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I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Fongido(m): 9:31am On Dec 21, 2016
Hello friends

Please I need your help.
I'm an asexual. I've dated a girl for one year and I've never touched her. I didn't kiss her let alone sex.
I have no sexual desires towards the opposite sex and I don't know what is wrong with me.
I've had sex twice and to be sincere I didn't enjoy it. When people talk about how enjoyable sex is, I'll feel uneasy.
A year will come and go and I won't even think of having sex bcoz there's no sexual drive.
I've been hearing about partners having problems bcoz they think their partner hasn't satisfied them sexually. That my girlfriend cheated on me too and according to her friend she claimed I didn't make her feel like a woman.
My friends like telling me that my partner will cheat on me bcoz of that.

What is wrong with me? Any solution Thanks for your help

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Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Nobody: 9:38am On Dec 21, 2016
You've said it already, you're asexual. What kind of help do you want from us? You want us to tell you how to enjoy coïtus? Bro, that's your sexual orientation and I don't think you can change it. Sex is not for everybody.
Enjoy your STD free life smiley

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Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Nobody: 9:42am On Dec 21, 2016
So nothing else turns you on?
Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Fongido(m): 9:44am On Dec 21, 2016
Fabulocity:
You've said it already, you're asexual. What kind of help do you want from us? You want us to tell you how to enjoy coitus? Bro, that's your sexual orientation and I don't think you can change it. Sex is not for everybody.
Enjoy your STD free life smiley
With this can I produce children? how would my partner cope? it's worrisome
Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Fongido(m): 9:46am On Dec 21, 2016
Xensity:
So nothing else turns you on?
Nothing.
Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Fongido(m): 9:47am On Dec 21, 2016
I'm dying inside
Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Nobody: 9:48am On Dec 21, 2016
Fongido:

Nothing.

So you've never had an erect pe.nis before?
Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Fongido(m): 9:51am On Dec 21, 2016
Xensity:

So you've never had an erect pe.nis before?
I have but not to the point of having sex.
Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Nobody: 9:54am On Dec 21, 2016
Fongido:

I have but not to the point of having sex.

Okay, so what caused the er.ection of your pe.nis? Was it something you saw, or something you thought about, or something you heard?

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Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Fongido(m): 9:58am On Dec 21, 2016
Xensity:


Okay, so what caused the er.ection of your pe.nis? Was it something you saw, or something you thought about, or something you heard?
I think it comes naturally.
Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Nobody: 10:08am On Dec 21, 2016
Fongido:

I think it comes naturally.

You are not being honest. I think you are being deliberately insincere as a means to garner attention for a "predicament" you don't have, or wish to have. It's clear you are just whoring for attention, going by how fast you reply mentions, and how you consistently comment on your thread to keep it high up on the board.

You are not asexual. The content of your earlier threads suggest that you are strongly heterosexual.

You just wasted my time.

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Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Fongido(m): 10:19am On Dec 21, 2016
Xensity:


You are not being honest. I think you are being deliberately insincere as a means to garner attention for a "predicament" you don't have, or wish to have. It's clear you are just whoring for attention, going by how fast you reply mentions, and how you consistently comment on your thread to keep it high up on the board.

You are not asexual. The content of your earlier threads suggest that you are strongly heterosexual.

You just wasted my time.
you may think what you want but I meant everything I said. thanks for your time. I hope in future I'll be able to address it
Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by gqboyy(m): 10:26am On Dec 21, 2016
nothing is wrong with you. you r absolutely ok since u r not gay

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Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by momentarylapse: 10:43am On Dec 21, 2016
You must be gay! Why don't you follow bobrisky on instagram? I'm sure he would have a lot of asexual insight for you!

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Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by blessedvikky(m): 12:37pm On Dec 21, 2016
your problem is natural and can be corrected, you are suffering from sexual anorexia ,which results from low flow of estrogen and and testosterone hormone, it can also affect ur sperm fertility in producing offspring, I will urge you to visit a specialists, the most likely drug to be recommended for you is 'Depo testosterone solution', Don't panic it has a cure, also reduce the rate of ur smoking and alcohol intake ,if you are a member, bye for now

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Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by RENOWNED2(m): 2:46pm On Dec 21, 2016
You Shouldnt Try To Force It.If It Gets Better, It Gets Better.You Dont Need To Enjoy Sex To Have A Wife And Kids...So No Worries Nobody Will Know You Are Different.
Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by omega25red(m): 3:07pm On Dec 21, 2016
Fongido:
Hello friends

Please I need your help.
I'm an asexual. I've dated a girl for one year and I've never touched her. I didn't kiss her let alone sex.
I have no sexual desires towards the opposite sex and I don't know what is wrong with me.
I've had sex twice and to be sincere I didn't enjoy it. When people talk about how enjoyable sex is, I'll feel uneasy.
A year will come and go and I won't even think of having sex bcoz there's no sexual drive.
I've been hearing about partners having problems bcoz they think their partner hasn't satisfied them sexually. That my girlfriend cheated on me too and according to her friend she claimed I didn't make her feel like a woman.
My friends like telling me that my partner will cheat on me bcoz of that.

What is wrong with me? Any solution Thanks for your help
first mistake is to self diagnose yourself and accept that diagnoses. you should speak with a physician because there might be other things going on with you.

you might have low testosterone for example or you might be suffering from depression or maybe you are on some medication that messes with your libido.

Also talk to a mental health specialist to help determine if you are indeed asexual.

the two times you had sex, did you finish? as in did you bust a nut? when you are not thinking of sex what are you thinking of? what are you more interested in doing?

since you aren't attracted to women, are you attracted to men? not insulting you but hey you might be playing for the other team and just going against it because of our culture and how people look at homosexuals[/size]
Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by ButterFrost212(f): 5:19pm On Dec 21, 2016
Just find someone that feels thesame way about sex. The worst mistake you can make is dating someone with more sex drive than you do.
There are girls that don't enjoy sex too, it might take a while but if you're determined you'll find one.

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Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by rawpadgin(m): 6:27pm On Dec 21, 2016
& i can't go a week without sex

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Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Beebim: 10:40pm On Oct 15, 2020
Send me an email, if you still want to talk on this topic
Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Anjaatise: 6:58am On Apr 06, 2022
Fongido
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Be good dear.
Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by fikayormi(m): 10:56am On Apr 06, 2022
You mean you don’t like toto and you are neither gay nor impotent

The story no clear
Re: I'm An Asexual. What Is Wrong With Me? Help by Robertgreene1(m): 12:04pm On Apr 06, 2022
The good Lord is calling u to serve him bro..
Pls hearken to him!

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