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Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by capitalise(m): 6:20am On Dec 18, 2016 |
video or idontbelievit!!! |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by basadenet: 6:20am On Dec 18, 2016 |
OKeokpa: That can't happen because they would have been doing it before getting to that stage, except if they have not. |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by ylaa(f): 6:36am On Dec 18, 2016 |
God bless you for this reply. Especially point number 3. You have said it all. More wisdom to u sir. And May God bless you again n again. quote author=bbmpin post=52017732] There are so many things that you need to take into consideration before judging her action! How true is the story?(Nigerian bloggers create and inflate stories to drag traffic) Is she "in"love with him? Did she really want to marry him? (maybe she needed an excuse to walk away) Then you also have to look at things "religiously" Its very possible that she is a "devoted christian" and didn't want to commit herself to such fetish crap (very plausible) Women are usually faithful in marriage naturally, doesn't make any sense at all for her to create doubts about her commitment to her fiance. [/quote] |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Aystarz: 6:37am On Dec 18, 2016 |
bbmpin: Women are no longer NATURALLY FAITHFUL IN MARRIAGE. They've gone wild as the men. So oga bring that head out of the Sands. You be ostrich?? |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by sucess001(m): 6:56am On Dec 18, 2016 |
Assuming the story of true....y didn they ask t husband to swear too? |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Lincoln275(m): 7:01am On Dec 18, 2016 |
may b the guy is impotent and they kept it as secret,how do u want that lady to take that kind of thing when she knows that she will have it outside |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by riczy(m): 7:04am On Dec 18, 2016 |
Ppl still pin their faith n trust in Dat tin called juju,its serious, there is a place were such "crap" ar neutralised! |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Tajbol4splend(m): 7:05am On Dec 18, 2016 |
[quote author=Sandydayziz post=52018sa334][/quote] Honey Sandy |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by petomas(m): 7:08am On Dec 18, 2016 |
Nnetriplet:Lolz. That one doesn't happen in Idoma Land though |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Xtfield(m): 7:25am On Dec 18, 2016 |
They should have asked the man to swear first that he will not sleep with another woman except the wife! |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by BrutusOj(m): 7:29am On Dec 18, 2016 |
liars everywhere |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by tete7000(m): 7:40am On Dec 18, 2016 |
Why should anyone made someone swear? Marriage should be built on mutual trust, if there is none, forget it! By the way, was the man taking the same oath or it was meant to only enslave the woman while the man has freedom to do as he likes knowing the woman has taken an oath? 1 Like |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Bahddo(m): 7:44am On Dec 18, 2016 |
bbmpin:women are usually faithful in marriage naturally? You know nothing Jon Snow. |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Oluwalosheleyi(m): 7:49am On Dec 18, 2016 |
TrapQueen77:Nope, the name "palm wine" is a misnomer; it should be palm water. |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Sandydayziz(f): 7:50am On Dec 18, 2016 |
Tajbol4splend:Halooo |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by purple3091: 7:50am On Dec 18, 2016 |
kevoh:ok,am quoting you back to correct your errors! It is contradiction to choose which parts of african tradition to follow/which suit you and say you are traditionally african while still using un-african objects,names(like you gave example) and languages etc...as simple as that...my first quotes that you quoted when you say you disagree completely,do you mean those things are african?because that would be a lie!and then here you are choosing certain parts you think are good(cellphones,modern clothes,etc) for you to follow,and discard the ones you think are bad(englich/arabic names,abrahamic religions etc) <<<all these examples are clearly un african yet you think some are 'good' and others 'bad' ,i'll give you an example to prove my point,if someone uses your sense of reasoning but vice versa(as in says that cellphoes,modern clothes etc are unafrican/'bad'(as in he wants a 'normadic' type of lifestyle) but that arabic,english names,abrahamic religions are 'good'/african as in adding like you added for his reason that they traditions and cultures evolve with time etc) yet says he is traditional following african,would you agree/disagree with him?...cos if your method of reasoning is used it means he is still tradition following..just saying.. 4 Likes |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by zub(m): 7:55am On Dec 18, 2016 |
Laveda:thats if she has conscience. 1 Like |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by purple3091: 8:03am On Dec 18, 2016 |
fabulous85:their's a difference between love,lust and like ,that is why among many other reason,that i dont divorce.a man is foolish,igonarant,arrogant,or in denial if he thinks that a woman will forever be attracted to one man/her husband only.because there are many men wanting to have(i mean physical intimacy!) a woman than vice versa,i mean as in if one had to take two people,lets say one average looking woman and one average looking man,and they are both Hot for the night,so they both stand with a sign that they want a partner for one night stand/whatever,the woman would have the longer line/que...shows my point.therefore in this modern times where...1) women are getting more self sufficient etc...2)there's protection..3)there's contraceptive.it is simple! 3 Likes |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by cuteme88(f): 8:04am On Dec 18, 2016 |
Why the woman alone? even if the swearing of a thing is a must it should be both the man and woman. what kinda tradition is that? I also attended a traditional delta wedding whereby the woman was not asked to swear but a ritual was done on her in case she cheats on her man she will die. i now ask the husband that what if u cheat on your wife, he replied me that nothing will happen that the ritual is meant for the woman alone. why are we women treated in such an unfair way? I'm not saying we women don't cheat but the men does it too. when there is a temptation too big to resist, anything can happen but lets not be selective in what we do. both men and women can fall victims of infidelity! lets think reasonable and stop shifting this on the woman alone I can't say she made the right or wrong choice but it depends on the kinda words she was asked to swear in. If i were to be in her shoes and cant take the word in i would do the same thing! Marriage No be by force*** |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by eldoradoxx: 8:05am On Dec 18, 2016 |
purple3091:. Nothing has happened to you yet, but in my tradition, something must happen to you. Perhapd |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by ikemesit4477: 8:05am On Dec 18, 2016 |
TrapQueen77:may I ask where you are coming from? |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by ikemesit4477: 8:19am On Dec 18, 2016 |
ObiOmaMu:maybe the guy cannot perform during their little encounter! |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Psoul(m): 8:25am On Dec 18, 2016 |
What kind of thing is dis. Did dey subject the guy to this same oath? What happens if the guy dies? What happens if the lady is no longer interested in the union and decide to leave If the man has no starting off trust on the lady, why trying to marry her? The man has a heavy problem. He should first of all go and solve his problem before getting into marriage because, the way he want to enter into the union is the wrong way. Can the man swear that at no condition must he not provide daily food for the family? Can he swear to always provide for the woman to the taste of his wife? |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Bukkiminat(f): 8:29am On Dec 18, 2016 |
OK,like the wedding was canceled? There are many reasons that could be attached to it,m sure the 'husband to be' knows about it |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Pchidexy(m): 8:31am On Dec 18, 2016 |
Believe this trash and you can believe that Buhari will fix Naija economy! Nawa for bloggers! |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by purple3091: 8:41am On Dec 18, 2016 |
eldoradoxx:even in whatever tradition you are,nothing would happen to me...anyway men need to know the facts:women do cheat,and can cheat even easily than men(its all about what is in demand,which is pusssy more than cocck),the difference is that women hide it more when cheating because men are violent & egotistical,among other reasons for hiding it! 2 Likes |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by ehispapa(m): 8:44am On Dec 18, 2016 |
ojun50: these ones can cheat!! |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Nobody: 8:46am On Dec 18, 2016 |
Did the husband first swear? |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by kevoh(m): 8:51am On Dec 18, 2016 |
First before we go on this merry-go round, I want you to define (in your terms not dictionary) what you understand as Un-African, so I will understand your angle of argument better. purple3091:You missed the whole point of my premise, which is Traditions sometimes have to evolve/adapt and discard useless practice to remain relevant. Female Genital Mutilation is a harmful tradition previously/still practiced and does not suit modern world and the victim. Would you call this a contradiction or cherrypicking if I insisted as an authority in your family to mutilate the female genitals of all your girls all in the name of tradition and irrespective of whether you uphold the tradition or not? purple3091: There's a lot of mumbled words in your post making it difficult to squeeze a meaning out of it. I'd assume you are in a hurry typing and probably preparing for church or something. Anyway, back to the above: As usual, you still miss the premise of my point, if someone chooses to do away with cellphones and cars and prefers the nomadic lifestyle, let's use a fulani for example, it does not in any way erode any of his tradition. He still remains a 100% fulani who enjoys his nunu. If he decides to use cellphones speak to his family members in other parts of Nigeria, practice modern day ranching and use cars to transport his cows to Lagos to make profit has any of this stopped him from being fulani? But when the fulani man makes a rule to henceforth call himself Akinyode Akinjide and other members of his family a full yoruba name, prevent his kids from learning the fulani language and other related cultural activities that erode his identity. You know what that means for his people in the next 200 years. |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Nobody: 8:53am On Dec 18, 2016 |
Exciton: Just a colloquial meaning "wish I had known" |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by purple3091: 9:00am On Dec 18, 2016 |
kevoh:the merry go round as you call it,started when you quoted the other quote of mine(the first you quoted) and gave contradicting opinions of what is african and not,my point on point 3 in the intial quote you quoted was that when some one says they follow african tradition,they should do so fully,without cherry picking yet still say " i am an african tradition follower" while ...1) having an english,arabic,or whatever un-african name...2)following un-african religion..3)using un-african objects...3)dressed in clothes not africa...4)etc.for me i never say am a traditional african following because i know its logically untrue,am modern. also before i answer any of your questions in this post,answer the 2 ones i asked first 4 Likes |
Re: Wedding Cancelled As Bride Refuses To Swear She'll Sleep With No Other Man by Ramaa(m): 9:02am On Dec 18, 2016 |
I will the last one to bilieve this kind of shits....nonsense |
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