badejob:
Seriously!! My husband is sooooo freaking prideful!!

I finally caught him, right?? Finally hard evidence to show his family that he broke his promises to contacting an ex there..that they even were thinking of his ex girlfriend to come over to America after his papers..he was encouraging it, etc..the family has intervened once I turned to hard evidence over..

I know for CERTAIN the family backs me as the true wife & that he presented me as his true wife..not only that, he lies about little stuff!!

He couldn't even admit he was drunk off his butt the other night!! Talking about he was stumbling heavy cos he was "tired"..oooooo!!

Smdh..he even can't admit when he do little things!! Like he even lie to his brothers..even his Pastor over little nonsense things (like how we overslept for church one time by accident & he wanted me to back him & tell the Pastor he had worked overnight instead!!) He claims he wants to keep a "low profile"..

Is this a common Nigerian male trait to be so prideful that he can't admit mistakes or is it just a plain lying habit?? ooooooo

HARDDON:
For a start , Nigerian men tolerate alot of bull craps others in d western world wudnt, hence he is able to put up with u..
From ur tone , u r full of drama.

Secindly, you cant be with a liliputian, infinisimal 1 in number n use it to judge a country of a 190million souls. This is not an integral equation, dont know if u can fathom that.


N lastly, stop blowing your top cos ur menstrual flow is about to start

HARDDON:



N lastly, stop blowing your top cos ur menstrual flow is about to start

badejob:
Seriously!! My husband is sooooo freaking prideful!!

I finally caught him, right?? Finally hard evidence to show his family that he broke his promises to contacting an ex there..that they even were thinking of his ex girlfriend to come over to America after his papers..he was encouraging it, etc..the family has intervened once I turned to hard evidence over..

I know for CERTAIN the family backs me as the true wife & that he presented me as his true wife..not only that, he lies about little stuff!!

He couldn't even admit he was drunk off his butt the other night!! Talking about he was stumbling heavy cos he was "tired"..oooooo!!

Smdh..he even can't admit when he do little things!! Like he even lie to his brothers..even his Pastor over little nonsense things (like how we overslept for church one time by accident & he wanted me to back him & tell the Pastor he had worked overnight instead!!) He claims he wants to keep a "low profile"..

Is this a common Nigerian male trait to be so prideful that he can't admit mistakes or is it just a plain lying habit?? ooooooo

fellis:
Op ignore the rude people that addressed you na so NL men be.

And to answer your question, many of them are proud. Yes.
I don't know what exactly makes them so full of themselves. Even the ones wey never acheive anything for this life go dey raise shoulder.

Asnd tell your husband your grieviances about his behaviour if you want him to change or improve.

fluxbush:
Most Nigerian men are proud,arrogant and compulsive liars. Even when caught in their sins, they will never admit their faults but try to twist it all to make it seem like the woman's. The only advice you will be given is go down on your knees and pray for him but never try to leave him. You can see the manner the first two posters attacked you personally instead of refuting your claims. Typical Nigerian behaviour.

Welcome to the world of Nigerian men and their double standards.

nnamdibig:



It will be very shameful if you end up marrying a Nigerian man.
So being proud is now a "Nigerian man" thing ba?
Pls show me a man that is prideful?

Olanna45:
First and foremost, there is no such word as "Prideful"

Secondly, not all Nigerian men are liars and proud.

Finally, no country has a monopoly of proud men who lie too.

So please, stop the generalization.

fluxbush:
Bia nwoke m,if you can't understand simple grammar, then stop disturbing my mentions. Show me where I insinuated in my post that only Nigerian men are proud. Did I even say all Nigerian men are proud?

I am married to one of the rare breed of Nigerian men . Simple, confident and intelligent. As for showing you a 'prideful' Nigerian man,look in the mirror.

Diplomaticbeing:


Come on! The word "prideful" do exist. When someone is not just proud but also assumes that she's more smart or beautiful or pious than others, the person is termed prideful. Much more like conceit.

HARDDON:
For a start , Nigerian men tolerate alot of bull craps others in d western world wudnt, hence he is able to put up with u..
From ur tone , u r full of drama.

Secindly, you cant be with a liliputian, infinisimal 1 in number n use it to judge a country of a 190million souls. This is not an integral equation, dont know if u can fathom that.


N lastly, stop blowing your top cos ur menstrual flow is about to start

Olanna45:
guess i need to update my dictionary. thank you.

nnamdibig:


One of the rare breed of Nigerian men..........who him mama soup no sweet.
Bia Nwanyi m, I won't disturb ur mentions again.

FortuneTeller:
Diplomaticbeing

I have read her other posts. D guy is using her for greencard marriage. He is a liar.

Richy4:

Have you ever heard of stereotype? I guess not because if you have, you would have known that it is dangerous to paint everyone with the same brush... I'm even shocked that she lives in US.. isn't she suppose to know how to choose her words wisely and careful before generalizing? and making headlines...

fluxbush:
Most Nigerian men are proud,arrogant and compulsive liars. Even when caught in their sins, they will never admit their faults but try to twist it all to make it seem like the woman's. The only advice you will be given is go down on your knees and pray for him but never try to leave him. You can see the manner the first two posters attacked you personally instead of refuting your claims. Typical Nigerian behaviour.

Welcome to the world of Nigerian men and their double standards.

fellis:


look at who is talking about choosing words carefully and making hasty generalizations. Abeg no make me laff this afternoon.

Op asked a simple question and you attacked with insults that made her seem like an irresponsible person yet you have the effrontery to complain about others choosing words carefully.


Gerrarahere mehn.

fluxbush:
Was this really necessary?

FortuneTeller:
Diplomaticbeing

I have read her other posts. D guy is using her for greencard marriage. He is a liar.

Onegai:
Badejob, I guess you've confirmed that he did marry you for his Immigration papers. We tried telling you but you kinda kept finding justifications in the face of mounting evidence. Which is somewhat understandable.

Move on. Move on or make a decision to stick with him and use him too for what you can get out of it. I did mention that there were plenty Nigerian men who are not trying to find a quick way to legalise their citizenship through a sham marriage. So if you're gonna date, go for those ones. And don't meet and get married under 2 months, it rarely works out even for people with the best intentions.

All of you insulting her, well done. Her husband married her with wife in Naija. His family are playing silly mental games to keep her unsuspecting and protect "their brother". She sef messed up too (saw red flags and ignored it) but won't you be angry that someone swore he loved you and wedded you because he wanted a passport for him and his wife? A wife whom he is telling her is just his "ex-gf". Instead of bros to go and pay a sharp Naija-American babe to get kpalli, he did it cheaply by faking romance.