Yuck! I hate flabs around the stomach area maybe the consequence of over feeding. Stretch marks puts me off as well!

Crap!... *immitates ur post*... puck... han 8 plabs jaround the stomach area. Hunnie, u do not wanna hear me immitate u. Infact ehh.. Lemme get outta here before i start summin i don't wanna start. Hopefully someone starts it for me.

Hottie, are you saying there's nothing wrong with flabs around the stomach area?

That's not what i am saying hun. It just makes me sick having to read soo many stuffs about what men hate about women.

Seems like it's the guys that aren't contended. Judging from just the post on this forum.. 97% seems to focus on the Flaws of women! What is it gan na? Is it because we don't talk about their flaws!

Wait, don't chop me raw.. i am not saying the flabs are okay. I wouldn't advice any girl to move arround with muffins (those things hanging out your stomach parts.

No one gets it.. why don't i shut up now.

I understand you, HA. Don't think I do not. What you said is true, I thought you meant something else before.

i hate visible tatoo on women, women with big belly, generally overweight women. YUk

yep i know nobody is perfect( although obviously people like vexxie and snazzydawn are closer to the realm of physical perfection than others we should take care of ourselves.many ladies have these flabs and bulging tummies because of their addiction to tantalisers,mr biggs,sweet sensation e.t.c and their phobia for anything that requires physical execise.some would call it laziness.to compound issues they keep wearing these tight and revealing tops that expose their pirelli torso.abeggi call a spade a spade,those flabs are disgusting. i await the missiles with stoic calm.ciao

Different strokes for different folks. Anyway, i simply hate flabs on girls. Alongside, i dont like overweights. Sretchmarks and big 'yansh' are also part of my turn offs in females.

NL guy's these gals go shop una one day oohhhh but that's a nice one...
personally lies,flabs and overwheight are my turn off...

who r u guys to hate on women with flabby belly or stretch marks? unh, so r u trying to say if a lady got everything u ever wanted, just because of some stretch marks, u wouldnt go 4 her.
Come on, lets be realistic here. Most women got these features, so deal with it

Oversized ladies, facial bush, love handles, stretch marks, strange hairdo & pot bellies

This is d kinda topic am down for. i dont like it when women have spots on their hands and feet in essence if the hands & feet aint proper... then
No Deal!
I dont like pot bellies too!
Dont hate me am just being real.

hmmm

It would have been better to use our energy to talk about what we like. It is always best to look at things from the positive angle!

Seun:

It would have been better to use our energy to talk about what we like. It is always best to look at things from the positive angle!

I'm afraid that I don't concur. There's nothing wrong in expressing our dislikes in addition to our likes, women can learn from both angles...

The only thing they can learn from this discussion is how to go for plastic surgery. Feminists in the house, why don't you speak up here?

Seun:

The only thing they can learn from this discussion is how to go for plastic surgery. Feminists in the house, why don't you speak up here?

This has nothing to do with Feminism, we've simply provided opinions to a straight foward question. We do not have to employ a strait-laced approach to this topic, we are free-thinkers, let democracy prevail...

Flabs...stretch marks...flabs...stretch marks...blah blah blah!!!    
I think we need a thread for what physical features turn us off in men too!
It's funny how most of the men here will end up marrying women with enormous flabs and the kind of stretch marks that my friend calls "Ara" (Lightning).

IAh leave them alone now. let them be talking... doing their mouth like typewriter. Leave them jare.

What's wrong is she's got flabs or a pot belly? If she's beautiful and has a nice stature (like lizzy), no problem. What really turns me off is when a lady is (too) hairy. Or if she's got a bad mouth/body odour.

potruding bumps in the stomach region. i think the ladies eat too much eba then they do not like drinking water, to make it worse they wear body hugs and ooooooooooooh it just crawls under my skin to see all those folds.

I guess we are just over flogging the issue here. We need say what our ladies should watch about themselves, so that they can continue to satisfy us as the queens they are. in short, flabs and overweight are not OK.

@@hot-angel, IAH
i do agree that there seems to be quite a few threads here about the ladies but i think it's a great way to find out what we men like and dislike, as its unlikely your partner will tell you, so don't take it personal..

Been overweight is definitely a turn off for me

Ain't nobody taking nun personal. Seems to be quite a few Hunnie, search well. There are lots and lots.

hot-angel:

Ain't nobody taking nun personal. Seems to be quite a few Hunnie, search well. There are lots and lots.

I'm sure they are but thats the only one from me

I still maintain that most of the guys talking here will end up marrying women with the so-called flabs.

mehnn!!! wahala dey ooo!! juss watch all thez guyz talkin... gurlzz don't mind them ooo they all hav pot bellez!! hey guyz.tell me whoz gatt hez 6 packs goin on!! not juss that!! biceps, triceps, chest, lats, shoulders..... everythang.... coz y'all juss runnin your mouths!!!!! soo who??

None of em. None at all. They are just straight like Letter I. And they r looking for a girl with figure 8. If you r soo bold and u know u have six packs, with no muffins in ur stomach. Post ur goddamn picture!

If you are saying u cant date a gurl with muffins.. Hunnie.. lemme see how the fxck u look!

Hot pls ooooo y y'all got to make her upset naw?

They didn't upset me. I just hate it when someone that knows s/he ain't all that wants something/someone that is ALL THAT!! Like hello?? Have u checked urself out??

You lot that are complaining, many of ur girlfriends have stretch marks. I lie............ I tell u the tinniest girls have stretch marks... so what the hell are u talking about. Not everyone have this thing we're talking about. if u don't fine but if u do it is natural. It is not a disease is it? Though u might complain about the fat or whatever but then stretch mark 4get it ok.............. Guys u too u do have it u know..................... Stop!!!!!!!!
Girls don't mind them. Girls Don't go extra miles to satisfy this guys 'cos sometimes they don't worth it....

tiwa:

You lot that are complaining, many of your girlfriends have stretch marks. I lie............ I tell u the tinniest girls have stretch marks... so what the hell are u talking about. Not everyone have this thing we're talking about. if u don't fine but if u do it is natural. It is not a disease is it? Though u might complain about the fat or whatever but then stretch mark 4get it ok.............. Guys u too u do have it u know..................... Stop!!!!!!!!
Girls don't mind them. Girls Don't go extra miles to satisfy this guys 'because sometimes they don't worth it....

I don't understand what the fuss is all about, we are merely stating the truth as we see it, this is our view, we don't have to alter our view(s) to suit you - I wouldn't start to tolerate stretch marks or bad breath for example, just because you think otherwise. If you were to tell me that you dislike oversize men or men who sport pot bellies, then that is your view & it is one which you are entitled to, who am I to begin to preach to you for an acceptance?

Or where you expecting us to say that we had no dislikes? If there are girls that like to sport beards or pot bellies, then that's their prerogative, if they find men who like them that way, then so be it; I certainly won't be fishing from that pond - now that's my view & my prerogative, if I may add!