell her that I love her even though I hardly say those words, can't even remember the last time I said it

Okworigeorge:
will drop update after the 7th day for u then but do u think she'll be that wooed? Or should I just tell her that I love her even though I hardly say those words, can't even remember the last time I said it

I think you should woo her. go on dates,see movies together, cook,play games and if you think she is getting along well enough then you can disclose your love... if after enjoying the time spent with you and she declines then you should know something else is her reason.

PrettyClare7:
I think you should
1]woo her.
2] go on dates,
3]see movies together,
4] cook,
5]play games
and if you think she is getting along well enough then you can disclose your love... if after enjoying the time spent with you and she declines then you should know something else is her reason.

Done 1 and 2
No time for 3 and 4
She's not into 5

Okworigeorge:
after my test_run and she still refuses, I'll delete her number.

Very good, I'll advice you to start approaching many gals at the same time so that one won't be doing you Shakara