Acidosis:
...speechless but I love your courage. I don't know which aspect to address as you've raised a lot of issues: family life, business, living in Nigeria, etc. However, my prayer is that God will see you through and guide your steps.

Could I stay in Nigeria and live happily ever after? Yes, some people are actually happy and comfortable living in Nigeria. You only need to define what comfortability means to you (which I think you've done - happy living at home with hubby and children). If comfortability to you means: 100% power supply, lack of mosquitoes or absence of noise, you may need a rethink.

Continue to discuss the business idea with your husband, and possibly, hire me (for a market-research/business plan/or feasibility study on your idea). I have a few comprehensive sample I could give at no cost for your perusal, although none on your preferred idea (restaurant).

I wish you all the best.

pendusky:

Guy it been long I read ur post... how u??

@Op welcome to Nigeria...

Acidosis:

I'm good bro, and you?

enoqueen:
Hmmmmm
U are naive.
Take ur time sha!

fijiano202:
It all comes down to ur expectation...its kinda easy to live in nigeria cos people are really good with minding their business so u wont feel diff but life without money in nigeria is kinda hard

Captainbells:
@bolded, which Nigeria are you talking about?

fijiano202:
Same..all depends on where u grow up

Captainbells:

you have one or two family members who wants to know every litle detail

fijiano202:
Hunny my parents never allowed such, but you don't rule out your family because you are trying to bring up your child in a certain kind of way.

Captainbells:

FortuneTeller:
Do you need constant power or internet? Are you afraid of malaria? Are you ok with your husband cheating? I won't discourage you because I know some foreigners who have been in Nigeria for years. They are truly happy and have no desire to return to their homeland. But make sure you have something to go home to in case things don't work out. Before you leave, place some money in account that only you can access. When you go to your husband and he wants to know about money, tell him you only have a specific amount. Always keep up with how much you have spent from that figure so your husband does not suspect anything. For example, if you have 10,000 pounds of savings, put aside 7,000 in a private account and tell your husband you have 3,000. He is going to chop the money for various things until it's gone. At that point, he has to believe you don't have any more or you may find yourself in a bad situation. Once your money is finished, you will see your true Nigerian husband.

Captainbells:

@bolded, which Nigeria are you talking about?

Arijude:
lol ya bad woman

fijiano202:
Same..all depends on where u grow up

FortuneTeller:
Do you need constant power or internet? Are you afraid of malaria? Are you ok with your husband cheating? I won't discourage you because I know some foreigners who have been in Nigeria for years. They are truly happy and have no desire to return to their homeland. But make sure you have something to go home to in case things don't work out. Before you leave, place some money in account that only you can access. When you go to your husband and he wants to know about money, tell him you only have a specific amount. Always keep up with how much you have spent from that figure so your husband does not suspect anything. For example, if you have 10,000 pounds of savings, put aside 7,000 in a private account and tell your husband you have 3,000. He is going to chop the money for various things until it's gone. At that point, he has to believe you don't have any more or you may find yourself in a bad situation. Once your money is finished, you will see your true Nigerian husband.

Mayflowa:


Go joor
Which kain thing be this. Your advice is good but you ruined it by adding " you will see your true Nigeria husband" That is not necessary to say of husbands and wives